My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half. We are both 19 and in college. We used to fight so much that now when we fight, he gets tired of it and doesn’t want to deal with it so he doesn’t care. On the other-hand, when we fight all i do is cry for the same reason that he doesn’t care. Lately he’s been really distant with me. We never hold hands, hug, or kiss. We barely talk on the phone or hang out. I love him to death and would hate to see him go. I really want to save this relationship but i feel as though there is no hope for us. We’ve already taken a break but that didn’t exactly work. What can I do to save this dying relationship?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and a half. We are both 19 and in college. We used to fight so much that now when we fight, he gets tired of it and doesn’t want to deal with it so he doesn’t care. On the other-hand, when we fight all i do is cry for the same reason that he doesn’t care. Lately he’s been really distant with me. We never hold hands, hug, or kiss. We barely talk on the phone or hang out. I love him to death and would hate to see him go. I really want to save this relationship but i feel as though there is no hope for us. We’ve already taken a break but that didn’t exactly work. What can I do to save this dying relationship?
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my EX broke up with me and now i want to get back!I want him to be begging me to take him back. he said that he had no reason to break but he broke up anyway! our relasionship was great he was never nervous and never upset.
but i ‘m nt taking him back! i just want him to see what he lost. i gave him everything
PLEASE HELP!
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ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?
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Can I get him back, or is it just pointless.
How can I get over him??
Please help me..?
Me and my ex went out for almost a year. and we broke up about a month and a half ago. we had a great relationship of course we had our fights but we would always make up and get along great. I was so in love with him. i had never loved anyone as much as i loved him, not even my parents.
About 2 weeks before our relationship completely ended he randomly said that he needed a break because he hated how he never saw me and that its “killing him” he said we would take a break for 3 days. but the next day he texted me and was liek i can’t wait any longer. im sorry, lets try to make this work one more time. and so we did. but 2 or 3 times within the 2 weeks he would pretty much break up with me but we would talk it out. he blew me off twice within 3 days. and then at the end of the 2 weeks he just ended it. all he said was that it wasn’t working. and that the magic was gone. and that he still wanted to be friends.
Its been a month and a half we talk occasionally. but early last week we were talking for a couple days. which is abnornmal because before that we would just text to see how eachother were then stop. and this time we were actually talking and having full conversations for about 2 or 3 days. and then we just stopped but a couple days later i was just tired of hearing all these things he was saying about me so i finally just asked him straight up. and we talked everything out. it turns out none of it was true. but i heard that he was going to go out with this one girl that i had mat a couple times before. and i asked him and he never gave me a straight answer and finally he just said that he liked someone else. but of course he wouldn’t tell me who it was.
Then i asked him if he was over me. and he said idk. i asked him what he meant. and he said well i miss you but i dont want to go back out. then i asked if he would ever want to go back out, and he said well honestly i dont think so. after that he stopped texting me and i stopped texting him. i deleted his numbers from my phone and i deleted him from my facebook. i was so angry and i didnt really have a reason to be. but i woke up this morning and i just burst out into tears and i’ve been crying all day.
I really really really really miss him. like its so hard to not be talking to him anymore. but i really want to be over him at the same time. but then again all i do is want him back.
is there anyway to get him back?? or is it just hopeless.. and if there pretty much is no way to get him back how can i get over him..
I’ve tried everything but it doesnt seem to be working.
If your a guy and you were in his position would you take me back
If your a girl share some experiences, any advice that would help.
Pleasee just help me in some way
Thank you so much*



