My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:

My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….

A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.

SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.

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I went out with this guy in Aug. 2009, and we had two very nice dates. On the second date he took me to his best friend’s house where I also met his brother and sister. After the date, he alluded to staying over, and I declined. He emailed me once and called me once after with excuses why he couldn’t further pursue the relationship…lack of funds and the 2 hour drive could be too much. I told him I was willing to come up also, but I still didn’t hear from him. There’s nearly a 20 year age difference, but I’m attracted to his intelligence and how he thinks.

So, today (5 months later), he emails me the following:

**************
Hi ___! You probably didn’t expect to hear from me, but this is _____ in New York. Sorry for not keeping in touch. I was so swamped with various projects (conference presentations, teaching, job applications) dramas (death of my father in November) and travel (Korea in late November) that I have had really no time for socializing or romance. Now I am less stressed and more alive again. Possible to meet again?

I hope you are well.
*************

Should I even consider seeing him again?

PS – I’ve noticed on the dating website that we met on that he logs on.

Thanks,

WannaKnow

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How Do You Get Your Ex Back?

So my best friend is having some issues and I can’t help… (I have my own ~ LOL)…

Her fiance left her a few months ago… She desparatly wants to get him to come back (why I may never know)… What advice/strategy would you suggest for attempting to accomplish this goal??

He does show “signs” of wanting to come back but I don’t think she really responds right… Maybe appearing somewhat desperate?!?!

I need advice to give her ~ HELP PLEASE!!! =D

That would be great actually… Maybe if she could read something it would help her out… They’ve been together for 3 years and she is just torn apart…

I’m having custody issues with my ex right now and I don’t even know what to do to help her… That’s why I’m here…

She’s my best friend, of course I’m going to do anything I can to help her out!!

We’re mature adults by the way… No need to imply that I am talking about myself here =D

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I dated a girl for 11 years. We never married because she didn’t believe in marriage. I truly loved her completely and never doubted her love for me. I did everything for her, above and beyond most men. When I moved to take a job in a city she wanted to be in, she decided not to follow me and left me.

Shortly after our split, which was cordial although painful, she started dating and sleeping with my best friend. I am twice the man he ever will be and it just destroys my pride she would do this. Then she begged for me back and I took her back. Then she left me again and started dating my friend again.

It’s been over a year and I still can’t help but I still feel hurt and angry. And, I still have love for her. I can’t seem to move on to love any other woman, despite dating around. Should I continue dating? Will I ever get over her? Will I ever love again?

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I was wit my ex for 3 1/2 yrs.One day everything was perfect then the next it came crashing down.It seems like it wasn’t even coming.

I was asking her all week to go see a movie with me and she really wanted to go to the bar i didn’t understand why? why couldn’t we go see a movie instead that’s what i really wanted to do i have alcoholism problems in my family and it seemed like we were going there every weekend so i thought we could spend some quality time out together and see a movie.

We fought about it all day I didn’t understand what was so important at the bar, So i decided to do my own thing wit a friend and she did hers i went to a movie she went to the bar about 11:00 pm i received a text say in how i was unbelievable for being mad i didn’t think i was you were choosing a bar over me.

But at this point i just didn’t want to fight anymore it was our first big fight i mean we had little arguments that 2 Min’s later we were kissing and making up so i went to the bar to tell her i was sorry and lets go home when i got there she was wasted i pulled her up against the wall to tell her that and this old hag said i was going to beat the shit out of her i couldn’t believe that none of that was true i left the bar and went home and texted her and called her all Nite and no replays back i had someone call her house for me in the morning and her father replied by saying she hasn’t come home.

He thought that she spent the night wit me and about 15 Min’s later she called my mom telling her how much she loved me and then called me and told me she couldn’t do it anymore but not to tell my family and dont let anyone get involved that she loved me and just needed time well by then the tears was flowing i begged her not to do it and i didn’t understand why it was a fight.

She called me about four times that day wanting to talk and tell me not to listen to her best friend if she was telling me to move on.She asked me to come up and talk to her and i did she told me she was in love wit me and needed time and that she liked someone remind you the person she liked is about 35 yrs older then her and she is 22 i replied love and like is two different things at the end of the day i am the one that is going to matter She acted like she couldn’t be seen with me and watched every car that drove past like she was scared.

She hugged me and didn’t wanna leave go like she knew it was the last hug she was going to give me.Later on that Nite i went to the bar wit a couple friends i needed to get somethings off my mind and she was there with the person but kept lookin at me all Nite we all got into it and i left and the new person in her life said i needed to get over it she is wit me now i thought within 9 hrs you found someone else that’s bad but the next day she continued to call me and cry saying i was never going to speak to her again n how she loved me and didn’t want me to hate her.

She called me twice and then drove past my house which i caught her to see where i was for 2 months after the fact she continued to check up on me wit friends and stuff but we stopped talkin about a month after we broke up and now she seems to have so much anger with me but wants me to need her or want her.She gets angry if she thinks i am moving on threatens to beat the other person up constantly stares at me but has to run her mouth like she wants the person she is with to believe she is done with me and thats it.

She constantly has to remind herself and other people she is happy and does not regret it but is drunk all the time but went after the girl i was with new years eve and cried and then proceed to punch my window and tells her to get out of the car and fight her and when i said i am not the one who made this choice you are she started to cry and said it wasnt a mistake i dont understand i love her i am inlove with her i dont understand how she can tell ppl she is happy ignore me and cant tell me its really over to my face but can make me the center of her world when i am in the same room as her and her new person is sitting next to her she doesnt kiss that person or barely speak to that person just stares at me i dont get it how do i get her back?

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I was and still am in love with this girl, she is my best friend. I went four straight months thinking of nothing but her, spending all my time with her and dedicating my whole life to her. She has a boyfriend though of 3 years so i could never make a move. I mean i was IN LOVE! Then over christmas break i hardly talked to her, also her boyfriend was home. But i started talking to this other girl ALL the time, i kinda had feelings for her but not love like my best friend. Well i finally thought that i was over my best friend in the way that it wasnt all i thought about anymore and that i didnt get jelous. But school has started back up i see her everyday and we are about to start spending a lot of time together again because of school activities. I cant fall for her again but i love her so much, What should i do????

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We dated for three weeks and something, but we’d been best friends for a while. But the thing is, i’m the “school-clown” kind of girl, and he’s really shy.

I felt like we were back in elementary school, to be honest. but anyhow; we just had a lot of problems with the whole shyness thing. and i was about to go to sleep one night and i realized that i didn’t really want to be with him anymore… or so i thought? because the next day when i broke up with him i felt like crap. I couldn’t believe what i did. I spoke to him about a day after; apologizing to him.

But he said he didn’t want me back, and i just told him i could wait for him until he ever changed his mind. =| Last friday.. i guess he “moved on”, he’s dating his best friend.

She’s a grade lower than us, and they’d always be hanging out with her when we were dating.

What should i tell him? Should i keep waiting for him?

I know i made a wrong choice and I really want him back, ut i don’t want to keep living in the shadow of my mistake!

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I hope anyone can give me some advice on this…

I have done things with a girl ( my best friend), and it was hot and I liked it a lot better than with guy’s. I’m going to a new school this monday, and I don’t want people to know right away. If people ask I will tell them I am, but I want people to accept me for the way I am.

I’m 15, almost 16 and my ex bf ( we just broke up because I moved along ways from him), didn’t mind me being bi sexual. He has said sometimes that he wished I wasn’t bi. He said that because I prefer girls over guy’s, sexually and emotionally.

Any advise on how to fit in with this?

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A friend of mine began dating my ex a few years back, they lasted nearly three years and have now broken up. I couldn’t help but notice that the week prior to their breakup we were all partying, she was bringing up old times between me and her, deep ones of romance and the important things that happened between us. She also kept looking my way, but looking at me the same way she used to.

Then, a week later and they’re over.

Now I’ve noticed she’s always flirting with me and talking to me whenever she sees the chance. She’s wanting me to hang around with her, party with her, stuff like this.

The thing of it all is that I havn’t lost the same feelings I’ve had for her at all. I still have very strong feelings for her.
However she just ended it with a guy who’s literally like a brother to me. Yet he had no problem dating her when we split, so if I acted on the flirting, the feelings, everything, are my actions justified? Or would it be considered “wrong” of me to do that?

I’ve never stopped loving her, and have always secretly wished for a second chance. But he’s a best friend of mine.

OPINIONS?!
An additional note is te original reason we split is pretty much my problems with alcohol a few years back. I was drunk everyday and was never around her sober or without a bottle in my hand.

I could of had her back but made the stupid mistake of rejecting her to go after an … “Easier” girl who would get drunk all the time for me.

Changed now, see my mistakes.

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My best friend needs my help dealing with a break up he initiated with his ex girl friend. He knows he does not want to get back with her. He has been interested in me for years now and I finally showed him my feelings back. He is now confused and I don’t want to get hurt. What is the best way to be there for him but to not allow my self to get hurt and why would he be confused now when he knows he doesn’t want to get back with his ex?

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Well, you see my ex started going out with my best friend after he broke up me. why did he leave me? A rumor. I love him alot, but I have no idea how to get him back.

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hes my best friend, n hes in love with me, but im not,i love him a lot, but as my friend,n he knows it, but i want to dedicate a song to him letting him know that i love him, that im sorry for every pain hes going through,that hes my best friend and all, any suggestioms?

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So I know I have mentioned on here before that my dad’s best friend’s wife recently starting poking me, touching my thigh under the table (but i always thought it was because of pure coincidence or playful gesture having to do with jokes or funny incidents) but today when I am over it escalated more to her lightly tapping me on the butt two times when she passed me by…i gave her, "the stare" and she started feeling uneasy right away and mumbled something along the lines of, "why aren’t you eating anything?".Could a woman just be joking when she taps a 22 year old boy on the butt or does that mean she wants something. I told my dad and he said, "who knows…." is he in denial or whats going on? I am serious with these questions…could this STILL be innocent?
ps…please mention your age so i know who’s responding to me and how serious and relevant the responses are

the weirdest thing is that she’s never super nice to me when everyone is cautious (they are ALWAYS around when she pulls these things on me though)…when we happen to be alone…she tries to ignore me..When I was sitting in the bar section of his kitchen and she came up to me and said, "always sitting in the wrong place" and trying to push me off by putting pressure on my leg with her leg (it was hot). However, in front of my parents she tries to make the "games" seem harmless like pulling my hat down or something

the worst part about this is that it’s kind of turning me on and I wait until she makes the next move…but on the other hand i don’t like it and it’s wrong..and I don’t know what to do. When nobody was around I was calling their family dog’s name (mini dog) to come to me while the dog was on her lap and she wouldn’t come. So I came over and said, "come here" again to the dog and she (the wife) grabbed me by my zipper and started pulling me gently towards her…i then said, "stop you’re unzipping me jokingly) and tried picking the dog up from her lap slowly (it was close to her crotch) and I sat on the arm of the sofa chair and started asking questions about work…etc.

i wouldn’t sleep with her though AND THAT’S A FACT….i just enjoy the game…but on the other hand i don’t. It’s driving me crazy

btw…her husband is GORGEOUS! thin, big lips, beautiful skin…very sexy…Im good looking too..Im just staying that she loves him a lot.
In memory of Girly Man and Manly Girl

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Ok So its been a while since the break up between me and my ex whom I was dating for a year and a few months. He dumped me at the end of Summer over some stupid reason. I am Soo Heartbroken and I still love him He was my first in alot of things,but If it wasnt for my best friend I dont know how I would have gotten over it..She know everything about us. She was there for me right..

WRONG..

At first she was only talking to him,and I tryed to not let that bug me..As much.
But for the next few weeks theyve been talking and stuff and like then next thing I know She lies to me and is
DATING MY EX BOYFRIEND?!! She went behind my back saying she was doing school stuff when really she was flirting with HIM?!

And dont get me wrong I have tryed to date but I just get rejected every single time and I still love him so much!

And now my friend isnt talking to me anymore. When I found out the rumores where true. SHe stopped talking to me..

And I never thought she would do such a thing..

I feel so betrayed, heartbroken, mad, and even sick. I hate seeing them at school together I have every class with them, And it hurts So Much I cant stop crying like every day!

There planning double dates infront of me and flirt infront of me, it hurts to feel so invisible and alone..I dont know what to do?

I still have feelings for him, But my so called friend lied to me and is now dating him and it PISSES ME OFF!!!

What do I do?

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i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.

we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.

i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.

serious answers please

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I dont know i just want my best friend back which is a female but we got into an arguement and havent talked for months. Know i think she has forgotten about me or moved on… we have ben close for almost 2 years… well i just wanted to know the TRUE SIGNS WEATHER SHE WANTS ME BACK!…ladies can you please help me…. she is also a girly girl…. so help me out because i really miss her and this time i want her to come back to me instead of me going back to her this time =(..

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Well me and this girl became best friends in 7th grade. She was my teacher’s daughter. me and her did everything together. i never had such a best friend in my whole entire life. she even slept over my house on school dayys and my mom would never let anybody else do that. i could name 100 things that we did together. then all of a sudden she had to move to a diffrent school and things had to change.she never had time for me anymore. she was making up all the reasons she could for not being friends anymore. she said that i would only stick up for her when she was around and then when she wasnt i laughed at the people who were talking about her. i was like thats a lie i never laughed at people who were talking crap about u and then i was like till this dayy i still stick up for u even if were not friends. i mean she was my best friend. and then she said i turned into a prep and i didnt want to be her friend and that was also a complete lie and so on. so what is there to do?
so is there anything i can do to try and become friends again with her?
well i know i deserve better than this. but its rly hard to move i miss her wayy to much. she has been with me through the rough and happy times. if u give me a great awnser that will help me out you will get 10 pts. and 5 stars.

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okay, this is probably gonna be really really long. sorry! but bare with me if you’re whiling to help.

but, my boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago, and like 3 days ago, i got a text from my best friend, sha. he’s a guy, and we’ve been friends for a really long time. so anyway, he texted me and was like, "hey, i’m really bored, and i’m gonna drive by your house in a little bit, want me and my friend to pick you up?" and i was like, "yeah, come pick me up."

so i snuck out of my window. haha.
and when him and his friend picked me up, it was like, 12?
and i’ve never met matt before,
and when i saw him,
he was really really cute. (:
but then on the way to matts house,
matt pulls over and is like, "i need to tell you something."
and he turned around, and is like, "i’m married, and i have a kid. but my wife don’t care if i cheat."
and i’m like, "oh…umm…okay?"

but when we went to sha’s house,
we all sat on the couch and talked for an hour or so, then…
matt was like, "sha, may i kiss her? she’s just too cute not to kiss."
and i was like, "matt, you’re married!"
and then matt was like, "she don’t care though."
and then sha was like, "yeah, man." and we ended up makin’ out,
and then sha tries to join in!!!
and i stopped right there, because i never done anything like that,
and i’m NOT into that.

so then sha and matt took me home at about 4:30?
and i had to get ready for school,
so i went to school,
and then i get a text from sha that says, "hey, we’re havin’ a party tonight, wanna come?" and i was like, "yeah. pick me up after school."

so, they get me after school,
and when we get there,
matt keeps looking at me and is like, "come here." and i get up and he gets up and walks towards me and gives me a really big hug. and is like, "i wanna apologize for not giving you a hug last night."
and i was like, "awwh, it’s okay…"

so when all of sha and matt’s friends arrive,
matt keeps looking at me,
and when i look back, he turns away really fast.
and he found reasons to touch me,
and he came up once and put his arms around me while i was turned around,
and he whispered in my ear, "follow me."

so i turned around,
and we went in his room,
and he shut and locked the door,
and i was like, "yes?" lol.
he was like, "what? can i not invite you in my room to talk to you?"
so we lay on his bed for a while, and we start talking and stuff,
and i want to turn on the tv, so he hides the remote,
and he starts tickling me,
and then all of a sudden,
we look at each other and start makin’ out.

then we had sex… ):
and i feel really bad,
because i knew he was married,
but it was the heat of the moment,
and i really really like him.
he acts like he likes me too though…

but his wife is NEVER around.
or his baby for that fact…
so could he just be lying to me?
but i’m just so confused.
and last night before i left,
he kept hugging me and stuff,
and i thought he really liked me,
and now i’m really sad…

will someone tell me what to do…IN A NICE WAY?
please don’t leave me any comments saying that i’m a home wrecker or a whore or something.
i know what i did was wrong.

so please,
no mean comments, ok?

btw, he’s 18 and i’m 16.
so he’s not old. lmao.
just so you know.

thank you guys for helping me…
i really need some of your help.
i need to know what to do!
i’m really confused! ):

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I was in love with my best friend for almost a year, the only reason i got over her was because she has a boyfriend of 3 years. And i didn’t want to ruin our amazing friendship. We went through alot this past year with me being in love but it worked out for good. I still cant help but realize how PERFECT we are, we are so similar in so many ways and are perfect together. I am so much more compatible with her than her boyfriend which is kinda weird. I am over her but could easily fall in love with her again i just dont let myself… Deep in my mind i think somehow someday we will end up together. Will we ever end up together?

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This poem/letter for my english class isn’t completed but I wanted to know what you guys think of it so far. To save you from confusion, let me tell you what this is about:

This poem is about a book i read. its for a guy character in the book. his name is Jonaro. and there’s a girl name Rosalie. (she calls him romeo as a pet name) They are secretly seeing each other, and engaged. They plan on spending life together. the thing is that certain people can NOT find out about Rosalie and Jonaros relationship or rosalia would get killed by them. Jonaro would probably get killed too; but Rosalie’s in the most danger. before the conclusion of the story happened, rosalie rote jon a note. the book never mentioned the note again. My assignment from my english teacher is to write a poem/letter that I think would be similar to the one she wrote Jonaro. Opinions , please!

Dearest Romeo,

We’ve been together for quite a while.
The thought of that makes me smile.
You’re there for me whenever I fall;
all it takes is a simple call.
It’s all almost to good to be real.
Every time I try to explain how I feel,
It ends in frustration
‘Cause I can’t give an explanation
that can prove to you
my feelings are true.
At my darkest times,you bring me light
Without even trying; even if we’re in a fight.
You’re the beat to my heart.
You’re the best part
of me.
Can’t you see
that you’re my best friend
and my lover, til the end?
I don’t know what’s going on in this world.
Everything’s all screwed up and twirled
around in lies and confusion
but the conclusion…
is that you’re the only thing that makes sense.
Our relationship is like commonsense
‘Cause we’re a perfect match.
Sorry, but I’ve grown quite attached.
You’re like the song that makes me sing aloud.
I can’t imagine not having you around.
You’re as sweet as the first spring breeze.
When you look at me, my heart seems to freeze.
I regret everytime I’ve ever made you hurt.
And those memories make me feel like dirt.
I guess God sometimes puts our love to the test.
But, Baby, I know you deserve the best.
I know I screw up a little too often.
and the consequences never seem to soften.
I know I should treat you better;
so here I am, sending you this letter.
We’ve made plans time and time again.
You say ‘marriage’ and I’m wondering when…
Baby, I don’t mean to sound like a jerk,
but I’m wondering if we can make this work.
We’ve got a long, hard road ahead.
I don’t want either one of us to end up dead.
Secrets are best kept when nobody knows them.
You’re the last person I’d ever want to condemn;
but everyone knows how much we love each other

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My ex fiance and I ended badly, I fell in love with his best friend and now my ex will not let go. It’s run to the point he’s calling me every few days, watching where I go, stalking me, having people keep an eye on my comings and goings and he’s going to counseling. I wish him the best, I want him to let go and move on with his life but this has consumed him. As a practicing Wiccan, I want to gently offer him a reprieve but not give in to his demands that the only way he’ll heal is if we get back together. I have searched for a good spell for him to forget me and move on but it seems all I can find is healing spells for those that want to forget the ex that dumped them that they are still in love with or those that desperately want thier ex’s back. Does anyone have any spells that might help him forget his pain, forget me and move on to heal. I want that for him, as I do care for him and want him to heal from this. I am better with candle spells than anything, but would appreciate anything anyone has to offer. Thank you and Goddess Bless.

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we broke up 3 months ago because i broke up with him because of my mother and then we kind of gotten back together but then he decided he liked this other girl more than me they’ve been together twice in the 3 months shes also gone out with his best friend i dont know if hes ok with that or not but ive sent him an e-mail saying i want to be friends wich is what he wanted when we first broke up but i said no but now i secretly want to go out with him again even though i told him just friends this afternoon i told him to check his mail and call me but he hasnt called and i dont know if hes even read it or now but i just saw him on his bike after i got my hair cut and he stared at me but i dont know if he really reconized me i do look diffrent but from the look he gave me i couldnt tell if had read it or what he thought of it now im nervous and what would happen if he told his girlfriend i still had contact with him. idont know im so confused HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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me and my best friend who is a girl have been friends forever and i know she likes me. and i don’t know how i would live without her so yeah i like her and she knows that i do. but she went threw a bad break up a couple months ago with the guy ending up saying he wished he had never gone out with her. and so they dint talk forever then they started talking again and then they were talking about there future and he said he doesn’t think he can live without her after she tried to get him back forever so she gave up and now they are a mess and i want to get together with her but she was not ready before and so i don’t know if i should ask her or what i should do. should i go with my heart tell her how i feel and ask her out or just try to wait it out.
thanks to everybody who helped and im going to take your advice and i will make sure i dont treat her like the crap she had before cause i would rather die then see her in pain

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Is there anyone who can tell me how to get your ex boyfriend back?

Well a month ago I broke up w/ someone I really liked.

I asked him out like an hour after and then broke up w/ him again (im really stupid).

Yesterday on MySpace his best friend told me that he could wait until I got over his best friend and then i tell my ex and he says i bet u don’t even know when your gonna get over me.

I told him your right and then I asked him how did he know that i wasent over him and he said cuz I cant get over u…

WAT CAN I DO PLEASE HELP ME

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the night before last i dreamt that i was having an affair with this guy that i new of in highschool who is now married to a friend from childhood that i rarely talk to. it was all lust, but never made it to sealing the deal (which is wierd b/c i never found this guy attractive) we were running around in my old middle school laughing and flirting and stuff. we went out to eat and i was trying to figure out what i wanted, and for some reason i was picking something healthy (salmon) but i didn’t want to spend too much because he didn’t have a lot of money. the thought popped into my head "damn, this sucks. when i’m w/ my husband i don’t have to pay attention to the prices" then i started thinking about my husband and how much i loved him and couldn’t live without him. then his wife (my friend from long ago) showed up calling me a bitch. i pulled her aside and explained that i was just realizing how stupid this was, and that i loved my husband too much to do this. she cried and said thank you and i left.

last night i dreamt that i went on vacation with this guy that i knew way back when (he dated my best friend at the time for a couple of years- again, i never found him attractive) it was a big group of people- a whole bunch of couples. oh by the way, in both dreams the guys were telling me that they loved me even though it had only been going on for a couple of days, i don’t know if that matters. this time it did make it sealing the deal(i think) but we were just doing normal vacation stuff… drinking on the deck, cooking out, swimming but we were very lovey dovey. then a couple days before we were going to leave i started feeling guilty again, and decided to break it off. i was missing my husband and realized how stupid the whole thing was because i could lose my husband forever if he found out. oh and in this dream, for some reason my four month old son kept popping in and out of the dream, but my 4 year old was not in it. (both kids are from my husband)

i have no desire to cheat on my husband in waking hours, we have a very good, honest relationship. we’re best friends. even though it’s just a dream i feel guilty all day long wondering why i’m dreaming about this stuff.

also, i’ve always had this reoccuring dream that i’m back in highschool and i get that anxiety i used to get that i needed to get outta there. then finally i realize i’ve already graduated and i don’t need to be there anymore.

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