big rift in our relationship esp when he d go out with them& conveniently not invite me, or when he d hug up on them &talk dirty, or kiss them(on the cheek). He broke up with me in nov 2007 cause i was too jealous, but we still talked on the ph, in dec he found out i wasnt really divorce(even though separated), he changed his number, and i wouldnt let up, we started talking again 1 wk later & cont till april. Will from dec through april he told he still loved me but we could never be together till i was truly divorced… I didnt get a divorce, but he finally met up with me this past april by that time i had gained 15 lbs. i wanted to wait till i lost wght, but i was stubborn and saw him anyway and i told him like a dumb A he nds to choose tween me or girl friends.. And no lie, the next day, he told me he just wanted to be friends. do u think he sd that cause of the weight, or cause of the friend thing. and what should i do, how can i get him back.
thanks trysta, it really helps hearing it fr a guys point of view, i guess. it just really gets to me cus this guy is 44, hes been there done that, divorced after 18 yrs(&cheated at least with 6 girls during his marriage), and still its not out of his system… i love him so much, i wish i could let him go for good, but i always think about him, its been 6 months, and i cant let him go.
sorry meant thanks, bart is in the house.
