I dated my best friend and neighbor`s wife`s sister. She lives far away but we met at the wedding. We both had other people at the time and broke up with them to be together. She was very convincing with her "I love you and this was meant to be" garbage. She dumped me over the phone and has the balls to be coming to visit my buddy and his wife and stay for 2 weeks WITH her ex-boyfriend whom she is now back with. I know I`ll see them in the elevator or in the neighborhood for sure. I lost my job because of her as well but that story is way too long. I`m trying to move on but seeing them is gonna be rough since I`m the one who still isn`t working. I just don`t want to hide and I always thought that if I could find a job and get my life on track, maybe she`d come back to me. I`m an idiot right? Is it wrong for me to want some sort of revenge. its also a sore spot in my buddies marriage. no lectures, just advice please.
great advice. i guess "revenge" wasn`t the right word. I don`t want to hurt anyone. I just don`t need this right now and i know the correct solution is to forget about it and move on. but it sucks. no revenge. i just wanted it to be over but its hard when they`re gonna be right here.
also, to clarify, she convinced me to quit my job and move to where she was. when i got there, she said she changed her mind so i moved back here. that was the worst part.
great advice everyone. thanks.
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If a girl hits me in the balls for no reason, how come people seriously think I wouldn’t hit her back??
If someone kicks a man in the balls, it can cause serious damage or even kill him, so obviously I would hit her back, and hard too.
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i am in love. last year, the whole school year i was on and off with the same boy over and over again. i loved him, he made me feel so special. other people would always tell me, hes not worth it girl, hes just hurting you. all the times we were together, he was always playing with my mind, confusing me and all. he is the one known for cheating on his girlfriends. when i was with him he never cheated on me, i felt some sort of way for him, i really did. it was around July and we broke off, we stopped talking/ going out for good. he found out that one night i had hooked up with this other kid, and he got really mad, and then that was the last time i ever kissed/ seen the good part of him. the whole rest of the summer ive missed him so much, i was constantly on his myspace looking who he goes out with now, and reading his away messages. i was head over heels for him. time was going by and this september i had moved, i still visit my old house every weekend. im not that far from it! throughout this school year, i havent met one boy that made me feel as good as i felt when i was with him. i was constatnly seeing him over the weekends, and all of our memories just kept coming back to me. its now april, and i still mis him. its weird now, we’re not like friends. hes a jerk now that were not together. he always saying..SIMONE YOUR PRITT. and he had a girlfriend, and he still talks to her i think. =( im lost without him, and i dont know how to exlpain to anybody, because nobody ever understands me. i wish i could just tell him how i felt, and just get it done with. but i dont have the balls to do that. summer is coming up, and i am moving back, so i will be going to school with him again. i really hope we reunit, because i really miss him. hes such a jerk, but theres just something about him that i love. he used to buy me shit all the time, and take me to the movies. he would constantly come to my job and see me, and wait until i got off work. he would always come over, and i just miss it. on my wall he signed, "NAME" was here 4.17.09 i love you baby. and i just get so upset when i look at it. does anyone have any ideas on how i can tell him i love him without sounding like im desperate, ?i really need help,
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Okay, my boyfriend…well ex boyfriend and I just broke up. I’m in Hawaii visiting my dad, and he is back in Florida. Well he sent me a text telling me that he still had feelings for his ex and that his ex still had feelings for him. Well when he told me that, I told him that I had no problem with him leaving me for her. I also told him that I wasn’t sad because I didn’t love him. I never ever ever told him I loved him, because honestly I don’t. I think he was expecting me to call and cry and just beg him to stay, which I don’t do…with any boyfriend. I’M NOT A DOG!! Is it mean that I don’t cry, beg, and go back to him? When someone leaves I honestly don’t expect or want them back. You made your choice…and so did I. I don’t have time for people to play stupid games. I honestly am becoming a B itch because of people and their stupid, petty drama. Also I did honestly care about one guy, and you know what? He become a total douche-bag and I had to make my choice and permanently cut him out of my life. The only thing that only bothered me was that my ex didn’t have the balls to tell me when I got back, or even in a phone call. He sent a text. HOW SISSY!! Anyway is it wrong that I’m not going to cry over him?? I honestly handle things a lot different than everyone else. Also guys does it bother you to know that your ex is over you so quickly?? Any suggestions? Thanks! 
~Pamer3~4Ty: Haha you made me laugh! 
He become a total douche-bag and I had to make my choice and permanently cut him out of my life. —– I meant "became" not "become"
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