I am 42 years old… people say I look 36-38, my wife is filing for divorce
and I feel like a failure. Definitely I will look to re-build my life again and find someone who will really love me as soon as I can heal my feelings because I do not want to live alone. We have kids with my wife and whoever I find will have to understand that I will be still responsible for them.
Of course I am considering these questions: Will I be able to forget my wife and erase the love I still feel for her? (It is pretty big), Will I find someone that will be as great? (I guess I will always compare them with her. Am I too old to find a beautiful woman?
When she marries again, will that hurt me more? (she says she is not thinking about that now) How many people are in my same situation or women willing to marry someone like me?
I just want to move on and start working on digging this hurtful feelings I have.
is there a limit on how much i can really write here?
i was just wondering because it never says u have such and such amount of characters left or so
i am going to copy and paste some quotes and sayings , u can read them if you r bored like me , lol but u don’t have to
f you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.
Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship – never.
You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it’s what you are expected to give — which is everything.
Love builds bridges where there are none.
Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.
The definition of a beautiful woman is one who loves me.
Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds and warming your soul.
Life without love is like a tree without fruit.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
A lawful kiss is never worth a stolen one.
Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protects you from age.
The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.
Only love let’s us see normal things In an extraordinary way.
There’s always room for love; You just have to move a few things around.
Love means never having to say you’re sorry.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
It’s so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and then don’t say it.
A lot of beautiful people are stupid. There’s a tremendous amount of idiots who look so good. It’s frightening.
A day without sunshine is like, you know, night.
As far as we know, our computer has never had an undetected error.
Being stupid is its own reward
Fiction writing is great, you can make up almost anything.
I owe a lot to my parents, especially my mother and father.
Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change.
STUPID = Smart Talented Unique Person In Demand
With fame I become more and more stupid, which of course is a very common phenomenon.
I say no to drugs, but they don’t listen.
If aliens are looking for intelligent life?! WHY THE HECK ARE YOU SCARED?!
The government is not doing enough about cleaning up the environment. This is a good planet.
Sure, it’s going to kill a lot of people, but they may be dying of something else anyway.
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the former.
I have opinions of my own –strong opinions– but I don’t always agree with them.
The spontaneous rally will begin at 1:45.
Stop being so stupid.. it’s my turn.
I don’t think anyone should write his autobiography until after he’s dead.
If you have noticed this notice you will have noticed that this notice is not worth noticing
When your dad is mad and asks you, “Do I look stupid?” Don’t answer him
You can’t just let nature run wild.
Nobody in football should be called a genius. A genius is a guy like Norman Einstein.
A low voter turnout is an indication of fewer people going to the polls.
I cannot tell you how grateful I am — I am filled with humidity.
The private enterprise system indicates that some people have higher incomes than others.
Eight more days and I can start telling the truth again.
Many wise words are spoken in jest, but they don’t compare with the number of stupid words spoken in earnest.
Failure is only a temporary change in direction to set you straight for your next success.
Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
If there exists no possibility of failure, then victory is meaningless.
A failure is a man who has blundered but is not capable of cashing in on the experience.
Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.
One must be a god to be able to tell successes from failures without making a mistake.
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.
The only real failure in life is the failure to try.
There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.
Life’s real failure is when you do not realize how close you were to success when you gave up.
Success builds character, failure reveals it.
There are no failures – just experiences and your reactions to them.
Failure is the tuition you pay for success.
A man may fall many times, but he won’t be a failure until he says that someone pushed him.
Failure is not falling down but refusing to get up.
You cannot do wrong without suffering wrong.
He who fails to plan, plans to fail.
Notice the difference between what happens when a man says to himself, “I have failed three times,
lol
and more can still be added, i stooped because my computer was freaking out at the moment and as someone stated , i thought none was gonna read them!
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