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A friend of mine began dating my ex a few years back, they lasted nearly three years and have now broken up. I couldn’t help but notice that the week prior to their breakup we were all partying, she was bringing up old times between me and her, deep ones of romance and the important things that happened between us. She also kept looking my way, but looking at me the same way she used to.

Then, a week later and they’re over.

Now I’ve noticed she’s always flirting with me and talking to me whenever she sees the chance. She’s wanting me to hang around with her, party with her, stuff like this.

The thing of it all is that I havn’t lost the same feelings I’ve had for her at all. I still have very strong feelings for her.
However she just ended it with a guy who’s literally like a brother to me. Yet he had no problem dating her when we split, so if I acted on the flirting, the feelings, everything, are my actions justified? Or would it be considered “wrong” of me to do that?

I’ve never stopped loving her, and have always secretly wished for a second chance. But he’s a best friend of mine.

OPINIONS?!
An additional note is te original reason we split is pretty much my problems with alcohol a few years back. I was drunk everyday and was never around her sober or without a bottle in my hand.

I could of had her back but made the stupid mistake of rejecting her to go after an … “Easier” girl who would get drunk all the time for me.

Changed now, see my mistakes.

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So, I am 23, and my husband is 27. We always get invited to his brothers house who is 25-26 and his wifes house who is also 23.. they have three kids, and we have one daughter.. well every weekend they invite us to go over to their house because they are "partying" with some friends and drinking whatever.. well we hardly go, but when we do go, I don’t drink and I make the night short.. (not past 9pm) so i feel bad for my husband because he wants to hang out with his brother.. but i want to get my daughter home bathed and fed and in bed at a decent hour now have her out all hours of the night so my husband can party with his brother. i understand that he doesn’t get to see him much.. but I mean.. i rather be a good parent and we made a commitment to our child when we decided to have children.. I want to be a responsible parent.. but I don’t want my husband feeling held back either.. how can I compromise with this situation?
by the way, my daughter is only 6 months.. she doesn’t do "nap" times and my husband would never "do something" to my daughter while she is sleeping.. that is just gross

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We have been together for 4 yrs. And have a 2 yr. old little girl. We were arguing alot the last month before he wanted to leave. It has been two months now. We now live three hours apart from each other. I am the one who moved. He now live with my brother and sister in-law. My sister would tell me if he was messing around she tells me he comes home from work the same time every night and doesn’t ever do anything. He tells me he still loves me and that he will always love me but he needs sometime to think about stuff. I was with him this last weekend and it went really good, but he said he wants to still see if we can keep it like that. Then I started in with him this week. I think I wrecked it again with my mouth. I am just really hurt, and then it makes me say stupid things. I just want my family back together. Don’t know what to do.
We were arguing alot because he was working days and I was working night. He is the manager were he works. When he had to fire the assistant manager. He had to work everyday intill they found a new one. So he worked like 140 days in a row. So we would argue because we never seem to see each other or got to do things as a family. He was getting really stressed out, but who wouldn’t.
When I said I think I wrecked it with my mouth. I kind of lied and told him I found someone else. I know I shouldn’t of done that, but I thought maybe he would want me back sooner. So now he is really mad at me.

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i dated this guy, lets call him Frank, we dated fer a few days over a month,i was 16 and he was 18. im currently 17 and he is still 18. he was my first everything, from hand holding to kissing to sex. then he randomly became mean so i couldn’t take it and broke up with him. its been about 8 months since our breakup and i have a new amazing boyfriend who treats me like gold. but all the time i randomly start thinking about my ex and i talk about him a lot, even to my boyfriend. me and ‘frank" never talk. and if we do, he is saying something mean (like im ugly and he never loved me) but he used to always say i was beautiful and stuff. he has a girlfriend now. and ive seen him once these past 8 months, and when i saw him he kept looking at me. my friends say he probably still loves me and wants me back. but it doesn’t show because he hasn’t said one nice word to me since the breakup. another bad thing is that about a month after me and him broke up, i dated his brother to get him jealous, and frank forced him to break up with me! i wanna know either, how to get him back, how to figure out why he hates me, if he still loves me.
its been 8 months. im dying here.
i need answers!

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my brother is older than me i am a guy and i just want to get back at him he is always calling me fat and when ever he beats me at something he just rubs it in my face. am i fat i am 13 and i am 138? please be honest. how do i get back at him just kick his ass?

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My two older brothers have played magic for years. I got into a few years a go. But I was still pretty little and had a crappy deck my parents bought for me. Recently I’ve decided to start up magic again but I’ve decided to screw my old deck and get a new, good deck. However I don’t really know how to make a deck. So I need recommendations.

1. I don’t care what colour but it has to be mono coloured.
2. I’d like it to be not too hard to play.
3. I tend to like 1/1 creatures for 1 mana. If that helps with my style.
4. This is optional but it would be nice, I’d like a themed deck. My brother plays a Goblin deck and my other brother plays a Splinter deck. So it’d be nice to have a theme.
5. Cost isn’t a huge deal but I would like it to be affordable. (Under 0)

If you can stay within the guideline it’d be nice, also if you stay within most of the guidelines post those aswell.

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After almost tree years relationship ( including a year and four months of being engaged) my fiance has decided to take a break, bc hes been stressfull lately. I, gave him the time he wanted. i havent call him or write him, bc i understand he wants to think things, as he told me he wanted to do this. all his family are very united with me; his brother told me hes not like wanting to date girls or do crazy things overthere, he just shut down himself.

I was very confused at the beginning (its been a week it happened) bc i dont even live around him like for him to feel stress. I do believe he loves me alot and dont want to hurt me at all. i cant deny i had cried about this. I gotta say too i had let it gone the fact of being myself as i was when he used to come to visit me the very first times. now i am working into myself for when we get back he would be more than in love with me and we will gonna be ready for marriage (as long as i havent finish college, i asked him to wait till
i get my degree and i could move to the USA with him.

what should i do?

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Jeez, what the hell is going on?! I’m looking for an anime episode [RAW, because I wanted to play around with the translation and subtitles] and suddenly, Internet Explorer magically comes up with some bullshit that there is a hardware error nearly in every drive in my computer and it pops up with first "security update" box asking me if I need to run and install something. This is all in Internet explorer and I can’t close it or minimize it, but I can still open new windows and such. I don’t know what the hell it is, and then another magic burst of wonderfulness comes up with "Microsoft Internet Explorer" and in that box it says "Serious security and privacy threats found on your computer. It may damage your files or steal your personal and financial information. Click "OK" to start downloading CRITICAL security software update."

I don’t know if I should trust this or not. And it’s making me irritated. I’m 13 and I’m mainly the only one that uses the computer and my parents aren’t going to know what to do so there’s no point in asking them. My brother is a year younger than me so he might have a tad more knowledge but since I’m the computer dork only I will know what to do but since I don’t… I need an opinion/explanation for this crap.

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We got into a fight and he left my right eye pure red from poped blood vessels and my school pictures lookd bad and im just wondering whats a good way to get back at him
i have his phone number and his GFs
he lives with me
hes barley home
he has a car
Just leave sum suggestions and ill let yall know which 1s i do

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My ex boyfriend and I managed to remain friends after we broke up over a year ago. I even have a key to his apartment. Well, the other night, he called me crying on the phone about how I needed to come over because he needed to talk to me. I went to see him because I was worried. I thought someone in his family died.

When I arrived, I discovered women’s clothing and stripper shoes and gear in his closet. When I questioned him about the gear, he said it belonged to his brother’s girlfriend. (????) Long story short, it ended up belonging to some woman who he said was living with him for a few days but said she was never coming back. He wouldn’t tell me many details, so I figured that’s why he was upset.

I sat on his bed and waited for him to fall asleep and I bunked on the couch b/c it was too late for me to drive home.

30 minutes after I drifted off, a woman came in and I darted over to the door because it frightened me. She pushed the door on my so hard that she ended up breaking my ring finger on my right hand.

She then began questioning me and yelling about why was I there with her fiance in her house. I was like WTF have I gotten myself into?

I grabbed my bag and got the hell out of there because someone was going to end up in the hospital or jail- and I wasn’t going to the hospital.

She called me as I was driving home and told me that she knows how I look and if she ever sees me again, she would bash my face in. I told her that she needed to take that up with her fiance because he asked me to come over.

Well, I’m suing both of them. I feel as if he placed me in a dangerous situation. I think he used me as bait to get her to come home and may have endangered my life. After all, he never told me he was engaged or that a woman had moved in with him. Had I known that, there’s no possible way I would’ve gone to his apartment.

I decided not to file criminal charges but my attorney is pushing for everything that he can. He said my ex is negligent and his fiancee has not only threatened my life but also broke my finger.

My ex has apologized and agreed to pay my medical bills.

I can’t work because I need both hands to type. Everything happened so quickly that I didn’t realize there was a problem with my finger until I got home..guess it was adrenaline.

I’m an educated woman and I will have my Engineer license within the next year. I’m highly accomplished and graduated at the top of my class. I am insulted by the fact that someone that I was associated with is desperate enough to "shack up" and marry a stripper.

When I asked him about this, he said it’s not true and they’re not engaged, but she even has a ring. He said the ring was given to her by her ex. Someone is lying!!!!

We were in a relationship for 4 years and I’m deeply hurt by the fact that he basically chose this stripper over our friendship by using me. It’s like he’s more concerned about protecting her privacy than he is about my broken finger.

This guy already has a lot of drama in his life. He’s in court every few months regarding a child support issue that he’s been avoiding and he has issues within his family that he needs to address.

Why on earth would he try to wife up a stripper? Can someone tell this fool that when his son’s mother finds out about this stripper he might as well give up his parental rights. Why would this guy bring more drama into his life by bringing in a woman like that?

What should I do? Should I continue with the law suit? Should I make his stripper fiancee write me a letter of apology? Should I take them both for everything they have or will have in the future?

My family is livid because they know what I’ve done for him over the years and they are pushing me hard to pursue this legally.

I’ve come here for the opinions of total strangers. What would you do?

Also, let me get one thing straight. We had our run and it didn’t work out for us, but I thought we at least had a great friendship. What bothers me is that he failed to tell me anything about this woman. I want him to be happy in life and if this stripper does that for him, then so be it, but I refuse to be humiliated, used as bait, threatened and assaulted without taking some kind of action.

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Ok so my mother in law updated her computer and gave us her old one which was built by an ex brother in law of hers. Its totally frankensteined and she doesnt know the Windows Registration key or anything. This is a problem since we had massive viruses and had to re-install Windows XP. now we dont have sound and dont have drivers that are nessecary, and I cant use the Flash drive that I had saved all of my schoolwork on before the viruses I downloaded Magic Jelly Bean Keyfinder in hopes of pulling up the 25 digit key that her ex B-I-L used when making the computer and it pulled one up but when I used it to activate windows it said that it was an unauthorized key. Now I dont know what to do. I do all my college classes online and we are too broke to buy anymore software that might help. I would borrow my grandma’s old XP discs but We cant even tell what KIND of computer this is since it was built from scrap (i.e. DELL, HP). Here is the only system info we have:

System:
Microsoft Windows XP
Professional
Version 2002
Service Pack 2

Computer:
Intel(R)
Celeron(R) CPU 2.40GHz
2.40GHz, 504 MB of RAM

There is also this weird number under the Registered to section in my system properties. Its a jumble of letters and numbers but there is no pattern like the 5 characters – 5 charachters – so on and so on like you see in Keys. Its more like 5 numbers – 3 letters- 8 numbers- 5 numbers.

If I go to Microsoft.com before the deadline to activate windows (I have 26 days left to do so) can I install my drivers and updates without penalty or getting into trouble. I heard from a friend of mine that she entered an illegal key and Microsoft sent her computer a virus that blew her motherboard. We didnt steal this copy, it was the one that came with it but my mother in law was never given the key so she cant help us.

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Long story short. My husband can get away with calling his ex wife that he was not in contact with for many years and I was the one that pushed him to contact his (kids) Now his kids are 23 and 21 but when they are not home he is talking to his ex for about 1 hour and calls the next night for another 1/2 hour. He doesn’t tell me when he calls (very seldom) but I know when he does call. I have the right to know I think being married to him for 14 years.
He and I have a good close marriage but he told me she is my friend.
I am so upset and hurt inside that I find when he calls and I have spoke to him about it but he doesn’t seem to cut this back. I understand a father should keep in touch with his kids but I tracked calls from November until now and it has been 15 calls and sometimes for one hour at a time.
My father doesn’t call me or my sister or brother this much maybe once every week or two.
His kids are 23 and 21 and they are out on a friday night so I found he called at 1015pm and spoke to her until 11pm
She is 56 and he is 49 and I wonder why would he do this to me. Is he wanting another friendship ? Is he lacking something with me? They live 5 hours away from us and maybe this is his mid life crisis?
She never remarried so of course I am sure likes speaking to him but how much can they speak about and about what.
They were only married for 5 years and during those years he was away for 2 years and then left her in 1990 ( not for me)
I am truly hurt over this and don’t know what I should think?
My mom said they have a past and history together. They have kids. I can understand if the kids were older but 23 and 21 … he can call once every week or two but not 1 hour on xmas the next night at 10pm for 1/2 hour then on 12/29 and 1/2 for 1 hour … while I was out.
The thing is I never met her and the kids do not want to meet me. He tried over and over to talk to them but they can not accept all these years later that he is not with their mother.
It is driving me nuts because I was the one who told him about 3 years ago get to know his kids & it backfired in my face.
Of course I know he should call his kids but if you saw on the bill how much he calls and your not around and wonder what can be said, what can be spoken about…
My husbands mother is close with her and dislikes and she adds my fire to this whole deal by telling them things.
it truly is taking an effect on me. As much as I tell him it is bothering me, he seems to be ignoring and disrespecting my feelings.
Any advice.

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Ok not really mental. But his whole attitude has changed completely ever since he started making friends with a couple of guys. Their kind of like hardcore skater guys. Like they do a lot of daring things. But not really life threatening. My brother is 16 yrs old btw. He has gotten in trouble more because they pressure him and convince him to do things. And hes starting to get into fights with other guys. Like one time he came home with a black eye. Me and my brother are really close so i covered for him and kind of covered up his black eye with my make up magic. Lol. So my parents never found out about that. I hate covering for him all the time. I don’t want him to get in trouble because of his new friends. He has other friends similar to them but their more responsible and kind of conservative but still like to have fun. And they even think hes changed but my brother just brushes it off and he says that he hasn’t. He has. He used to be more responsible and care more. He dosen’t care about anything any more and all he ever does now is go out with his new friends and skateboard, stay out late and do crazy crap. I don’t know what to do and approach the situation to my brother. He always just says he dosen’t care and he hasn’t changed and is still the same person. And i’m worried they are also getting him to do drugs like smoking and drinking loads. Because one of my friends brother said that he was hanging out with him one time and my bro tried smoking a cig one of his new friends gave them. Overall – How do i make my brother see that there is something wrong with him hanging out with these guys? I don’t want my brother hating me and whatnot because i care about him. Should i tell my parents? I’m pretty sure that would make him hate me forever ;( HELP PLEASE! Oh and i’m younger than him. I’m 15. I feel i am worrying to much about the whole thing.

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I am a good father. I have a 7 year old girl and 5 year old boy. I have a 5 bedroom home. They have their own rooms. I get them every Thursday. I take them to school every Friday morning. On my weedends, I pick them back up Friday and take them to school Monday. I had to beg for this time. I told my ex that if she would give me that time I would agree to my Child Support to go up. My child support tripled and I took on twice the total time with my kids.

The point is that I love spending time with my kids and I would give anything to spend more time with them. I have never missed a weekend and provide med insurance for them, I provide them with their own rooms, their own clothes, toys, movies, music, take them to church. I do all of these things and yet I still get grief from their step dad, he tells me I’m not a man when I came to pick my kids up today. He told me that my child support of ,300 + 0 for med insurance isn’t enough and she isn’t happy and the important thing is to keep her happy. And that I will screw everything up and if I want everyone to get along I need to give her a check tonight. (She spent her money assuming the new C.S. check was coming and it’s not due till my next check. And she says I should have told her. I told her, I don’t write the check and she new it wasn’t due yet, but for some reason… I owe her. Not according to the attorney general but according to her. But yet instead of talking to me she gets her husband to go talk to me when I pick my kids up.

The last time he did this, I arranged for my kids (with my ex) to pick my kids up on her sunday because they were the ring barrer and flower girl in my brother’s wedding. When I showed up, HE decided he didn’t like that idea, wouldn’t let me have them when I showed up, pulled a gun on me, told me to leave and slammed the door. I punched the window on his door and ended up getting 10 months probation, 80 hours community service and paid back ,500 to him for the window and court fees.

So how do I get this to stop. She won’t stop it, she is the one provoking it. He is very very cocky and irrogant. The most irregant person I have every known. He has a way of pushing your buttons because he knows I can do nothing about it. When I was married to my ex, she knew him and mentioned he was an irregant prick that treats his wife like crap… So I just don’t know what to do. It takes every pride swallowing inch of my buddy to not beat the crap out of him. I don’t fight, but this guy wouldn’t be a problem. He was always the guy making more money, and providing more than I could for my kids. This last past year I got a huge pay raise, new house, new truck. My ex wife is very materialistic and I have all the things the begged me to have when we were together. He can’t get them for her and now I have them with my current wife. I don’t know if this has anything to do with it. Like he has to belittle me because of his self esteem issues…

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I just got done talking to my ex girlfriend over the telephone. She basically told me to leave her alone because otherwise she will call my parents. she told me that i am a good guy, she cares and loves me…but doesn’t love me like that, also she went on saying that she ll never back and be married to me and have childern with me. We were together for a year, and towards the end she kept wanting to break up because she said that she didn’t see herself married to me etc… I told her than to stay with me until she found another guy ( in a sarcastic way). well, in september she went out dancing with her moms’ brother in law, and started develop a crush on him. He’s always had a crush on her, ever since his brother married my ex girlfriend mother. But, she’s was never interested in him. Until they finally went out salsa dancing. So she said that she was interested in him and was confused. We ended up going out one more time in mid september, and it was lovely, we were happy….but when i woke up the following morning, i was upset by the situation, so i told her in so many words " either me or him" she said " let me think about it" i replied " then nothing" so she said, " ok take care".

She also said that I can’t force her to love me…… and that she’s been ignoring me because she doesn’t want me to love her.

At this point, what should i Do? I really love her, i miss her everyday, but she’s basically told me that she’s not interested.
I mean, after a year together, a girl could just fall out of love like that? was she ever in love with me?

A month after we broke up, she asked me to help her with some money to fix her car……she told me that i was the first guy that she ever asked for money…i asked her why? she told me because she trusts me…….

Why couldn’t she ask the new boyfriend then???? I always told her that i was going to be there for her in any sitaution, so that’s why i went ahead and help her with the money.

SHe wrote me a post dated check, but i refused.

Anyway…… I really love this girl, but is it really over? HOw could a gilr refuse someone who ’s giving her so much love?
SHe’s 26, and i am 28. She’s been through a lot in her life, tough childhood, bad father, bad relationships, 2 marriages, an abortion……
We got together right after a tough break up for her…..she had just broken up with her ex of 5 years whom she was deeply in love with…..but I was the one helping her through that.

But she’s a great great person deep inside…that’s maybe why i lover her so much.

What should i DO?

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I know , I am exaggerating in the topic( marriage),, but here where I stay, I found that a lot? and want to know the opinion of the Egyptians in that: Btw,, (if the man/woman themselves are not criminals but only the close relative???
@kalooka: like a drug dealer, theif

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Me and my ex girlfriend broke up and we don’t talk to each other anymore.

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He is in excellent health, but obviously an age of a grandfather. I love my husband, and we have a 4 yr. old who adores him, and I would love for him to have a sister or brother. What is your opinion in this? Is if fair to a child to be born to a 44 yr. old father, who will be 62 when they graduate?

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So i got the magic mouse (Please no opinions on it)
and I pared it up right and works fine.

The only problem is that i can’t make it scroll down (I know i’m suppose to scroll down like if there was a mouse wheel there)
My brother said he had to download some software, but i could’t find it, so i think he’s messing with me.
Thanks in advance.
"But i couldn’t find it"
I think that means something, silly window users!

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My family has an open door policy, we’re not nudists but we don’t hide from each other. So if I’m in the shower and my brother needs to come in and brush his teeth before school, that’s exactly what happens. We don’t hang out naked, we just don’t mind nudity.

So what happened was, my brother didn’t realize that a couple friends of mine stopped by and on his way to his room from the shower (my room is on the way) he popped in to grab his iPod that I borrowed so he could listen to it while he got dressed. Of course my friends saw him naked and he quickly left and got dressed, but now my friends think my whole family is weird for being comfortable with nudity and are being distant with me.

So I don’t know what to say to them, really. And I’m afraid when school starts up again rumors will fly about me and my family.

Help!

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okay i was in my country like a month ago and i was trying to stay away from a girl who had recently hurt me in the usa. i was looking for someone and i had later met this girl who i had never knew or met. so one day i went to my sisters husbands parents crib and i had later seen her and she started to talk to me like she had knew me. so she had taken me to her house along with others girls and then she introduced me to other peopls there. so like everytime she wud come i wud just get afraid and run away since i didnt kno her. and i had came over again and i had later had a long talk wit her and wit h my other peoples and i had once held her hand just to be nice. i wasnt in love . then one night she had called me brother and i was just upset cuz we werent even related. and the night when she was leaving home she was blowing me kisses and she had kept looking at me whenever i was ltalkin to her and i never made eye contact. now its hurting me and i want to forget bout her but how?

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I want to plan a surprise weekend gift for my sister and her husband who have been together for 14 years. Because of past arguments and their hectic schedules, they both admit that they don’t feel in love with each other anymore and that they usually run out of things to say to each other when left alone.

They planned to go to San Diego to watch a sport event the 1st weekend of May but there was a problem with the arrangements. I’m helping them think of where else to go and what to do on that weekend instead.

My brother in law likes sports, video games, nature adventures. My sister likes chocolate, music, funny things. They both like to read, watch movies, eat, and be silly. They love their children. :) I just wish thaty this weekend can help them love each other more. :)

Any ideas on where they could go and what they can do? :)
Thanks! :)

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My 4month old son would try to latch onto my chin and then raise his head so i could kiss his chin. I was the sweetest thing!
Today at the grocery, a lady was admiring my son asleep in his carrier when my 2 year old daughter walked up to her and said "thats my brother, hes sleeping i love him" That made tears come to my eyes, i couldnt help picking her up and give her kisses!

Life would be so boring without my kids!

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