My fiance of a year last week broke up with me through an email and the next day, he met someone new and is now "in love" in a relationship. We have been unhappy for a couple weeks now and ever since he had surgery, he’s been very weird and it doesn’t help that he drinks a lot too. Apparently, this new relationship is an online fling. Up until a couple weeks ago we never had trust issues and we were a great team. We were best friends before we started dating.
Now I feel lost and uncertain. I can’t help but wonder if he’ll return or not. How do I move on without thinking of him and her together? How can I move on without him? I feel like I’m dying inside 
btw, I never saw this chick show up until last week the day before we broke up and I have confirmation that it’s a brand new thing. He hasn’t started drinking heavily until after the surgery. Up until then, we never had trust/cheating issues.
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before you read my long question i would like to say i will answer yours in response to you answering mine!
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.
i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.
then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.
i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.
now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.
Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao
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also i am like a brother to her youger brother, my sister is best friends to her and my dad is a fatherly figure to her the past year since her dad passed away 3 years ago.
i know we can be best friends , she acts like we could be more i swear but i think she afraid to break the ice again bc of this guyfriend and doesnt want to hurt him now. do you think if i c her on superbowl sunday at her house and kiss her this may spark our relationship back, i know its a long shot but it would either drive us away indefinately or bring us together even more
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before you read my long question i would like to say i will answer yours in response to you answering mine!
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.
i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.
then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.
i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.
now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.
Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao
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also i am like a brother to her youger brother, my sister is best friends to her and my dad is a fatherly figure to her the past year since her dad passed away 3 years ago.
i know we can be best friends , she acts like we could be more i swear but i think she afraid to break the ice again bc of this guyfriend and doesnt want to hurt him now. do you think if i c her on superbowl sunday at her house and kiss her this may spark our relationship back, i know its a long shot but it would either drive us away indefinately or bring us together even more
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my ex gf and i broke up in feb, but we still were real good friends and freinds with benefits until the end of june when she got a job. At this job she met someone else and threw me away like i was nothing. I called the no contact on her and four months later she contacted me saying she missed me. the other guy dumped her. I really love her and she really loved me. i told her i cant be friends yet even after 5 months. she kept texting me so we finally got together and we told each other all our feelings and i realized the problems i had in our relationship and i want to fix them. she says she wants to be alone right now but still wants to be friends. In our previous relationship i loved her but i had a lot of problems showing it so she didnt think i cared. Now we have reestablished a freindship but she is sending very mixed signals. I am afraid i may get hurt again but i want to at least try to get her back so i can say i tried. I am not sure if i should talk to her a lot and show her i really do care since that would show her i changed or if i should play hard to get which is how most blogs and forums say to do it but i feel like my situation is different. I dont want to show desperation either. Any suggestions? Her friends and my friends have all been best friends since freshman year of high school and now we are soph in college which makes it so hard because i want to hang out with everyone. We all hang out every weekend together and always have. i couldnt imagine not having them but i feel if my ex doesnt want to get back i cant be around her anymore because i still have so many feelings for her.
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my ex gf and i broke up in feb, but we still were real good friends and freinds with benefits until the end of june when she got a job. At this job she met someone else and threw me away like i was nothing. I called the no contact on her and four months later she contacted me saying she missed me. the other guy dumped her. I really love her and she really loved me. i told her i cant be friends yet even after 5 months. she kept texting me so we finally got together and we told each other all our feelings and i realized the problems i had in our relationship and i want to fix them. she says she wants to be alone right now but still wants to be friends. In our previous relationship i loved her but i had a lot of problems showing it so she didnt think i cared. Now we have reestablished a freindship but she is sending very mixed signals. I am afraid i may get hurt again but i want to at least try to get her back so i can say i tried. I am not sure if i should talk to her a lot and show her i really do care since that would show her i changed or if i should play hard to get which is how most blogs and forums say to do it but i feel like my situation is different. I dont want to show desperation either. Any suggestions? Her friends and my friends have all been best friends since freshman year of high school and now we are soph in college which makes it so hard because i want to hang out with everyone. We all hang out every weekend together and always have. i couldnt imagine not having them but i feel if my ex doesnt want to get back i cant be around her anymore because i still have so many feelings for her.
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