im a libra gal…i like ths scorpio guy,yes been close to him b4 few mths back…few mths back,we got not so good argument,actually its about im telling him tht i might in love to him 
well at tht time actually i just want cheer him up when he’s upset but at the time he got news tht his ex wanna married…he told to his close friends also tht our friendship(me n him) over already,he said the condition totally changed at tht time…
i feel so lost of him at tht time…frm sept to nov i keep remember abt him,im on purpose stop any comm with him,i know also tht the condition already different n not to so nice last time…in his bday,i gave him a special present who made him contacting me back afterward…
i was giving the present through his friend,i dont hv face to faced him at tht time…i was shocking when he said thx to me afterward…
after tht,not so long frm tht time….my dad got stroke…i didnt ask him to visit my dad in hospital but yet he still come even his house really far frm my house area…everytime i remember tht,it bcomes a strength for me to faced on my family problem now…
i got so touching coz he still care on me….yes he said it care as a friend,but i feel so great when i remember tht he still care me…
even not so intense like last time,but now we still communicate again…
now i bcome more careful on the way i behaved…i dun get any miscomm again with him,coz im scared to lost him again for 2nd time…he still want spend time with me again even yes he keep little bit distance….he told me when he got fever,i try to be care n he say thanks…
dear friends in ths forum
y he still giving me 2nd chance to communicate back with him even he really know tht i love him so much…last time when he knew it,i thought he also will forget abt me at all but now he still nice n care also 2 me…now i feel scared with my own feeling…even i meet other guys,but my mind still full of him…
oh god,i still hoping to be with him actually…lol,y God giving me 2nd chance like ths now?? 
actually im asking ths question coz i think if scorpio decide something….it will be fixed….thts y i feel bit wonder y he still gv me 2nd chance…
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I made a photoshopped card for my man’s bday and posted it in his myspace. then i found out that his ex girl, someone he dated after his divorce, posted it in her lj. granting myspace is a public forum and everyone else can see the postcard in my man’s myspace, i felt that she has no right reposting it in her site since it’s a private thing, something made with affection and not just random myspace comment that can be used by anyone else.
this is not the first time she did this. my man would write some poetries, and she would repost it in her site and claim as though it was someting written to spite her.
i am tired of her constant poking. my man has already told her to back off, still she wouldn’t. i don’t know what else to do. i started ignoring her, but am afraid that one day, she will do something again that would make me lose my head and just break it off with my fiance.
any words of wisdom out there?
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me and my bf broke up 3 months ago because it got too complicated to stay together. my dad didnt want me dating until i finished my degree (next year) and he was moving to a new city. anyways, we broke up because it was the best thing to do at the time and we decided that if we had the same feelings for each other in a year, that we will get back together, but for now we are just friends
i miss him so much and really want to be with him and i really hope that he still wants to be with me, but we went through alot with my dad and i worry that over time he might decide its not worth getting back together…
however, he still talks to me several times a week and even flirts sometimes. also, he came to town for my bday and has hung out with me a few times, invited me to his grad…is it possible that he still has feelings for me? if all he wanted was a friendship he wouldn’t act this way right?
do u think it will be possible for us to get back together next yr?
btw i am 22
and i know u will comment on the fact that my dad shouldn’t control my relationship but i live at home and he is very strict and i cant change that…
following his wishes is better than going against them, especially if we want to have a future together…
oh and we dated for a year
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My Sister-in-law called off the wedding 3 wks before the date. My whole family was supposed to be in the wedding. We had a lot of time, emotion & money invested in it. Anyway, I purchased a Mixer for 5 for her shower. She called off the wedding a week after the shower. THREE months later I asked for the gift back since my receipt was expiring. Her parents dropped off the gift. Over the next few parties, she gave my entire family the cold shoulder! I finally sent her an email to ask her if everything was ok? She said that I was being very insensitive to her situation & selfish for asking for the gift. She took a dig at my family & also said that I spread rumors about why the wedding was called off. I called her to see if we could straighten it all out & she did not respond. Finally sent her another email saying that I was sorry for asking for the gift back & that I was hurt by her accusations & comments about my family. Now she isn’t talking to us? Was I wrong?
Also, wanted to add that its 8 months after she called it off and she is dating someone new and STILL hasn’t returned the shower gifts to everyone. Besides my 5 mixer, I also pitched in 0 for a gift from the bridal party. Also what about our engagement party gifts as well??? Still haven’t been reimbursed for the 0 bridesmaid dress, my son’s tux (which I had to buy since he was so small) and my hub’s tux deposit. Besides the money, I don’t understand why she is ignoring my children (ages 5 & 2- one of which is her godson). She hasn’t come for his bday and now she isn’t coming for xmas as well. Besides wanting to know if I was in the wrong? What should I do to make this all go away?? I have already apologized for asking for the gift back… what more can I do??? I also asked her mother (my in-law) to talk to her and try to smooth it out – explain that its important for the kids. Still nothing.
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I keep on telling her how ill change and that i realized exactly what not to do in a relationship, i love you etc etc….Everyone says not to call. But i want her to think i care. Ive sent flowers, sobbed to her, ignored her and evreything… but she still says she doent know if she wans to be with me…and shes confused. Yet theres another guy in the picture now who is her best friends, boyfriends best friend, and they all dont really like me. And shes telling everyone were done, but me she says were on a break and that she just doesnt know cause she feels there nothing left for her to give anymore, because of stuff thats happened in the past.. I bought her a trip to mexico for her bday before we broke up that were suppost to leave on in 2 weeks, and she said she has no money etc.But i said getting away would maybe help us work stuff out, but if she doesnt go shouldi pretty much know its done? and what should i say to her etc. I want her back so bad… HELP
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