Alright, my ex-boyfriend’s name was Roger. I met him last year in school near the middle of it. We hung out, we mostly had lunch and he would walk with me to other classes. I liked him then, but wasn’t sure.
When Summer started, I didn’t really see him. But about 5 months ago, we started hanging out again, this time outside of school and inside of school. Then he started asking me if I would go out with him. It took me about a month to answer since I didn’t feel I knew him well enough. But I told him yes.
We started dating and everything was fine, I guess. We dated for 3 months. He’s not a cheater, I can tell since he was never out of my sight with some other girl. I saw him about every day and hung out with him after school about everyday with our friend George, then Brian came in. I knew George 2 years ago, but never got to hang out with him. And I met Brian 2 years ago about twice, now I see them about everyday. Their friends with Roger and me.
About two weeks ago, Roger and me broke up. I was the heart broken one, we did much together, stuff I’ve never done with another guy before. I thought he was the one I would love for the rest of my life. But it was very sudden.
I was clingy, I admit it, I wanted him to call me almost every night, even if it was for 5 minutes out of his day. I’m not very pretty, I’m pretty average if that. But we seemed to get along very well. He thought I was too clingy because of the calling thing, and he was worried about my Ex-boyfriend before him Chris, because Chris moved up here from Missouri and lived with me at my mom’s half the time. But I told him I would never go there.
Roger’s relationships before were horrible, every one of those girls cheated on him with another guy. I was the first one who didn’t.
Anyways, now that we have broken up, we have decided to remain friends. BUT he hid behind my back that he was already dating a chick named Haily, Brian’s younger sister. He started dating her after the night we broke up. Then he was being a little baby pussy and refused to talk to me. He tried advoiding me.
Now I want to know, what the best revenge I can get on Roger? I still want him back, I still love him. Whats the best way I can get him back next time I’m alone with him?
Any ideas?
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my mum thinks i should leave my son with her and just finish my school and forget abour the cheater..i dont know how…what the hell is wrong with me?
i dont see anything wrong with it his still my husband and I am not looking to be insulted i know it was stupid of me but shit happens he is stil a friend to me and father of my son.
he is like an ok father not not very bad but not amazingly great either
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the thing is that i am not trying to be selfish it just that i cant give myself to someone else if i am not there mentally for them i feel like he was my everything and its easier said than done i love him beyong belief i just donno i jsut cant be with anohter guy it makes me thing of him and everything and i dont see it as being true to that other person its like using that other person you know:?
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