I’m a black male 35 y/o who got divorced seven years ago. I married a woman with two children and had a daughter with her. I worked hard and we moved from federal housing projects into our own home. She never worked more than part time during the marriage. We divorced as a result of her infidelity, multiple times during the marriage with the last one being with a close family member of mine. She got to live in the house rent free for three years afterwards and she got child child support for my daughter also during this time. I had to live with my mother. But I’ve managed to get the house back and now I have custody of my daughter. But what bothers me is because of all the financial stuff and the living situation, I have been unable to date or find a significant other. I’ve been alone for seven years and women have told me that I’m not marriage material because of my finances and the fact that I can’t provide for another family. So as women on this forum, how am I suppose to feel or react? Women’s rights or empowerment has done nothing for me and men like myself. Women who are financially stable or well off say that I’m a downgrade for them. So how am I suppose to feel about this? My ex-wife gets to date and sleep with whomever and here I am lonely night after night. Where’s the fairness and equality in that?
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Ok any help will be appreciated looked for some forums but not very successful at getting a response so I figued I would try here: My friend is owed about ,000 in back child support (for her and her ex’s three daughters ) she lives here in NC and has a NC caseworker. Her ex is in Illinois and does have a job that shows up when they run his social. Her NC caseworker says she is sending paperwork to the Illinois Office and they have to get it to the employer. When my friend trys to call Illinois to find out what is going on they tell her they can’t answer any of her questions that she has to speak with her NC caseworker. So she is supporting 3 girls with back support owed and her ex is working as a truck driver and NC has the company info and has sent paperwork to the state he lives in BUT still nothing since May since the papers were sent and she can’t get any answers. How is it that she doesn’t have a right to find out about her own case.
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if you have to pay your ex wife, court order, child support, and you know that she does not spend it on your children?
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Heads up~ this is drama…
Would you rather your husband, now ex, who is kind, mature, considerate, generous and respectful, yet a tad boring and doesn’t make you want to rip off his clothes….
OR
Your boyfriend, is sweet, caring, affectionate, and loving, who you have awesome sex with, yet doesn’t provide security, has some drinking issues and does things that seem immature?
What if you had a child for each of them?
Don’t even comment on how crazy it is, because that is a given.
I was married for 8 years and yes, he loves the baby and was there for the birth and ocassionally takes care of him.
He is the ex because the affection, which he professes profusely now, just wasn’t there.
After reading the responses, I am more confused… but keep answering!
Did not cheat on my ex!!!!!
Don’t need child support!!!!
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My husband and I got divorced in 1998 when my son was three years old. He was awarded custody and child support but told me he did not want the support. If he were to come back on me now, could he get all the back support since 1998?
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