Me and my boyfriend (well ex now) were kidding around and texting each other perverted stuff, and his stupid freaking mother decided to check his phone the ONE time I actually said something bad.
She told his dad, and his dad was furious. Now his parents think im a whore and they made him break up with me.
We still talk and stuff, and we’re friends, but that’s not good enough.
Iwant him backk, so what do I do?
I’m not a whore, we havent even done anything except kissing.
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Step 2 – Because you were together you are going to be the one who knows more about what she likes and dislikes than anyone else and certainly gives you an advantage over others who know her. Arrange to meet her in locations that she feels comfortable with and try to avoid having yours or her friends with you when you do. If she is unwilling to meet with you then start off by talking to her on the phone, but don’t just turn up unexpectedly in places where she is going to be.
Step 3 – It is important that when you do get together on when talking on the phone you don’t talk up about the break up or the problems that your relationship was having. Rather talk about those things that were positive in it. When …
Whether your ex broke up with you yesterday, last week, or last month, if you want him or her back it can be hard to move on. You replay the breakup over and over in your mind, wishing that things would end differently. You wonder what would have happened if you had just changed a few of your bad habits, or picked up after yourself more often, or listened more when your ex talked to you… maybe the breakup never would have occurred. Does this sound familiar?
If you have talked to your friends or family about reversing the breakup so much that they are all sick of listening to you, you probably feel like you have no where else to turn. You can’t keep talking about your relationship with them, because they all start to tell you the same things. Get over your ex. Move on with your life. If you let someone go and they come back to you it is meant to be. Get a hobby. Get a life. Find someone else.
Are you tired of hearing that you need to move on? If you really feel like your ex was the one for you and you will never find someone else like him or her, how can you ever move on? If you feel so deeply that your life is over if you don’t get your ex back, someone telling you that you need to get a life isn’t going to help much. If you knew how to move on, you would, right? If you knew that moving on wouldn’t be the biggest mistake of your life, it would be easier, wouldn’t it?
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I stared as you walked into the room
Its all lies…
Each “I love you”
You asked to be just friends
you’d found someone else
left me hanging
put my heart on a shelf
the reasons for love
no one knows
but when i miss you
is shows
I hoped it wasn’t true
i prayed for a second chance
but you didn’t want me…
no room for our romance
I’m sorry I wasn’t good enough
I’m trying so hard to not cry
you hurt me bad
i wont lie
but what i felt most was the fast
goodbye…
Please don’t forget me
i wont forget you
but please no regrets
were living life
through, and through
Who ever she is
i hope she knows she’s lucky
because shes got a great guy
i miss when i would ask “whats up”
and you’d say “the sky”
But its all gone now…
i have to move on
loves not my game
its just another song.
written about a recent break up…. please tell me what u thnk
I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break
he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way
they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful
he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them.
he was very hurt when i asked for a break.
since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex)
i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already)
he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court.
he also added her onto facebook
no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates)
and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status.
i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama.
finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer.
he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night
i had one bad piece of news to tell him though.
one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS ….
finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago.
turns out she hasn’t paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since.
well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house)
and i was kind of freaked out.
so i tol dmy boyfriend about it.
he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!)
so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son.
he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it.
and thats IT !
i called him and texted him sunday and nothing
The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago.
is he fine ?
yes he has updated his twitter all week
he is on facebook and aim as i type this question.
he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention.
and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook.
on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit)
he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ?
should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
Does anyone have any advise on how to cope with a breakup after 4 years? we had a child together but he was very mentally abusive to my seven year old so I made him leave but now I have so many different emotions I don’t know what to feel exactly…
He went abroad 2 study&won’t come back b4 2years.He’s 22&I’m 25.We’ve matured together&been through a lot.I love him very much&can’t stand even to imagine him with another girl since I used to dream about getting married to him someday.But nowadays I want 2 meet new people&experience new relationships both emotionally&sexually. Whenever he has time he comes but we don’t have a great time.I’m not sure if he’s the one.I’m a dominant person&he’s usually passive.I don’t want my dreams in life to be his dreams;I don’t want him to live MY ideal life.Sometimes I feel that he may be much happier in the long term with another girl&it would be better for me to be with a person who is more masculine.On the other hand,I have a feeling that I can’t find someone better because he’s the best man I’ve ever known including my father.I’m afraid of regretting later.Also we have so many memories together&I’m such a melancholy person that I dunno how to recover if I break up.But I feel that I need a change
My mind is really mixed up.*sigh*I wish I could just pause my relationship for some time and live another life and then decide.But I know this is impossible.
I’m a nineteen year old very mature male and in a relationship. I’m homosexual; if that makes a difference. I’ve know my current boyfriend for 7yrs now. Throughout hs we always talked on and off and recently for the past almost 7months we’ve been dating. This i have to say is my first love. I feel like kyle is the one for me. He makes me very happy.
Recently this week we’ve been having severe communication probs. we’re both in college 200mi away we both work, our schedules conflict. So i’ve talked to him about how i feel he doesnt care and he’s been short with me. And last night i would say i overreacted. He was with his friends and i was at work on break i called him he was short THATS EXPECTED HE WAS WITH HIS FRIENDS. but i had texted him a question that required a one word answer. sent is twice NO RESPONCE. I’m not this lame i wasnt upset with that fact of the text it was that we’ve been talkin about comm and he completely thru it out the window and nowWEmightBreakUp
this guy…soooooooo chweet was my bf…we loved eachother SO MUCH….he couldnt live without me for even a day..it was a long dstnce relationship…we swore to love eachother always….in december when he returned..we met for the first time..n kiss later in feb he broke up giving contradicting reasons…i asked many questions..his reply was ‘i dont know’…
he broke up…we kept emailing eachother after that..i was v rude to him..n so was he..any way, he finally go SO annoyed that he put me in his ignore list..then surprisingly later on removed me..i havnt spoken to him since then..
he promised to love me till eternity…he was sooooo intoxicating when we met..so gentle….so hypnotising.,..
i cant believe the guy i loved so much has turned so rude…i am v emotional…i trust people ONLY when i knw they wont break it..
i trusted him too…after he broke me…i hv lost interest in life…in everything…mom is worried too…so r my pals..unlike my frnds..i still havnt started crushing on other guys after the breakup…
i fear trusting poeple….i fear to fall in love again….coz if all this repeats i ll die…seriously…i dont want to get married ever….mom knows everything. she is v supportive…i hv my frnds…i hv my family…yet d sense of loss of losing him is still there…i cant get him out of my heart…i hgave so many reasons to hate him..yet i cant…i know things r over yet i pretend he’s still with me…i dont know why…i feel like hugging him soooo tight..and crying…n not letting him go any where…
i dont want to be like this forver…this is amperin my performnce in school…and my disposition…
i chat a LOT…u ll want to zip my mouth!!! bt thats no longer there…mom says…i stay alone all the time…lost in his thoughts…
i really want to have him right next to me…i love him…BUT i want to forget him…what should i do?! will i re,main like this forver??! will i ever love someone again?!? what will i do when he comes to indis this november?!? (he’s abroad fer studies) v r 16..
its 6 months now…
i dont seem to like any guy…not that there rnt good 1z..derz this popular guy in my skool whom grls r head over heels for..2 b honest..he looks way better than my ex..BUT…i dont find hm AS good as my ex was..:(
not only him bt all guys!! X(
This couple is living together and they love each other. Later he starts seeing a girl and she starts seeing a guy and the couple breaks up. Both have a new start with these people that they were seeing but it doesn’t last for too long and the new two couples break up. The original couple still loves each other and they will have a second start because at the end of the movie there are two men in a place is or looks like a dumpsite and they have the power to go back in time. The two men will give them a second chance.
High School Sweethearts- First Kiss, First everything I lost interest our their relationship because nothing was changing (I was still living in sin) for almost 6 years! He goes off to College in a different state. I break up with him because I was interested in someone else, and did not want to cheat. and also felt like I would never be good enough to be his wife. I did sleep w/ 2 people in those 5 months. A guy who I have known for almost 2 years, and this other guy who took advantage of me. I told my ex all of this, and all of the details. Maybe I was being too honest, but I love him and I know that he is the one for me but it seems like nothing I do is working. People cheat all of the time, and keep it secret, or their spouse forgives them. He has become quite religious, and I told him that god says forgive people of their sins as he did for us. So, do I deserve a second chance? Or is there no hope in winning him back?
My friend is being, in a way, abused by her boyfriend and used. She is unaware of it and me and my friends who care for her have tried to tell her, but she doesn’t understand. So, as Wiccans, we have decided to resort to magic.
Now, don’t warn us of risks or that we’re "going to hell" or any of that nonsense. We know all the risks. We also know this can be considered Black Magic and we may end up getting bad karma back at us, which is where we need help.
We think we might be able to use White Magic to make her see his true colors, and give them both courage so that they both have the bravery to break up with one another… But would this still be Black Magic?
Tell me any suggestions. We really need help! We don’t want her to get hurt…
1) It’s emotional abuse
2) I thought it was again the Wiccan Rede… I was unsure. Thanks for helping.
I love my boyfriend very much. He is sweet to me and treats me so great. Sometimes I feel though that it is fake. Like he doesn’t know how to deal with me other than being sugary sweet. We have been together since the end of our senior year of high school, almost 4 years ago. He isn’t motivated towards life really though, and he often lets an immature side of him take over. He gets MAD about the silliest things sometimes, and it really really gets on my nerves.
I am an outdoor person who grew up in the country and he is from a big suburb. The older we get, the more apparent these things are. He isn’t interested in spending the day at the lake and I always want to go. We don’t share as many common interests as we used to. He likes to listen to old rock and roll, and I like that too, but if I bring any electronic music home, he never wants to listen to it or if we do, he picks it apart because it isn’t hard enough. He is a great musician and dreams of making that his career, but he doesn’t take any active steps towards it.
He has a warrant for not having insurance or registration or inspection and couldn’t pay the ticket. His parents offered to pay it all for him in exchange for him coming out and helping them fix up their new house, and he won’t do it. I have to cart him around everywhere. If I really cared about him deep inside, wouldn’t I feel more patience for him? I am confused as to why I get mad about these things. I try to help him, but he won’t fully accept it. I guess he is lazy?
He and I have lived together the whole time we have been together. There have been a couple of times were he betrayed my trust with a couple of other girls in the beginning of our relationship, and I simply can’t let that go. I don’t think he actually like slept with them, but there was still emotional cheating and him sneaking behind my back that hurt me so badly.
When we argue or have serious talks, sometimes I bring those times up because they still eat away at me inside and he gets mad at me and says that I am bringing up old stuff that isn’t relevant anymore. That it is old news. It shouldn’t matter anymore because so much time has passed.
He doesn’t know this, but I thought that if I did what he did to me behind his back, that I would feel even and better about it. I don’t. Now I feel like I have ruined the relationship on my end, and he has no idea I flirted over text with an ex for a while. The ex and I met up, but I just didn’t want to take it further in real life, so I didn’t.
Can I have a normal relationship with him ever again now that we both have emotionally betrayed each other? He is so perfect for me in so many ways, but I feel like there is a silent black cloud lingering overhead constantly. We’re only 21. Should I end this relationship and start from scratch with another man? Should I try to stick it out with my boyfriend and see if time indeed does heal wounds?
I could not afford psychiatric counselling But perhaps I don’t need one. I’m not a masochist, I think I’m just sentimental. I like bringing back old happy memories and it makes me cry. I broke up a few days ago with my fiance, and I could not describe the pain. He has been treating me bad, verbal abuse, sometimes physical, even in public. I always found ways to forgive him since I love him. I did hope that maybe he could change. But I realize that people don’t change. I’m not going to elaborate on how we broke up. The thing is that I finally found the courage to stand up for my dignity and "fight back". He sent me messages on the phone today that he got so used to me and felt good around me, that he misses me. I answered him sarcastically that he could use other girls, but not me. I added that I am no longer his doormat.
My problem is I try to get myself busy, see friends, but everything I do reminds me of him. We lived together and so I think this makes it even more painful since i spent a lot of time with him. I still love him and he knows that.
I noticed that most people get over relationships much faster than I do. My previous relationship it took me 4 years to recover. During that period I refused to see anyone (guys), not even for tea. I don’t want history to repeat. Please help. Any advice or suggestions are welcome. Only serious answers please.
We were supposed to get married next month. The announcement has been made to all friends, invitations sent, etc.
Yes, I know about Karma, yes I have experience with casting spells (just not love spells) and yes I know how to break spells. I don’t need that type of information from anyone. All I need is a potent and powerful spell to get my ex back. THATS ALL I am asking for. I thank u all for your advice, but my mind and plan-of-action is made up. I have done the neccessary research I needed to do before coming to this conclusion. So all I need is a LOVE SPELL….
Now Im thinking shes going a little crazy! K, so point is she still has feelings for him and says that she "loves" him. But shes the one who broke up with him. Now that we’re dating, Im thinking shes going looloo in the head! So she has thoughts of physically hurting me, I’ve heard. Shes telling my friends that she’ll do anything to make me and my boyfriend break up no matter what. K, so another thing to add to all that. Shes copying me! Haircut, the same she recently cut it. Dressing now the same, always wearing shorts like I do when she used to always wear jeans. What should I do about this girl? I’ve told my boyfriend how she hates me and wants to make us break up but she just won’t stop. She really needs to back off! Any advice? Thanks!=)
I own my home. My boyfriend and I have lived together for about 6 years. I don’t want to break up with him. I just don’t want my house trashed (he’s a slob) and my TV stuck on football from August to February (he’s an Eagles fan). He pays his share of household expenses and a "rent" and even keeps most of his stuff in a separate bedroom. But he did not contribute when I had to have the roof replaced and won’t have the money to fix up the bathroom he’s ruined. I love him and don’t want to end the relationship (there are benefits certainly!) but this just can’t go on. In fact, if I ever wanted to sell the house I would have to make him vacate with all his things anyway or at least put much of it into a storage room. How can I tell him that I need my house back for me, since it is after all mine!
Oh and marriage is not in the picture here. We don’t ever plan to get married for a variety of reason. So can I extract him from my home without completely wrecking the relationship?
We have been dating for two years. I would like to make the commitment to move in together. I have four kids, he has never married in his life and has no kids. He’s 44, I’m 40. He says how much he loves me, whenever I bring up putting our lives together, he fusses and whines that he never wants to sell his house and that his only goal in life before he met me was to fix up his amazing garage so he could work on cars there and possibly turn it into a business. My house is too small for him and his house is too small for my whole family. And he is really anal about his house, so we don’t go over there too often. His girlfriend before me he was living with (but not in this house) however, sadly, she died. He told me he wants to go on just like we are, dating, with him sleeping over all the time, but always maintaining our separate residences, separate lives. I want the commitment, planning our future together, not just the living arrangements, but everything. Is 2 yrs too soon?
I feel like girls always are so heart broken after a break up. Is this the same for guys? do they move on quickly? and if they "move on" do they really forget their once strong feelings for their ex? and do you only miss an ex who you were in love with? do you ever hope you can go back with them in the future or do you want to move on compelely if it didnt end so good because of the guys fault? Also one other thing- if alot of time has passed do you lose intrest or not care? or do you still think about them and love them the same?
i made a question earlier about how my 2 year gf left me, when she moved to uni, and got with another boyfriend just 2 weeks later. i was so mad and felt so betrayed, i posted pics on facebook of her naked, that just made me feel worse,
she left me a month ago, she made no effort to contact me and is very clear she doesnt love me anymore.
how ever, everyday i still wake up and she is the first thing i think about, when i was with her, i really did stop thinking about other girls completely.
my whole life i only ever wanted one girl, just one a perfect girl, i really thought she was the one.
problem now is, i have 2 mates who never do anythink, no contacts, no way of meeting new people, im scared i will never find anyone special again,and worse is it posible to truly love again? does love ever die?
will i always be afraid to open my heart to some one again, will i always fear love. will i always live in fear of it happening again?
does it ever get easy?
how can love be so painful?
I’m 16
I went out with a guy for 3 months…
I broke up with his because i didn’t want to be in a relationship at the time.
He’s been contacting his other Ex who went through the same thing I did. [Go out. Break up. Miss him.]
I realized that i still have feelings for him and I really want to be with him again. But I don’t want him to be like how he was when he told me his ex had feelings for him while we were going out.
Basically I want to know if it would be the right thing to tell him how i feel.
I’m cry over missing him and all i want is him back. But I don’t know if he wants to be with his Ex instead!!!
I didnt want to be in a relationship before with a perfect guy
alright so here’s the situation.. it’s not long. my ex just recently broke up with her boyfriend. i think she did it because she wants me back. the thing is.. i was trying all this time to get over her ! i mean, i’m halfway there. my heart isn’t whole yet but it found some of its pieces and some of it back together. [time did the healing]
i realized i’m "okay" being without her. it’s not as painful as it was in the beginning. but i’m longing for that feeling called "love". it’s just… i’m scared to go back to her because she might crush and break my heart again. she’s giving me signs that she wants me back and it’s flattering but i don’t know what to do in this situation.. what would you do? take your ex back and fall in love. or just let time mend my heart whole again? remember.. life is short…. that’s the quote that is always playing in my head.
later in feb he broke up giving contradicting reasons…i asked many questions..his reply was ‘i dont know’…
