ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
We dated for three weeks and something, but we’d been best friends for a while. But the thing is, i’m the "school-clown" kind of girl, and he’s really shy. i felt like we were back in elementary school, to be honest. but anyhow; we just had a lot of problems with the whole shyness thing. and i was about to go to sleep one night and i realized that i didn’t really want to be with him anymore… or so i thought? because the next day when i broke up with him i felt like crap. i couldn’t believe what i did. i spoke to him about a day after; apologizing to him.
But he said he didn’t want me back, and i just told him i could wait for him until he ever changed his mind. =| Last friday.. i guess he "moved on", he’s dating his best friend.
She’s a grade lower than us, and they’d always be hanging out with her when we were dating.
What should i tell him? Should i keep waiting for him?
I know i made a wrong choice.. but i don’t want to keep living in the shadow of my mistake!
We almost got into a relationship. I was being jealous at the end and he said we should just remain best friends cz I always get jealous. And I felt so smart when I said we should never meet again. I really love him. He wouldn’t return my texts. I feel being treated like garbage when I texted him, telling him how dreadful my life has been and it hasn’t gotten any of his attention.
Well me and this girl became best friends in 7th grade. She was my teacher’s daughter. me and her did everything together. i never had such a best friend in my whole entire life. she even slept over my house on school dayys and my mom would never let anybody else do that. i could name 100 things that we did together. then all of a sudden she had to move to a diffrent school and things had to change.she never had time for me anymore. she was making up all the reasons she could for not being friends anymore. she said that i would only stick up for her when she was around and then when she wasnt i laughed at the people who were talking about her. i was like thats a lie i never laughed at people who were talking crap about u and then i was like till this dayy i still stick up for u even if were not friends. i mean she was my best friend. and then she said i turned into a prep and i didnt want to be her friend and that was also a complete lie and so on. so what is there to do?
so is there anything i can do to try and become friends again with her?
well i know i deserve better than this. but its rly hard to move i miss her wayy to much. she has been with me through the rough and happy times. if u give me a great awnser that will help me out you will get 10 pts. and 5 stars.
so D and I went out like forever ago. it didn’t really last long b/c at the time i wasn’t looking for anything serious but he was. we became like best friends after that. we’ve been super close for about 3 years now and he recently broke up whit his GF of 14 months. yeah yeah, sad..
anyways…
that was last Thursday, but they’re both super cool about the whole break up thing and are friends now but i’s weird between me and him because i think i was the cause of the break up because he and I always flirt and stuff and i know his EX hates me.
Monday i hung out with him (umm…and his EX and the EX’s new beau AWKWARD!!). then we were alone and he kissed me. He said that he didn’t what anything because he just got out of a really long relationship and i get that but wednesday we totally hung out along and made out, nothing more and all clothes stayed on, it was nice weird but i felt that…that spark.
I’ve loved this kid for like forever but i could never have him b/c of his Ex but now that i can have him…idk if he wants me. what do i do?? like today i was hanging with him after school and we kiss and stuff like we’re going out and he puts his arm around me and texts me and calls and stuff…but…aggggg help????
Ok, so i was dating this guy 7 years ago. I was young at the time and really didn’t want to settle with anyone. I was moving back and forth from nj to fl at the time too.
Ok, so because of myspace he found me after all these years. He had spent over 0 looking for me.
He was telling me that he loves me and misses me and wants me back.
ok, so I said so hows your wife and child. He was shocked I knew. I said to him, " you know me and your sister is best friends. we talk about everything." He said that we are having problems and she is crazy.
Ok, so the girl he married has been around for years and years and she really is crazy.
Ok so he said the only reason he married her was he was ready to settle down and she was the only girl there at the time.
we have been talking on the phone for the last few weeks and he even talked to me in the same room as his wife and she dont care.
So, my question is what should I do. I love him still too. I could of been got him back but I wasn’t ready. I have him now but he is married. He wants to get a divorce and move here with me.
What should I do should I wait for him? Should I tell him to work it out with his wife because of his little girl? HELP!!!! please
Basically I finally went out with my long crush (were also best friends) and then my so called friend slapped me, punched me and violently attacked me because I wanted to talk to him. She said I wasn’t allowed to talk to him unless it was a Wednesday and then the week after that he dumped me because I didn’t talk to him. What can I do to get him back? I sit next to him for everything. Please help me.
Please, I’m actually sobbing right now.
I’m sixteen and I’m confused out of my mind, like this is legitimately on the brink of crazy. It might actually pass that fine line but whatever. Okay, so I had this boyfriend for six months and things were sometimes amazing and sometimes not so much. I really did love him though, I’m absolutely sure of that because I still feel the same way about him and it’s been six months since we broke up. He was a very flirty guy, but I always knew he would never hurt a fly. He talked to a lot of girls but never crossed that line of it being too much, but none the less it still bothered me. I didn’t understand why I could be happy with just him and he needed all these girls to be happy. But I eventually realized that that was just the way he was and that I was doing the same thing but to me it seemed like he did it more and to him it seemed I did it more. Whatever, okay, so we were also very serious, like we hit all 4 bases lmao and we were both really happy, there was no pressure btw so it was amazingg 
. But I’m the kind of girl that needs new things to be going on in her life to feel content which is not always a good thing because sometimes it hides things that are true and genuine. So after about a 2 weeks of deciding I needed something new I broke up with him because I wanted to be single or so I thought. We promised each other that we would stay best friends but that didn’t work out because he still wanted to be with me, so we stopped talking for a couple of months. After a while I started to think back on how terrible the thing I did to him was and realized that I had to make things right. So one sunday I called him up and asked him if we could talk in person, he agreed and things went well, I talked to him about the reasons why I broke up with him and how he felt and how it sucked for the both of us. But how we both were over it (LIE, I thought I was, but trust me I’m NOT). Now I’m talking to him on a semi regular basis and every time I talk to him I just want more of him and every time we stop texting or leave each other I feel my heart get stabbed again. It really is killing me. There is no other girl in his life and sometimes he makes me think that he really is totally over me and other times I see it in his eyes that he’s not. I have no problem telling him that I still like him the only thing is I don’t want him to think that I’m some crazy person that breaks up with people and then wants them back. Another thing is, what if the same thing happens, what if we get back together and I go out on another one of my whims and decided that it’s time to break up again. I’m a firm believer that if things aren’t right, don’t stick around, but I don’t think I waited long enough last time to make sure they weren’t right. I don’t know if I just really miss him or because I love him or if I just miss having someone there. Like my brains on hyper-speed and I can’t think about anything else and haven’t been able to since we started talking again. I don’t know what to do. Please someone just give me some good advice.
My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help? 
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over 4 months. We have been best friends for almost 5 years. We have decided to get married, but he isn’t gonna propose "officially" until New Year’s Eve. (my fav. holiday) In the past month, he has started talking to two of his exes. He says he is trying to salvage their friendships. I wouldn’t be upset if it were any of his other exes, but these two are the ones he has had sex with. We haven’t had sex yet and I don’t plan on it until we are married. Do you think I make him want to be back with them.
We have talked about it and I have explained to him exactly how I feel. He says he still cares about them, but he loves me more than anything or anyone and would never try to hurt me like that. What he does’t get is he is hurting me by making me feel like I’m not enough.
What do you think?
Me and my ex have been broken up since the 23rd of January.He hasnt spoke to me,called or contacted me.Its as if he has forgotten me completely.I had made a mistake begging for him back,and making myself feel less than i am.That only made me feel worse.You cant force someone to love you.Two days after the breakup i asked him if he still loved me,he said no he didnt,which really hurt,because how can u possibly forget someone soo quickly.I mean we spent 9 full months together doing everything.He was my best friend.He was my first true love,which i heard takes alot of time to get over.I had made some mistakes of my own.I have disrespected him several times,made him feel as if he had to choose between me and his family,distracted him from God.this all happened when i was selfish and too confident in the middle of the relationship.My sister had told me If he really loved you he would have pushed and never gave up on the relationship no matter what.She is now married to a man that she says puts up with everything she says and does,because he loves her.His reasons to why he broke up with me were You never changed,we werent going anywhere,and i feel that God wants me to be single,and focus on him.I respect that,but i mean seriously i do not deserve this hurt,and do not believe it.His ex-girlfriend before me he had visited her in Ohio before we were dating last last christmas.It was a long distance relationship,he had payed 200 dollars plus the christmas gifts.when he arrived she had broke up with him,and had flirted and talked to one of his best friends.He had missed her from what he told me,but that is absolutely ridicolous.5 months into that relationship by phone and email and he still spoke to her,and 9 months with me and no contact whatsoever.im confused.I mean yeah i gave him emotional hurt i didnt see,but i still holded on to him and kept going strong.i had lost my dog and i begged him when he could to pay half of my new one and i would pay half.All i could do was apologize and make him see that i did not want his money or materials soo i returned them back to him.all i wanted was his support and love.from s guys perspective,do u know if he will come back,and is hiding his feelings right now?or should i just move on and let it go?why do you think he discontinued talking to me?Is he thinking bad things about me that he didnt see and telling everyone?It hurts to feel like you are the bad person.
My boyfriend of over three years broke up with me in September. Although we had been very happy together for the most part, I became sort of the girlfriend from hell when college started and got strangely controlling. I demanded he transfer to my school and visit me in the city every weekend. I don’t know what I was thinking, but in the process of a few weeks, he lost every last feeling for me. He said he just couldn’t handle me anymore, despite everything we’d been through. Here is the weird part: We are best friends. But it’s obviously getting awkward because I still have strong feelings for him. In the beginning, he said that he thought we would probably get back together. But I made the mistake of pushing things… a lot. Constantly. You know the part where you are supposed to give your ex time and space? I didn’t. I’ve pushed him away so much by now, I’m afraid I’ve messed things up forever. I’ll call him and pick fights. I’ve been dwelling on the breakup for longer than I should. When we hang out, I still hang on him as if we were together. He clams up and looks away. For months, he said he wasn’t "sexually" attracted to me. But last week, for the first time since September, we hooked up. A few days later, he told me that it was selfish of him to do that, because he felt no emotional connection with me. I said I was alright with us just hooking up, but he said that would be wrong to lead me on. I guess he could be right about that… but still, all this time I thought he wasn’t attracted to me. I’ve tried everything, but I’ve gone too far. The calls, the persistent nagging. He’s sick of me giving him the "gah-gah" eyes. And these days, all I do is cry and sob when we hang out. I’m reminded of how much we loved each other. I know none of you people know me, but please believe me when I say we were that unique breed of couple that just… I can’t explain it. Sometimes, the bond is so deep, you just know it’s meant to be. I haven’t followed any of the steps to get my ex back. I believe that we will get back together, but I know that everything I’m doing is wrong. I know that if I could just act normal and not psychotic he would be able to see me as a girl worth dating. I need advice. Decent advice… and maybe a few prayers. I never wanted to become that kind of ex-girl… the one that never let go. The saddest part is, he still wants to be my best friend- but just my best friend- and according to him, never, ever my boyfriend again. Is there hope? What can I do???
like he broke up with me a couple of months ago
but recently my feelings for him
are comming back.
like on friday, i was with him and he was was trying to annoy me >.<
by spitting at me , i told him not to cause i wasn’t in the mood and some one in my family had passed away :’(.
so he gave me a really close hug , and his face was like near mine , like he wanted to kiss me or something :S
and then he started to be all touchy.
But then my two best friends were talking , saying i should get back with him , blah blah blah!
and one of my best mates said " if she is getting into him again im going to F**ken slap her ".
yeash i did get into my ex more than once.
i miss seeing him
help me !
Charlotte xxx
oh !
sorry this is long
My and my ex were best friends for nearly two years before we had a nine month relationship. We agreed to split up following a tricky period and while he appeared to move on fairly quickly I’m still having trouble letting go. He still tells me he loves me and says he’s mad about me. We’ve kissed regularly since breaking up and I thought the spark was definitely still there. Earlier tonight I asked him if he wanted to get back together but he said he didn’t want to have a relationship since he loves flirting too much and just wants to do stuff with me without commitment.
Is there a way we can move on from this and be friends again, or is the only way for me to move on just to let him go and move on with my life?
Im thirteen. I know it might seem like young love, but I love this girl more than anything in the world. Me and her have been best friends for about two years. She tells me that she loves me, wants to be with me, and that I’m different than all the other guys. But she keeps going out with other guys. I’ve already asked her out, and she said no, because we were different than we used to be. How do I get things back to how they used to be, and how do I make her fall in love again?
well i have him but i’d want him as my boyfriend again. we’ve stayed great best friends but i want to swoon him more than i swoon him now. i’d like some commitment. we simply cannot let eachother go. no matter what we’ve been through we can’t. what are some good flirting tips or tips i can use on a leo.
What should I do for each of these?
1. we used to be best best friends, and i really loved him, but he got a girlfriend and didn’t talk to me for over a year. just recently we’ve started talking some, and i think i’m falling for him again, even though i’m not sure if he’s worth it
2. we went to the school dance together last weekend and had a really great time, but we haven’t talked since. i want to get to know him better, but i want HIM to pursue ME. that’s just how i am, you can critisize me all you want. i don’t mind innitiating SOME conversations, but how can i just make him want more?
3. he is my ex’s best friend, and he is in love with his friend, but she doesn’t like him back. he’s super sweet, but kind of popular and a lot of girls like him. how can i get him to want ME?
thanks!
oh sorry, i guess it’s not clear. these are all different guys.
Is that even possible?
Cause at the moment,
It doesn’t seem like it =\
Thanks.
Well yesterday was my ex-boyfriend’s birthday and we didn’t talk, we just argued and we fight a lot. And it seems like sicne we brok up las week he’s having the time of his life. How can I just walk away from a 2 year relationship jus like that? I gave up all my friends for him so basically we were each others best friends and we hang out everyday, and the next day how can I just deal with not having him there and just going my own path doing my own thing. it’s so scary just facing everything alone because I became so attach and depended that he’ll always be there for me. basically i am trying to ask is how can one day we be so loving and sh*t and at the end of the night we argue and break up and when the next day rolls around, how can I just get up and move on and live my own life now. i feel so depress and I can’t even focus in school or work anymore. everything i do reminds me of him and I can’t seems to shake him off. i love him and i wish we can be back together but he said no =(
ok long story my buddy got into a situation where he was locked up for our school year my bf liked me (didnt kno back thn) but i kinda put her on the spot in front of the class by asking her rather then tell everyone it was me out loud (cause she was shy) she chose the one guy that wasn there….my friend after he got out it was summer time and she quickly ended it now she tells me she likes me and i like her my buddy already made it clear he hates friends that date his ex’s wtf do i do?
Laurie I really do love you and want to continue our sexual relationship! Being with you is so wonderful, You make me feel so good! Love your true friend for life….. 
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.
i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.
then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.
i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.
now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.
Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao
Only one out of my friends parents are still together
and I don’t even know what their marriage is behind closed doors
The saying about love is that it lasts forever and it never dies
People tell me that all the time,
they tell me to wait and it shall happen for me
but I find that the majority of the people on this world haven’t found it yet even though they may think they do
My friends all say they are in love
Love at the age of 16,17,18? That’s almost impossible in my opinion
From an outsiders perspective;
I can see every teen relationship ending poorly.
They all say they are so in love, but they honestly don’t have a clue what love is.
I have a different perspective on this then most I’ve known..
It seems as if everyone is so ready to grow up,
they want to lose their innocence before it is even their time to.
Then the thing they may realize a few years later is that they will never get that innocence back..
Innocence has got to be the most precious and greatest thing on this world that is being torn away from kids and young teens so unknowingly. They think they are so ready to experience the world, but they are no where near ready.
I’ve heard of 12 year olds loosing their virginity,
12 years old… 12 years old?!
Thats still a child..
I am 17 years old, and I still don’t think it is right at this age to lose your virginity.
There are more years in our life time of having to be an adult than a child..
Why choose to grow up at such a young age?
It’s society’s poor image on teenagers that most look up to and try to duplicate.
Anyways, My point is,
Why doesn’t anyone become best friends first before a relationship,
because I guarantee it’s the best way to fall in love with someone.
I noticed everyone is having sex before they are even ready to do so,
they may even be ready to…but they let sex be the thing to make them fall in love..
instead of falling in love before the sex..
hmmmmm
I wish people would mature
no one has a logical mind about relationships
and you are all on here rambling about ohhhh DOES HE LIKE ME???
OHH THE OTHER DAY WE HAD SEX AND HE DIDN’T TALK TO ME SINCE, AND I MIGHT BE PREGNANT…
honestly…if you even have to say something like that in your lifetime…that really sucks for you haha, time to grow up a bit more and have some respect for your body.
I’ve dated many guys,
There is no point in having sex with someone unless you know you love them,
I have dated over 7 guys I’m sure,…if I had sex with the majority of them I would be regretting it now…because am I still with one of them right now? NO! i’m not, and I don’t think your little teen relationships will last forever either, so stop trying to impress other people by hooking up.
I know what it is like, having the peer pressure to do things,
but it is sooooooooooooooo dumb.
You guys are all frustrating.
Where are the REAL questions about dating& single?
Stop posting things like this;
DOES HE LIKE ME?
HOW DO I GET MY EX BACK?
ehh …..why would you want your ex back first of all?
if he doesn’t want you don’t force it.
Thanks everyone.
stop being so immature about your relationships…cause odds are …you were never in love in the first place like you thought you were
FYI…ive experienced it ALLL. haha..been there done that..and matured since
I’m not putting down everyone, so stop getting so butt hurt.
just the guys and gals who don’t realize that they don’t need to have sex with someone to be liked.
i had a boy friend..thought I was in love[age 16] Didn’t have sex with him for the 6 months we wend out. We had a strong relationship and ended it because we began changing and fighting everyday. Relationships aren’t always effective until you are matured because at such a young age ….everyone is changing rapidly.
My boyfriend DOESN’T masturbate. I know its not weird because my best friends man doesn’t either. But the thing is I want him to! I’ve even bought him a toy, but he doesn’t like it. I’ve talked to him and asked him if we could try mutual masturbation,(when you masturbate alongside your partner) but he won’t. I want to know if there are any creative ways to get him into it. Please help!
so i broke up with her on the 15th. i broke her heart after 1 year. she met a guy later that week and he gave her comfort and what i had given her. i know this bc she told me. i went to her house on the 31st and we talked for several hours and she said she cared about me and still liked me if i had came back around the 23 or so we would be back together. so we both cried, hugged and i left.
i visisted her the 4th also , we talked and i let her drive my car home from dairyqueen, (she has never drove it and always has wanted too) we talked i chatted with her mom and everything was good. i left with just a handshake. i figured it would make her want something more or make her mind wonder why no hug.
then today the 5th she came to myhouse we ate dinner and went to my familys house, my ex, my sister and me had a great time and we got close on some occasions and we also ate and drank after eachother, which i know was a good sign. i went to her house and stayed there with my sister for a while, however she was txting someone and i know it might have been that guy. when i left though i hugged her, she wasnt pressured and hugged back and held there not letting go fast.
i know in her room she still has pics of us up and some stuffed animals and trinkets where they always are still in place. so i know she hasnt thrown us completely away. she told me we would be best friends on the 31st and she didnt even think that guy and her would last long, she wouldnt thereticly break up w/ him cuzz she said she never would and it was taste of my own medicine.
now if this guy knew what me and her have been doing the past few days he prob call her a bitc# or sumthing. and i know he doesnt know whats she up too.
Do you think she will ever get back with me or is this guy going to take her away? and yes i know this is a rebound relationship and hes ugly as hell in my opinion. even her sister said so lmao
