My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. Well last month was our first real big fight. I would get mad b/c she started to distant herself from me it seemed like. But that was in my view and in reality i was just so used to what the first few months were like. We just got too "comfortable" with each other. She also started texting this other guy an insane amount and I kinda confronted her and she got mad saying they were just friends. I know I should’ve overlooked it but it was hard. So eventually we were just mad at each other every day, and she decided we needed a "break" I was pissed because I have never heard of such a thing, and see it working. Well it made me realize that I was stupid about those little things and eventually we got back together a week later. Hardest week since a long time btw. So now today, recovering kind of. When I text her i get one word answers all the time, she doesn’t text me first. I did confront her and she gave me an i don’t know why. Although she texts the other guy perfectly fine, they even tell each other good night since they talk till bed time. I don’t really get those conversations anymore and hmm when I say good night or good morning…she only says Night or Morning, about every time. But she says goodnight to the other guy, she used to say goodnight to me and maybe saying darling but not anymore. Just one word answer "night". I talked to her tonight about it and she said I was reading too much into it and that she just likes using night instead. So now she used goodnight, what do i do. How do i got about recovering from this? I trust her that she only likes me, there is no question in that but just comparing the past to now and how she talks to other guys compared to her own boyfriend is just weird.
What should I do to improve it?


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From the Prarie Home Companion.
We know that young people have their problems that can lead to discomfort at bed time. They get into bed and lie as far apart as possible but with the "Deep Valley Bed, the bed with the patented trough", once in bed, no matter how hard they hold onto the edge, sooner or later their eyes will close and they will roll down to the centre of the bed.
"Deep Valey Beds (TM)" have saved more marriages than all the books written on the subject.
Sweet dreams.
Rose P.


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We have a 2 yr old kid, 16 yrs of marriage. Husb wanted a baby too, he refused any intimate relations with me after conceiving (breasfed 1 yr). He helped me in the house, shopping, is polite, had a job, but
we had no physical contact at all. He kind of loves the kid but
in a very old-style way; cold, doesnot read books to her or
take her to the park.
He asked me not to force or ask for bed time with him. He would help with the kid when ASKED,he said he was 10% an active father. I am full-time working mum, and toddler in childcare 5 h /day when not sick, and I spent mostly of time alone with kid, bcz husb not showing any interest. Now, he had interest in a co-worker, no Xmas presents for us, emotionally is detached from us, he told me about having prostitutes and wanting to leave me before having baby , to find his freedom, does not want me, will send me money for kid. Affair is over, he is depressed, no job,
he does not want to talk, to leave, to save marriage. What can I do?


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