Soon to be Fiance Broke Up With Me, wants to reconcile, I met another girl, Is it ok to go on date, READ!!?

My girlfriend(soon to be fiance) , who I loved more than life, of 4 years broke up EXTREMELY COLDLY by email with me a month ago, citing that she needs to find herself and that I need to find myself also. In the last week she has done a complete 180 and now calls me 20 times a days saying that she is sorry for what she did, and was felt like she was having a nervous breakdown at the time and wants to get back together.I took the breakup very hard and couldn’t sleep or eat. Last week I was out with my friends and met a beautiful girl at the lounge we were at.We talked for an hour and made a date for tomorrow night. I honestly love my girlfriend more than anything, but does it hurt to go on one harmless date for drinks?



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how do you get rid of a girl or off your back without being harsh or mean? need helpful advice please…?

i went out with a beautiful girl that i loved very much over this past summer but unfortunately things went wrong and we broke up. Ever since then it’s been hard forgetting about her and moving on. I’ve had chances to start a new relationship with other girls but i’m not willing to take the risk just yet.

Recently, this girl i know from high school that used to like me contacted me on myspace and wanting to meet up. So i met up with her just as friends but i didn’t like the outcome because all she did was try to hit on me.

She’s not a bad looking girl but as i said before, i’m not ready to start a relationship or even mess around as a one night stand.. also we don’t have much in common and she is a bit on the annoying side.

so i stopped contact with her, even if she called, i just ignored the calls but just today she showed up at my work… which i have no idea how she knew.. I want to be able to tell her i’m not interested but i cant think of ways to tell her without being harsh???


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I dated this wonderful, beautiful girl for many, many months and one day when school started back, she dumped me. I was broken up and finally when I thought I was over her and had another girl, I started really seeing her alot and it made me realize that I would give anything to get her back. Can you guys help me?


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Do you Think i could ever get her back?
hey, i dont know where to start….

i was in a relationship for nearlly 2 years with a beautiful girl….

in that 2 years i did some unforgivable stuff…

for the first 9 or 10 months of our relationship…it was Bliss….perfect…nothing would have been able too stop us……except me…

i started talking to other girls and flirting….it went on for not long but i did it none the less…..

she found out…and we worked it out…but she didnt trust me (who could blame her)…..

then around 2 month later i did basically te same thing…..i hadnt learned…i got too close to a girl and the repocusions saw my girlfriend being treated horribly by me ..

anywa….another year passed and i stayed too myself… it was hard at time that she didnt trust me…(but at the time i didnt realise how much i had hurt her..)

utill one ay i started again…at first it was nothing but quickly grew into something….i was not happy in my relationship with her and saw an avenue out….i broke up with her for another girl and did not even look back……i treated her so mean throught out the break up…. she did everything to try to keep me loving her……she tried everything she could…..this girl gave me her heart and i threw it back in her face….

a few weeks later i was unhappy in my new "relationship" i missed my ex girlfriend and wanted hr back……we talked and i promised alort of thing….for 2- 3 weeks everything went good i was happy to have her back i’d go through anything to keep her by myside……

BUT once again i let her go…..she wasnt happy…andi knew she would never forgive me for what i had done…..i truely wanted her too be happy even if it wasnt with me….i had changed…i was genuine and i was sworn too myself i would never hurt her agian..

i broke up with her and told her she would be happier if she didnt have too deal with me and my problems…..

it has been 2 months since then and i have recently realised how much i need her in my life…..we’ve talked and she say’s that she still has feeling for me and she still loves me…..she’s said things like "its a pitty your such a c*** (ends with T) we are perfect together"…i really am in love with her and i cant stop thinking about her…i love her so much and she does love me too

i have so much hate inside me….for myself…..for what i did to that girl idont know how too say sorry and ow to get her to beleive me…i want to be wit her once again…and i know that i will last years if i got the chance….i would go to the end of the world and back for this girl…..i just dont know how too persuade her too have one last go….

…i know many of you will think i am such a dic****d and all the other names under the sun……..i just need some advice….i cant get her out of my head…i have changed….i just dont know where to stat…or how

thanks sorry for the LONG READ!!!!


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But im losing hope of getting her back since she started seeing this “guy” she was tearful on the breakup, and she feels bad for making me feel this way, but im not sure how to go about getting her to be mine agai.


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