When I moved out of my boyfriends’s house a couple of months ago my son started acting funny about going to sleep in his own crib, we’ve both been sick and so to make it easier I just keep putting him to sleep in my bed. Now what do I do to break him of that? I NEED my space back fast!!!
I felt he was hiding something from me,,had and intuition he was on a personals site…We have been together for a year
My man and I had promised each other before moving to our new location that what happened in our old location stays in our old location. I have made conscious efforts not to mention exes or previous boyfriends. He was married once before, and I understand that they still have business-type loose ends (like a car that she has that he is paying for even after the divorce because she refuses to). However, he still keeps bringing her up and I am sick of hearing about her. For instance, I have been trying to find a job (I was laid off prior to our moving) and he decided to mention how his ex would quit her job in the morning and find another one by nightfall (let’s bear in mind that these were retail and restaurant jobs where the employers never thought to check and see if she was a job hopper. I am not past working those types of jobs, but I have been interviewing for jobs with better benefits and pay so that I can pay my own way and not sponge off him like she did). Of course, that ticked me off.
Then, he and his dad got into an argument because when he married his ex, his family never came to the wedding. Mind you, this argument occurred six months after the divorce was final, and occurred right in front of me, which I found rude. There have been other instances where he would mention what a good cook she was and a few other things. I am certain he is not wanting to go back to her (of course, I know it is not impossible, I am not stupid). The woman stole his money, furniture, and car, plus left him for another man while he was out to sea, and has other issues as well. I am glad he has some fond memories of her, despite all this, but I am really sick of hearing about it. I had a rather tempestuous relationship with my ex, and truthfully find it hard to remember the good times, but have decided to let it go, not only in accordance with the agreement with my man but also because I want to move on and make new memories in my new life. It is hard to do that when his ex is constantly being brought up. He doesn’t understand why I am so angry but has made an effort to stop talking about her. I don’t mind that he has happy memories of her, but am I wrong to not want to hear about them anymore?
I was recently dumped b/c he wanted his freedom with his single guy friends.
Girls: how do you win him back.
Please don’t give me advise about moving on.
I just want to hear stories of how those girls won their ex boyfriend back.
Does anyone read my details at all?
I just want to hear stories on how girls won their boyfriend back, NOT advice!
I was a jealous boyfriend. Now, I am a jealous husband. My wife had breast cancer, with both breasts removed. This happened several years ago and after the mastectomies, she refused for years to have breast implants. There is a new man working in her department that is divorced. His ex-wife had breast implants done by this cosmetic surgeon. Now my wife has made an appointment with this same doctor. She says she wants to make herself more attractive for me, but my jealous suspicions seem to be that she wants to impress her coworker. They started eating lunch together as part of a group from the office. With summer vacations and people out of the office, I have found out through my wife that these two are having lunch exclusively every day, either in the office cafe or other lunch places outside the office.
A college buddy of mine, who’s wife did leave him for another man, told me that once his wife started going to lunch outside the office with guys, guys would take her to other places in their cars besides restaurants during lunchtime. I was told it was a bad sign and to watch out.
In the past, I have broken up with girlfriends that I suspected were interested in other men and I felt they were cheating on me although I had no concrete proof. Other women have broken up with me saying that I was too controlling.
My wife only has a half hour for her lunch and her co worker has an hour. She has told me that other people were fired because they were repeatedly late coming back from lunch. I told her I don’t think it’s a good idea for her to go off with this guy for lunch because if she’s late too often she could get fired.
At the place where my wife works they have a strict policy on alcohol use and being under the influence of alcohol in the work place. Two co workers at her office were fired when a manager noticed they were acting strangely after lunch, had two police man called to the work place, administered a breathalyzer and they were both fired. Last week, my wife does not drink, and when we were at a restaurant for dinner, she noticed a wine on the list and said that she tried some of that at lunch earlier that day. Her friend was having a glass of wine and recommended that she try it because it tasted like fruity grape juice.
"So, you had a glass of wine during your lunch break from work?"
Yeah, it was just one glass.
"Do you remember what happened to Susie and Jim when the drank at lunchtime?"
Sure. But they were really being stupid about it. I only had one glass. Can’t get drunk from just one old little glass of wine.
"Do you really want to take that chance? You shouldn’t be drinking during the day. I thought you didn’t drink."
"I don’t. But that wine Kenny had me try didn’t taste like wine at all."
It wouldn’t surprise me if Kenny didn’t slip a roofie in my wife’s drink from the way she was acting that night.
To make things more complex, I was laid off from my employer two years ago and I am working my own business in addition to working a second job in sales, so I am covered under my wife’s health insurance policy.
When I question my wife about this co worker, my wife gets angry and threatens to leave me saying "good luck paying for your own health insurance. Individual plans cost a fortune."
I have been uneasy with any man that my wife enjoys his company. When I was a kid, most wives stayed at home with children and the men worked. Today, many wives are working, and with the recession on, many husbands are not working or are working their own businesses because most companies are simply not hiring anymore.
Does your wife have lunch and socialize with other men at work? Does your wife have other male friends? How do you deal with this as a husband? (The same questions also apply to boyfriends with girlfriends).
My wife says that she and her co worker friend are just "Platonic" and there is nothing sexual or romantic in their friendship. Personally, I think the whole notion of a Platonic relationship between a man and a woman is a load of bull.
Women can answer also although I am primarily looking for men’s opinions on this matter.
I am in a position where I am the new girl in my mans life. However, his family has not recovered from his break up with his ex who is practically part of the family. Because of this they automatically refuse to get to know me or like me. I am angry because I am a beautiful woman with a lot of good qualities but they refuse to even acknowledge me when I say something simple like "HI" To make matters worse my boyfriend is in his late 30’s and I am in my early 20’s. I really care about him, and when I met him that is all that I saw; not his age or situation. I just feel that I am being judged. How do I make this situation better? My boyfriend says that we should not care about what his family thinks its about our relationship not theirs, but a family can make or break a relationship. The thing that really sucks is that I really love his family. It’s big, everyone is close; full of love and tons of kids, but I am on the outside looking in…..Help!!!
Another point is that my boyfriend and his ex are close because they are parents together. My boyfriend makes the situation worse sometimes because while he has never formally introduced me or told his folks about me it was a pop up situation so they really don’t know too much about me, but he is really close with his mom, so if we have a disagreemet….he tells her everything. So she might be hip to only the negative aspects of the relationship opposed to the good things about me and us as a couple.
He has three kids with his ex wife; but coming into this relationship i knew he had kids but i did not know his ex wife was a total bitch. She tells the kids horable things about the dad, and the children know waaay to much for there age. How do i cope with these kids (Because there so uste to having a life where they are too free), and how do i cope with his ex wife?
My friend and i go into a fight.I tried everything to resolve things but nothing worked. 3 days later i could tell she had completeley moved on with her life by meeting other friends. It really hurt, we used to be really close she was even invited to my cousins wedding. I am over it now but why do people move on so quickly whether boyfriends or ex friends. She did once tell me she keeps all her emotions of pain inside was it a way of dealing with what happend?
when the ex-girlfriend is of the same batch and when she continues to talk to him and gives him gifts,
My boyfriend and I have been together for a good 7 months. He has a 3 year old daughter whose mother hates me, and up until a few weeks ago my boyfriends mother was very hot and cold with me aswell. Basically we had a fight infront of his child and he flipped out on me and said i was turning him into a monster,. Mind you we were in the process of getting a 2 bedroom apartment which I now live in alone. He broke it off saying that we should only see eachother when his daughter is not there, I feel as though he should want to get out of his parents house at 26 and give his daughter a better life. His family is way too into our relationship and now both families have tainted opinions. He came over yesterday and told me he hated me, that he never wanted to be with me again, heard i cheated on him (which is a lie told to him by his ex’s uncle) anyway he basically cut me up. I told him I wanted my TV back that i bought for his bedroom bc it was supposed to come with us to our apartment, that turned into a huge argument over a 2 way and both of our families were yelling in the background. I talked to him late at night and he and i were both crying, we feel as though we finally understand how to make our relationship work but now it might be too late, do i really want to be with someone whose family blames everything on their sons girlfriends and scares every girl away? and do I want to be with a guy who is still taking orders from his ex *(who HAS a new boyfriend by the way) He told me to call him after work today, and he is getting his daughter tomorrow, i want to see him tonight, i miss him so much, but so much damage has been done. what should i do?
Me and Maya been best friends since 8th grade. We 24 years old now. I’m bisexual(more lesbian than straight) and I’m slowly but surely coming out the closet. Maya has been my best friend for 11 years but what I felt for her was secretly bigger than that. My entire family loves her because Maya grew up with a neglecting mother and no father. So, they showed her support and even came to live with us at some point. Maya dated my older brother for three years and she had a baby girl with him. I gave birth to my son two months later. So, we both became mothers around the same time(age 17). My brother was murdered a year after my son and my niece was born. I admit I was always jealous of the fact that my brother was dating my best friend but believe me, I was hurt and devastated when my brother died. So, me and Maya shared everything together. My parents helped us raise the kids being that my brother was dead and my son’s father was a deadbeat. We had many boyfriends but nothing serious. It’s always been about ME, MAYA, MY SON and HER DAUGHTER(MY NIECE).
But 4 years ago, Maya met Antoine and she fell so hard in love it made me sick. Once again, I felt like another man was taking Maya away from me. But on the flip side, I admit that I was attracted to Antoine in addition to being secretly in love with Maya. We’ve been flirting for 4 years before something finally jumped off. By the time me and Antoine had sex, he and Maya was already married with a infant son together. This affair went on for 6 months until Maya found out about it when her old nosy neighbor opened up her big mouth. Maya confronted me at my job and attacked me physically almost getting me fired and herself arrested. She kicked Antoine out for 2 months and then let him back in. But she won’t talk to me still and its not fair. I do NOT want her husband! I tried to apologize. I love Maya so much and I told her that in a looooonng letter I wrote her expressing my REAL feelings for her. She emailed me calling me a "hoe" and a "dike" and that I need to "get help".
I know I was wrong. But it makes me cry. Why is she always choosing men over me? And does she have the right to forbid me from seeing my niece? That’s the ONLY PIECE OF MY BROTHER THAT I HAVE LEFT!! My son and her daughter are cousins but they’re like siblings. How can she take it out on THEM? I love Maya and its a shame she doesn’t reciprocate. How am I any more wrong than Antoine is? What should I do?
My friend and i go into a fight.I tried everything to resolve things but nothing worked. 3 days later i could tell she had completeley moved on with her life by meeting other friends. It really hurt, we used to be really close she was even invited to my cousins wedding. I am over it now but why do people move on so quickly whether boyfriends or ex friends. She did once tell me she keeps all her emotions of pain inside was it a way of dealing with what happend?
we’ve been dating for a while 4 months and its perfect. i might be rushing this love thing? but i feel it. && my last boyfriends werent nothing compared to him. i just want to live in the moment. No Stress u know?
well um my boyfriend chris well another way to put it is that my boyfriends ex girlfriend is telling me to break up with him and that i am way to pretty for him and im tired of her all up and on him. and he pushes her back from him!! and she wont STOP wish she would will he dump me for her? help? plz
ps she has dated almost every guy in the 8th grade and i have told her to back off
She is sending him messages to have him call her, and they should hangout and she misses him. We are in our 20’s and been together for a year. He says that they will always be friends and I’m just gonna have to deal with it but they haven’t spoken since we’ve been together and now they just started too…but he doesn’t call her to my knowledge. I don’t like it nor appreciate it because I’m not stupid and it feels like she is trying to get him back. He loves me and I know wants to be with me forever but how can I get her to stop?
I only enjoy listening to country music. I need a song or two about your boyfriends ex girlfriend wanting him back and he chooses her over you, or leaves you for her, or how he wont do anything about her crossing the line, maybe even how he cant tell her no. Give er take a little but something along those lines. Somethin like that to lightin my mood! Even something along the lines of my boyfriends ex girlfriends gonna get an ass whoopin.
p.s. ive heard crazy ex girlfriend a million and one times. i dont need it suggested! thank you though!
Me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months when he left for missouri with my best friend to go through AIT for the national guards. When he left we were perfectly happy, and everything was fine. We both agreed we would stay together for the 3 months he would be gone, and both we ok with a short long distance. Two weeks into him being gone i open my e-mail to find a naked picture spread eagle over a bowling alley tiolet of my best friend sent to me from my boyfriends cell phone. i talked to him the next day about it because he only got his phone on certain nights depending on his physical trainings. i asked him instantly about the picture, and he had no idea what i was talking about. aparently when they have personal time they have to use the buddy system and decided because it was legal to drink on base, because they are both 18, to get drunk together, then meet up with others at the bowling alley. he says he doesnt remember sending me them, and i called everything off. he continues to call me and talks to my family as if nothing happened (none of my family know what he did), and tries to make me feel guilty for calling things off. he wants to go on a date when he gets back (Oct. 31st). ive told him repetedly that i want nothing to do with him, and he isnt listening at all. i was wondering if i should give him another chance, ignore him, or try to get him to back off by getting revenge and making him see how messed up what he did was?
i did talk to my friedn, and she started crying and apologizing to me about what happeend. i flat out asked her what happened and she said we had sex but its not like that between them, it was a one time thing, and it would never happen again.
Long story but totally worth it!
My boyfriends ex girlfriend wants to get back together with him AGAIN!!!! They also have a child together but have been on again off again since he was born. They have recently been broken up for a year and a half and this time it was because she cheated on him. She has taken him to court several times for custody and a few other times for some non-sense that was throw out.
We have been together for almost a year now and she’s known that we’ve been seeing each other but just until recently (past couple months) he and I have made it become more serious and we both love each other (awww, isn’t love grand! hehe) and low and behold, a few weeks ago she called him and told him that she still loved him and wants him back and that she wants him to think about it. He told me that she called him and i value that he was honest and that makes me trust him.
I havn’t brought it up since he told me because I am secure in our relationship but she keeps texting him and what have you and I’m starting to get ******* irritated as hell!!!! Example: They talk on the phone about their child etc..etc.. and he talks to her in front of me and its no problem, but he’ll drop their son off to her and moments later he gets a text from her about how she loves him and how she knows he still loves her blah blah blah. Or she’ll call him at like 3am or text him! He is not in love with her nor does he have any type of love for her besides being the mother of his child. and they both know that every time they’ve "tried to work it out" it never worked….so whats the freakin deal here? Why can’t she move on like an adult its been how many attempts and how many years? She also called and asked all these personal questions about me and him, like if I get him off and if we have good sex etc…hello grow up??? I can’t even amagine asking questions like that to my ex ( i have a child too and I have moved on, and I did it with grace thank you very much) Geezzzz!
Should I stop ignoring it and tell him how I feel? And whats her deal? Is she just testing him or does she only love him and want him back when he’s in a great, loving, healthy, relationship and its not with her….I just want her to back off….but I understand they have a kid together etc…but uhhh errrr I just need some advise PAH-LEASE! Thanks! BTW I am 27 he is 28….and she’s 33.
I am 12, and he is 12. We were together for 5 weeks. Yesterday I thought that we had it great. We both just got back from winter break, and we finally got to see each other. Then he pulled me a side and broke up with me. I didn’t know what I did wrong. He said I was the perfect girlfriend… Then I emailed him, and he said it wasn’t something that I did, and it wasn’t for another girl. He just said he didn’t really like me that much. Ever since I have been crying and crying. A lot of people at school call me popular and hot. But I just think of myself as any other kid. Now a lot of people call him ugly and dumb. I think of him as popular and me ugly and dumb. Everyone says that he would be lucky to have me. But I think that I was lucky to have him… I am not going to school today, because i sprained my leg, but i’m going back tomorrow. he said he wanted to talk to me in person. He knows he hurt me a lot, and he is trying to make me feel better. He asked if we could just be friends, but I said I don’t know. That would just be weird. I still love him. Well when I get back to school, I really want to talk to him. I had a dream last night, that i want to reenact. I would talk to him, and then say,"Can i ask you something?" Then I would kiss him, for the first time on the lips, and ask to get back together. Do you think I should do this? A lot of my friends say I should, and i really want to. Would this be a bad move? From past boyfriends, they said I was a good kisser.
My wife and I are currently going through a divorce. Our marriage was fraught with difficulty both financially and sexually. I was going through a very difficult time working numerous and long hours, trying to pay the mortgage, I was going through hormone treatments for an illness as well. My wife was working part time and was not making enough to really help cover all the bills and this was during the mortgage crisis when the house payments practically doubled and we had a small baby as well. Any way it was during this time that my wife, who had an online dating profile on the interner before we knew each other, began cruising the singles sites, doing online compatibility checks between her and her former husband and boyfriends. I caught her once she said she wouldn’t do it anymore but I caught her again several months later checking out profiles and lewd pictures of other men on craigslist.
She did not write or contact any of the men but I still think this is cheating. When I confronted her about it she apologized but then also said she wanted a divorce. When I asked her why she said it was because I bullied her, mistreated her, verbally abused her, swore at her, called her names and that I did all of this in private and even out in public. She said she used to love me but soon became afraid of me and even terrified of me and no longer even wanted to sleep with me. (This is true, at one point she started sleeping on the couch giving some inane excuse) She said that she was afraid of my anger and that she always feared my outbursts.
While this is true that I did not treat very well I was going through so much emotionally, financially and my physical illness as well. I do indeed have a temper but this still does not give her the right to cheat on me and I DO believe that looking at singles’ profiles and pictures of other men IS Cheating.
Anyway, she has apologized profusely about what she did but does not want to be married to and is going forward with the divorce.
I still miss but I just know what to do, I have a hard time trusting her again..
Please share your opinions.
