Hello, How can I amend my little son’s behavior,he’s 10 and he’s from my ex-wife , my new wife -at the begining of our marriage-was treating him well but as soon as she got our new baby (4 years back) her altitude started to change on the negative level which affected my elder son badly , beside that he had another sister from my ex-wife too , who’s living with her away from us. Firstly he started to tell lies which has been treated partially by applying some behavioral technical advice was given to me through Dr.Adams’ online forum (www.Psychological.com)but unfortunatily I’m not able to contact with such mentioned site anymore.My e-mail is Yassereltouny@yahoo.com Thank you alot in advance for helping me with your precious advices and instant reply.
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My Heart IS BREAKING…I dont want to break up, but how do I fix him controling our sex life?
I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him…
He changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.
This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.
I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.
He usually responds to me,”sex isn’t the most important thing in our relationship,right?” Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!
I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.
I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex. I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.
I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!
my last relationship i lost any desire to have sex. and we broke up. the relationship i am in now has had a lot of problem since the begining almost a year and a half ago. he put me down alot and compared me to x girlfriends, and i was always made not good enough. to the point whether i have not recovered from these comments and just cannot enjoy having sex with me at all. i have no confidence what so ever. i never start anything. i am always thinking am i doing it right, some time i even have images of his x’s in my head whilst trying to do it. it is always in my head. he gave me a comment once saying i would need plastic surgery all over my face to be anything like as good as them. and how beautiful they all were, and they were models etc. all with attitude, and like clubbing and dancing. me being very shy. completly diferent to them. my confidence wasnt really high in the begining, but its now nothing. i walk around town and think everyone is better than me. im pregnant too. and he has tryed to make some of it better. but i dont believe him when he says your pretty, your beautiful i was an arse hole coz of my own insecurities. i didnt mean it. but even now he still says something that will go back to that time. i dont no how to fix myself. i just dont see unless i see his perception of women and beauty change how i can ever believe him, or feel relaxed and enjoy having sex with him, i always feel like im infront of judges.
10 months later I STILL HAVE CONCERNS
I had read 6 different books including Michele’s d_busting. We never went to counseling. Back in August 9, 2008 I discovered 100′s of phone calls made from my wife cellular to the manager of the PX supermarket were she used to purchase our groceries. Right after I told her about my discover she asked me for divorce.I starting reading and reading and reading desperate to save my marriage . I extracted everything from 6 different books since not everything applied to our case. I did my investigative work with not too good results. I stoped "interrogating" my wife since she was planning to fleet. We had a mix of miserable and wonderful days together.
10 months later I continue with the investigation and guess what…I found out that I was chasing the wrong OM and I called the "wrong" OMW back in Octuber last year…(sh#!@). I was close but it wasn’t enough.
Today. I know exactly who is the OM. I know the name of the OMW. They have apparently have a "happy" family. Both of them are going thru a second marriage. I told my wife from the begining that she was dealing with a married man. She didn’t believed me. She said the OM told her he was divorced and that he lived alone in an apartment. Guess what…they live in a house 7 miles from our house and the guy is the manager of a local PX supermarket.
My concern: I haven’t prove it yet but I believed they started the telephone convertations after this guy was promoted and transfered from the px supermarket close to our house to a supermarket 20 miles from us in June 2007. I tracked (gps) her once in Octuber last year after the Discovery day and I was able to confirm this. Now, yesterday I confirmed that this guy was transfered to a PX supermarket closer to our house. My wife is totally unaware of this situation. I entered the supermarket and I saw his picture hanging on the wall "store manager". My concern is: my wife sometimes goes to this supermarket. If she discover the guy is there something may happen. So far she hasn’t promise me she will not see this guy again. I’m confuse. Everything in our marriage looks so far so good but I feel unconfortable with this asshole now to close to us. I don’t know if should go to his work place and warn this guy about what could happens if I discover another phone call in my wife cell, or maybe I should treat him to let his wife know everything about his affair with my wife. That could start another problem that I can not afford at this point. I feel like I want "revenge". All the miserable days this guy made me go through but at the same time I realize that if my wife knows that I’m following this guy she may be not too happy. I also discovered that this guy launch his boat at the same marina we launch our boat.
After 10 months of hard work to get to were we are, to a point that it looks like a "permanent" honeymoon. I’m still affraid to blow it. Please somebody help me. I need feedback. For the last 2 days I haven’t been able to sleep well again. I’m having dreams about fighting with this guy. Even when I’m awake I feel like going to his place and tell what a piece a Jerk he is. Even I’m thinking about telling his wife. I know that even tho 10 months has passed it isn’t enough to cool down. I think if I ever get close this guy I will kick his ass or it could even be worse. I still don’t know. I feel unconfortable now that I know the OM is around. Need feedback
After 29 years married it’s difficult to think about divorce. My wife and me dicided not to talk about this anymore an continue we our lives. Actually we are having a better time together, thanks God. I admitted I had some problems and believe me I’m working hard to solve them. We dicided not to divorce. There is only one proble and thatis that my wife does want to answer all my questions. I pray to God every day and I believe he will change her heart and surprisily she will come to me and ask for an appology. Only after that I will be in peace. But I can’t ask for an appology. I think it will take time. I did emotionally abandon her to engage in internet chating. I confesed to her that I wasted a year in this f*&king Internet.
