Should I pay back my ex boyfriend, who is now getting married to someone else after 7 years with me?
My ex told me he’s getting married after 7 years of our on and off again relationship. I came to the conclusion that he never loved me. 2 years ago he gave me 0 to help me out with my rent. Now, that he is getting married I guess he wants it back. He has been calling me and texting me, not asking for the money but wanting to know how I’m doing. He never once asked for it or left it on the voicemail. (No, I’m not answering the phone or calling him back bc we have already said goodbye and I’m tried of drawing this thing out.) I didn’t know he wanted the money until I went on a trip to the west coast and he sent his friend that lives there that knows my friend I was with to tell me that he wants me to give it to him. He sent a message through someone while I was on vacation. He always knows how to ruin my time. (had always in the past) I am unemployed and can’t afford to pay him back. He is not a broke man and does not need the money. I honestly think he is trying to just get me to call him and if I just send the money it will still not be the end. What should I do? I don’t want it to go towards his wedding expenses. He should let me just have it. He has broken my heart 1000 times in 7 years. What do you think is the best thing to do??? I was gonna write him an email telling him how I feel and ask him if I can keep it. Please ask for more info if you need it in order to offer your advice.
