Me and my ex broke up, and I did it because I was really confused with everything going on in my life and was just plain acting stupid and idiotic when i made the decision, we broke up before and when we got back things were better, and throughout the relationship I changed and forced her to do things and put my friends before her. I never intended these actions, any of them, but I know for a fact I loved her more than anything. She started talking to me again in Feb, and she told me she missed me and liked me and I told her the same. Although not to long ago (a week ago?) she got a bf, and when i called her before this and poured my heart out to her she said the usual stuff about how she wants to be friends for a while but not forever and whatnot, and so far this has been very heartbreaking. She understands how I feel but still does this and acts like nothings wrong, I’m pitted against what to do. If she texts/calls me should I respond? If so, should I act happy or monotone? If I ignore her, I go to school with her and see her numerous times throughout the day. Should I say hi or what? I want to mature and become a better man for her, because I know for a fact I love her. I already know what aspects I will change about myself to be like the old me and make her happy. High school really does change people for the worst. Please help me out, please understand. I don’t know what to do about how to get her back. Ask for specifics if needed.
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I don’t need any comments on here telling me anything nasty. I’ve heard it all before and I don’t need anyone to call me names or tell me about my lack of morals. TRUST ME I KNOW. I have been in a relationship with a married man for about 6 months. Well I never intended to stay with him and have tried many times to end the relationship. Well anyways he is married to his wife of 10 yrs and we have discussed that he will never leave her. This I know and am ok with. They have a 2 yr old son and she is currently pregnant again. Well recently we found out that I am also expecting. At first he threatened me with suicide and after I lectured him about maturity and responsibility he came the realization that this is OUR problem and not just mine. He jokes about the baby having more of his genes and talks about how he hopes it’s a girl and everything. Well we recently ended out "relationship" sexually a couple weeks ago since he wants to try and be faithful. This I respect, I am not the first girl he cheated with but I can be the last. Well anyways we still talk on the phone and he tries to get sexual on the phone which always ends up in us having a sexual encounter. I need to leave him alone and move on and find a better man. He is 10 yrs my senior and married…I want to not love him anymore but it is hard. I’m having his baby and I don’t know what that is going to do to his life except ruin it. I need to find a way to stop wanting and needing him. WHAT DO I DO?
I was hanging out with a cute single successful guy that was totally into me, but all I was doing was thinking about my baby daddy and wishing he was there. I even paid someone money to take me to the next state to see him for two days! I have gone on two trips with him, one lasting as long as 18 days! I need help! I have to stop my obsession…what do I do??? Go to therapy? Listing all the things about him that are bad doesn’t help…I feel bad because if I feel the way I do about him, I can’t imagine how his wife feels and I don’t want to take him from her. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY POSITIVE ADVICE!!!
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After a year of seperation and my husband swearing he is a better man and knows he took us for granted. Can I fall in love with him again after being apart this long and seeing other people. Our divorce should have been final months ago but seems like it for some reason kept being pushed back not by us but by stupid silly reasons from the courts mishaps or perhaps it wasn’t really meant to be. I feel like if he has changed I should give him another chance not only because of him but our children. Can someone shed any light to this or maybe have they had this happen to them?
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Ok i think i am wasting my time on here trying to save a dead marriage with a woman i never really loved like i should have.But the past is the past and she seems to only want to remember the bad times and not the good.I have asked her is she seeing someone see says no but we are never getting back together again.But for some f**king reason she seems so call me when ever she needs something if she had someone would she not go to him first.Or again am i just a big dumba** or could she beneath all the anger maybe still love me.I know i fell like there is something still there but it maybe because i want it to be.I understand why she is so full of anger because i was suppose to be the man that made her life better but when i drank i was a monster to her and my son.I try and look back and make sence of why i did what i did but i can not.This is going to sound real bad but she had to leave me for me to want to change because i was not going to change just by someone saying i needed to change.I wrote this down in a note i told her you made me a better man the day you came into my life and even a better one the day you left me.I hope this does not sound stupid but without her leaving i would never had give up the drink or got anger management both i need.So if anyone can give me some advise or a litte bit of hope that this can be saved please let me know.Oh yea we have been seperated over a year she has filed for a divorce and every time we get together she brings up the divorce.So again am i fooling myself that i can ever change her mind and save this marriage.
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