what is this movie called? he looks back when he was in the military and he became a commander and they had to lighten these planes to take off an aircraft carrier.. they practice takeing off till they get it right.. they have to bomb japan i think? and only have enough fuel to drop the bombs.. anyone?
I had a 3 years relationship with a guy. We broke up and been separated for 5 years.
I never forgot him. I have had diner with him lately (load of laughs and great catch up)
It was super friendly. When we left at the end of the evening, he told me.. ‘we’ll probably meet up around again!’
I sent him an email afterwords to tell him I had a great time and he answered rapidly and signed his email with ‘shooting you some love’…
I’m tired of playing ‘friendly’ with this guy that I’m still interested in after those years (I’ve had other boyfriends, but he was always on my mind). I’m super shy to talk about it with him, I’m afraid I’ll drop a bomb..
What do you think.. I’d like to move on, but with a confirmation that I haven’t missed a thing..
Thanks for your comments!!
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My best friend is writing a book and she needs help finding a name for one of the brothers…….its based in like medieval times so she needs a name. I didnt tell her I was doing this so I cant exactly write any more about hers.
Im writing a book too, but i dont really need any names, just ideas for villian names because there are different villians in each one. I wasnt exactly planning to get it published, but if i ever get the chance, I will. Here’s a little summary of my book to get ideas for villians:
So the time is basically in between when futuristic stuff happens, like inbetween now and all the robots and that junk. The whole world barely has any population, and there are a few people from a different time (medieval times, or just a different realm thing. im not sure yet) who found out about these six kids who are supposed to go back in time and save the future days, so the main evil guy doesnt go forward in time and take over the world. SO they get all the kids from each city (each city has a training base) and they use abandoned stores or in my case a mall/ movie theater. (i had a dream about the very beginning of my book so, yeah) and this random evil guy comes, he’s pretty lame, but really intimidating, and his name (my other best friend who is a main Character, her dad came up with this) is THe raptor, yeah its supposed to be lame. anyways, so the raptor comes and brainwashes our base, so we escape for a while, then a brainwashed girl finds us and the raptor comes in his bright red airplane and brings us back, or he’d throw a bomb at us. then we escape again for good, running to find something to destroy the plane and the last tracking device in the world. we get a bomb from a "government" hidden place and throw it at the plane. but these three other kids from a different base were trying to destroy him too. I am: Ashley, my best friend Carley, The girl from the other base, Hannah, and the two guys, Nate and Hank. we are all about 13 and fourteen. we escape to venice for a while in hiding, in an old house with few furniture. we stay there for a week and lots of explaining goes on. theres a sixth kid, and we find out we are the great six. but the sixth guy ( Hannahs boyfriend) is being strangled one inch everyday by a giant serpent. but we arent sure if he still is. we all have the symbol of the great six, and we find out how Nate, Hank and hannah know, because they were kidnapped. after a few weeks in venice we go to the library to make sure everythings ok because no body had come after us yet. then the raptor appears and takes nate and hank because they mean alot to Carley, Hannah and me. then we go back to america and fight a whole army of brainwashed kids, and defeat the raptor, rescuing peter and nate and hank. theres a bunch of action and romance and a bit of comedy in it. but then at the end we get sucked into a warp, taking us back in time. and each book we fight a different villian. i need a good name for the villian in the second book. Im still writing the first, i just know whats gonna happen though. its gonna be a king, some type of evil king name. SORRY THIS WAS SO LONG!!!!!!! THANK YOU AND PLEASE ANSWER BOTH QUESTIONS!!!!! ![]()
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My husband suddenly left me a few weeks ago and I was stunned. We had just had our wedding 6 months ago, and just a few weeks before he left, his side of the family had thrown us another reception so they could all meet me. I came here with him (600 miles away from my family and friends) to support his military career. It took me so long to find a job and when I finally found one, it was mega stressful. I was considering looking or another job when he dropped the bomb on me. Now I HAVE to stay there, so both my work and home life are hell. He went from being affectionate to extremely mean and verbally abusive, he took me out to dinner and kissed me goodnight, and then in the morning he told me he wanted a divorce. He is always trying to start fights with me, was harassing me at work and calling me to harass me about "just sign the papers!" which there aren’t any papers drawn up yet, and I am trying to get his command to get him a psych eval. He has left the apt (but comes back weekly for more clothes) and refuses to talk to me, only communicating by text. A psychologist told me to try not to take it personally because he is sick, but it’s hard when he’s being ruthless and doing all he can to destroy your heart and get rid of you. I haven’t done anythingto deserve this and I am so hurt and bewildered I don’t know what to do.
I can’t go home for Christmas because of my stupid job, so I will spend Christmas alone. I was so happy just a short while ago, and I pray and pray to God to help me, but I fell like all I do is suffer. I don’t know why this had to happen- I had to be far away from home in a strange city knowing virtually no one (I’m a little shy), In a job I hate, Imeet and grow to love his family and friends etc., and they love me in return. He was bugging me for months and months to change my name over to his last name and now that I have finally changed everything over, he wants rid of me, and says he never even loved me to begin with!
I am just at a loss as to what to do. I have no real friends and family and feel extremely alone. I did nothing to deserve this except love and trust him and I got so hurt. I don’t know why God would let this happen, I was a good and faithful military wife, I gave him his space, I was honest and fair, I could have cleaned him out and screwed everything up for him after he left, but I didn’t. I know everybody is going to say give up and move on, and I am trying my hardest, but this feels like a death has occured and I a grieving very hard.. All our future plans together, I had started fertility treatments because we wanted to start a family. etc., are dead. On top of it I have been really sick lately, lost about 30 lbs, under a lot of stress at work. I feel like I’m in a living hell. What is this happening to me? Why? And what can I do to not be sad and sick all the time? I do not know what to do with my life now, where to go, what to do. I talk to people (who by the way say He left you!? Why you’re so pretty!" guess "pretty" has nothing to do with it), go to a therapist and I’m on medication, but this thing is still so painful I can barely get through each day. Should I be praying more? What am I doing wrong? And starting ove with someone new? I can’t even imagine it because what if I fall in love again and get discarded the same way again. How do I know the man isn’t lying to me? How do I know and relax that he won’t abandon me like the others? I can’t go thru this anymore.
I don’t feel like I can move back home, it would seem like the ultimate failure to me, and i don’t want everyone to know until I am ready to tell them, so going home for me is not really a good option at this point.
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Okay so I’ll try to make this quick.
She and I went out for 1.5 years, and after the first 2 months she told me she loved me.
With previous girlfriends, when they dropped the "L" bomb and I didn’t feel it toward them, I broke up with them within a month or less.
This was different though, I told her I didn’t know if I was ready to say it, but that I still really wanted to be with her.
So she continued to tell me she loved me throughout the next year plus.
Jumping forward… After this most recent spring break (2 or so weeks after) we were headed to the store to pick some stuff up.
I had been really debating for the past few days before that about telling her (FINALLY) that I love her. I thought to myself that I might as well make fully sure before I go through with this (because I had never ever said it to anyone else before).
So, being somewhat sneaky and untrusting, when she went in to the store I checked her old text messages on her phone. The text message at the very bottom had a little Lock on it, meaning it was saved… It said "Te Amo"… and it was from one of her best friends in Mexico. For those of you that don’t know…(she is Mexican, was born in Mexico, but lives up here now, speaks fluent Spanish, and went to spring break in Mexico to visit her dad)…. Anyway, Te Amo is VERY serious and it is essentially like professing your undying love to someone. Like the next step is a SERIOUS relationship.
So, I quickly put the phone down after seeing it, and when we got back to her apartment, I brought it up and asked her what it was. I said that I couldn’t trust her, that she was cheating on me, and all this other crap. She assured me that she wasn’t, and was BAWLING, like eyeballs about to pop out of her head she was so distraught because she thought I was going to break up with her.
She told me that the reason she kept the text message was to A: pretend it was from me, and B: it was nice knowing that someone could actually love her.
I didn’t buy it at the time, but I believe that now I do. So after the whole argument and explanation she gave, I told her that if we were to stay together, she’d have to go through a lot of pain at my hand because I was essentially going to treat her like shit.
She agreed and said whatever it took for me to regain her trust.
Well, about a month down the road, I sent her a text before she got out of class (we’re both in college) and it said something like, "I don’t know if I can ever trust you again." … I sent the text message because I was thinking about the "Te Amo" text and I was just frustrated.
She came over later that day and we sat down and talked, and essentially she wanted to break up with me because of how I had been treating her.
We broke up, and a day or two after we broke up, with ALOT of thinking, I realized that I loved her and I needed to tell her. It took me 2 hours of sitting in her bed and making small talk to finally bring it up and tell her. She said "I love you too" back to me or whatever, and then she said that we should give this relationship a second chance, but it’s going to take work, etc…
Well, now we’re broken up and she has fallen out of love with me, she still loves me, she told me… But I can tell she doesn’t feel the same burning love that she felt before, and she admitted that.
So I want to know… How can I prove myself to her and have her fall in love with me again? I really want to make her happy and I want to be with her, she is my life and I want so much to just prove myself to her.
Oh, and she’s down in Mexico right now for 2 weeks visiting family/friends, so I can’t really do anything immediately (kind of out of contact due to distance, cell phone charges etc) so any advice would be great!!
Thanks so much for reading this… I know I said it’d be short… But I have WAY too many emotions going on right now to keep things short.
Oh and sorry I forgot to add.. this is the order of things…
We broke up, I told her that I loved her… and thats it, we’ve never gotten back together, its still kind of like a "trial" period i guess.



