We’ve been the BEST of friends since last year. He’s the only one of all of my friends that knows EVERYTHING about me and who I can talk to about anything. Last summer, he "dumped" me (we weren’t going out) for someone who was "hotter than me with a KILLER personality." Then he ignored me for three weeks. He eventually talked to me again then we were inseperable again. Then he left me again, we got back together, then we got in a fight, broke up, got back together, and we’ve been together ever since. I really thought things were going SOO much better than before and I was so happy to be with him, but then he randomly said "It’s over." His reasoning was mainly because his parents won’t let him date me and he’s really commited to his family, which I respect, but it’s…saddening. He also says that I’m overdramatic and that I only care about myself. What can I do to get him back? I really need him back in my life because I have no one to talk to…?
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I keep thinking my ex’s like… one single fault is so, so fixable with time. he’s only 17, I just turned 18. we were absolutely the best of friends, it’s just that I was starting my life and he’s still in highschool. I decided it was too much, because he didn’t seem interested in what’s probably going to be my life (art). but how could he be if he hasn’t been out in "the real world" yet and doesn’t know how it is?
I was also like his first real friend… ever. so I think the break might be good for him so he’ll learn how to be more sociable (and me, so I can figure out my college life and myself). but I still really hope deep down that he’ll mature just that one step further and we can get back together. am I deluding myself?
has this ever worked for anyone else?
he’s really super upset right now. he sobbed for days (so did I). we went out for six months. I’ve been trying to give him space.
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My fiance and I have been dating for 3 years. I love her more than life, and asked to her marry me last Sept., she replied Yes and I was so happy. I thought we had the perfect relationship, we rarely even argued, and we were both very affectionate with each other. 2 weeks ago, OUT OF THE BLUE, she decided that " she can’t do this anymore, and she needs to find herself, she said that our relationship wasn’t a good fit, and that it is over. Needless to say, I thought I was having a bad dream and to this day I am still sick to my stomach, I have lost 15 lbs and haven’t had a good night’s sleep in 2 weeks. I love her more than anything and miss her so much, She emailed me a few times, but the emails were very cold and distant, NOT THE PERSON I KNEW, she told me that there was no other guy, but that she needs time for herself and wants to continue as the best of friends. She said that we can meet for dinner ina few weeks. I AM SO UPSET, What do I do? I miss her and want her back
She said that she wants me to be her male best friend, and that we have a close friendship. I don’t want a close friendship, I want an intimate relationship with her.
Does being friends, ever lead back into a relationship?
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My fiance and I have been dating for 3 years. I love her more than life, and asked to her marry me last Sept., she replied Yes and I was so happy. I thought we had the perfect relationship, we rarely even argued, and we were both very affectionate with each other. 2 weeks ago, OUT OF THE BLUE, she decided that " she can’t do this anymore, and she needs to find herself, she said that our relationship wasn’t a good fit, and that it is over. Needless to say, I thought I was having a bad dream and to this day I am still sick to my stomach, I have lost 15 lbs and haven’t had a good night’s sleep in 2 weeks. I love her more than anything and miss her so much, She emailed me a few times, but the emails were very cold and distant, NOT THE PERSON I KNEW, she told me that there was no other guy, but that she needs time for herself and wants to continue as the best of friends. She said that we can meet for dinner ina few weeks. I AM SO UPSET, What do I do? I miss her and want her back
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About 3 years ago I had a girlfriend and we were very attached
we were the best of friends also and then we moved away.
I have been heart broken ever since. I have gained weight in the past 3 years, up to 200 pounds I am finally down to 180 and moving steadily down but I am still depressed. anybody have any hints on how to stop being depressed!!!
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