How to get your ex back?

My friend wants some advice to get his ex back.

He got rid of his drinking and drug use. they have a kid together, he wants to be a family again but she just wants to bitch at him.

She says she dosnt want to be with, but she wants him to watch movies with her and hang out at the house. They talk to each other, and even though he is moved out, when ever he tells her he wants to spend money on something she will say “we dont have the money to be spending” but she dosnt want him as a bf or whatever.

What should he do? I’ ve heard a lot about the Second Chance Romance Book and the methods one can use to get back together with an ex, so I think I’ll tell him to give it a try…

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the night before last i dreamt that i was having an affair with this guy that i new of in highschool who is now married to a friend from childhood that i rarely talk to. it was all lust, but never made it to sealing the deal (which is wierd b/c i never found this guy attractive) we were running around in my old middle school laughing and flirting and stuff. we went out to eat and i was trying to figure out what i wanted, and for some reason i was picking something healthy (salmon) but i didn’t want to spend too much because he didn’t have a lot of money. the thought popped into my head "damn, this sucks. when i’m w/ my husband i don’t have to pay attention to the prices" then i started thinking about my husband and how much i loved him and couldn’t live without him. then his wife (my friend from long ago) showed up calling me a bitch. i pulled her aside and explained that i was just realizing how stupid this was, and that i loved my husband too much to do this. she cried and said thank you and i left.

last night i dreamt that i went on vacation with this guy that i knew way back when (he dated my best friend at the time for a couple of years- again, i never found him attractive) it was a big group of people- a whole bunch of couples. oh by the way, in both dreams the guys were telling me that they loved me even though it had only been going on for a couple of days, i don’t know if that matters. this time it did make it sealing the deal(i think) but we were just doing normal vacation stuff… drinking on the deck, cooking out, swimming but we were very lovey dovey. then a couple days before we were going to leave i started feeling guilty again, and decided to break it off. i was missing my husband and realized how stupid the whole thing was because i could lose my husband forever if he found out. oh and in this dream, for some reason my four month old son kept popping in and out of the dream, but my 4 year old was not in it. (both kids are from my husband)

i have no desire to cheat on my husband in waking hours, we have a very good, honest relationship. we’re best friends. even though it’s just a dream i feel guilty all day long wondering why i’m dreaming about this stuff.

also, i’ve always had this reoccuring dream that i’m back in highschool and i get that anxiety i used to get that i needed to get outta there. then finally i realize i’ve already graduated and i don’t need to be there anymore.

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I was raped and got genital herpes when I was 17. Ever since I tell all my partners about it, because I am not the type to lie and pass it around. Recently I dated a guy named Jeff who apparantly had it too. I told him I wasn’t on birth control then he tried knocking me up. When I found that out I started taking birth control and making him use condoms. This made him mad and he broke up with me. He told his friend Steve that I gave him genital herpes and never told him I had it and that I was trying to get pregnant which was why he broke up with me. THIS IS ALL FALSE. Steve has been telling the town lies about my personal business. Everywhere I go and he is he tells people I am with that I am a genital herpes giving slut and whore. He tells them that I am just a brokeback bitch trying to get pregnant and make some extra cash. It’s all A LIE! He won’t stop. I want to file harrassment charges. ADVICE PLEASE!

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He has three kids with his ex wife; but coming into this relationship i knew he had kids but i did not know his ex wife was a total bitch. She tells the kids horable things about the dad, and the children know waaay to much for there age. How do i cope with these kids (Because there so uste to having a life where they are too free), and how do i cope with his ex wife?

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OK, you don’t know what this girl is like. Please don’t talk to me about life lessons. I wanna fight fire with fire. I don’t care if I get hurt. I need to get revenge. I had this bff for two years. She pretended to be a good innocent little girl but she is a mean backstabbing fake. She keeps criticizing everybody and then pretends to be their friend. Now i have a new bff, *Kate. I used to hang out with my ex bff even though our "best" friendship had ended. she kept telling me, "OMG I hate *Kate so much, she’s such a bitch!" Then she would hang out with her and say the same thing about me to *Kate. Then Kate told me what she was saying about me. She didnt only say she hated me, but she also spread loads of rumors about me. we were only 12 and she said that i wasnt a virgin anymore and that i was a prostitute and that my boyfriend only went out with me coz i paid him. she also told everybody that i was bulimic. anyway, none of that is true. she also spread rumors about *kate. please help me get revenge. and dont tell me not to. i just want revenge ideas, thats all.

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She is really nice now but when i dumped her she was being a bitch. She is acting really nice to me and I think she likes me.

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My therapist says that it is worthwhile to save abusive 12 year marriage because of the history and we have 2 small kids. I told her that I want to leave and she’s telling me that I am giving up too easily (we’ve only been to her twice). I feel that I can’t take it anymore and it is not worhtwhile to me. I don’t think he’ll really change his core, just his behavior for awhile. I am in so much pain because of his verbal and emotional abuse that I go back and forth from strong to weak like I believe I am a stupid, ignorant, worhtless bitch who should drop dead from diabetes. That my kids are so unlucky to have a mother like me, etc. I have a place to go(my mom’s), until I get on my feet again. He tells me not to say a word about his ‘people’, but they can curse me out and he does nothing and agrees with them . I have to make a decision, but therapist is confusing me. She says he doesn’t really mean what he says he just is acting from his littleness. What do you think? I’m confused!
He has also choked me 3 times in the past(over 5 years ago) and i feel intimidated by him when he’s yelling in my face. Therapist is my individual therapist for 5 months prior and she’s the one who enabled me to grow stronger to be able to leave. noew she’s saying I’m giving up to easy. She has never advised me to leave though.

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Okay, so I dated this guy a year ago exactly (as of the 29th) and I dumped him a little bit later (maybr a month or so). I didn’t dump him because of something he did wrong or simething like that. He was the sweetest. Always holding you and tellin you how much he loved you. He always complimented me and always thought I was gorgeous even when I knew it wasn’t true. I broke up with him because I thought we would be better as friends. So when I dumped him he wasn’t mad. Just upset. He didn’t speak to me for about 8 months. After we started talking again I started to like him again. This was about 4 months ago that i started talking to him, and 1 month i started liking him. Right now I’m convinced I love him all over again. Atthe time I started liking him he was single and like nobody. Now he’s dating my friend :/. He dated her a few months ago but I had dated him before her. See, he has always been one to date his ex’s again. So now I want him back badly! I don’t want to break him up with my friend but I’d like to try to get him back once they’re done. I really need help!
Thanks everyone who is taking time to read this over and answer. I know it seems like a bitch move but once they’re done I’ll prolly go for it after a month or so. Of course I’ll talk to her about it though. And I need to know if he’ll even take ma back.. I hurt him so much I made him cry. And now I feel like a total idiot cuz I’m in love with him again…

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basically i went out with this girl for a year+ but through the entire year their were so many problems. we started going out over the summer, then school started back up and we both got extremely over jealous/protective but we still loved each other. we broke up for a month, got back together then she thought i was cheating on her cause i was talking to a couple girls she didn’t like because they were ex’s but i was friends with for years then she threw this giant fit about it so i didn’t call her over the Weekend and she broke up with me and asked me out the next day and said no then she started going out with this other guy and she kept ignoring me so i could never get back with her, then when i got her she said she didn’t deserve me cause of all the trouble i would get in with school and cops, and how she said she couldn’t trust me, and a guy she could actually control, but we had a son together but we had to get an abortion (we were both against it but their was nothing else left to do), and that’s probably whats keeping me attached, we’ve been broken up for 3 months and im still not over her, and all i have is to think about our son, and whenever we talked she would always say she loved me back and missed me but she cant, then would ignore me for another week+ ive tried being strong, ive tried being a bitch, i walked 5 miles in the rain to give her a dozen roses to try…same thing, she tells me to move on but i cant, idk how else i can win her back, any ideas?

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Well me and my ex jason havint talked for 2 months since we broke up we were together for 10 months he has another gf but its so obvious he still likes me.. well anyway him and his friends drew a huge picture in the cement at school saying my name MARIAH HOPE next to a picture of my face sucking a huge .. uhh Guys bits.. and this picture was really big,,,i told my friend and she got mad at me she said to me .. have you considered hes doing all this to make you not like him.. so do you think its a good idea that i draw a Big picture on the PE wall where he hangs out i thought of Him and his bestfriend him taking it up the bum and saying Revenge is sweeter than you ever were.. i know it sounds so immuture but his best friend starts so much shit and im made and my ex for everything.. i didnt want it to come to this but im fed up.. i didnt want to go down being the "Bitch of a girlfriend" i wanted to go down being the really sweet one.. but you have to do what you have to do?? What do you think??

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I cheated on my ex for reasons I cant really explain. Every time i tell the story why I cheated I think im trying to convince myself. Although I was a little younger then and naive and liked to play games. Well in any event I did love him and I still do love him and miss him sooo much. He is very stubborn and he like hates me but I want him to realized that i know what I did was wrong I do love HIM despite what ppl would say "if you really loved him you would not have cheated" that is total b.s and only a person who never cheated would actually believe that. So how can i get him to at least acknowledge my presence…Or should I just be direct and apologize and say i would like to at least be his friend because I miss his companionship (it is the honest to god truth)

O did i mention that I know he cheated on me before. When we first go together we were cheating on other spouses…so we knew we were both capable of cheating. His problem was that I cheated well went on a date with a friend of his but I didn’t sexually cheat im no whore. I think he was ready to settle down with me and I was still being immature
im sorry but your that comment was not neccessary nor wanted….just because your a little bitter bitch who obviously has no luck with the opposite sex….to be well informed before you comment because although ignorance is bliss for some it just makes me laugh in the inside….I nver stated that I had sex with anyone. cheating does not have a definite definition. Secondly GOD does not judge nor criticize one so you will burn in hell just for that comment….GOD HATES CHEATERS?? Really since when does god hate anyone you embisile. and dont say your source was god because you never talked to him before

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