We had been going out for a little over a month and everything had been going great and then about a week ago she says she needs to talk to me and she breaks up with me. She said she thought I was trying to be in too serious of a relationship and I was "too committed to her." I didn’t know that was possible but apparently it is. She also said she doesn’t want a boyfriend or to be in a relationship right now. I still have feelings for her and I would like to get back together with her but I’m not sure how I should go about doing it. I’d thought about waiting until Christmas day to ask her out again which is a couple weeks away but I don’t know if that’s too soon or if that will even work at all. Please help! I really really care about this girl and I’d like to be more than friends with her again but I’m not sure how to go about it.

P.S. I’m not sure if this helps but we ended on good terms neither of us were mad at each other.


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In late November my wife announced, out of the blue, that she does not love me anymore. She is planning to move out in Mid March. Our 11 year old straight A daughter, like my self, thought everything was fine in our home. My wife finnishes school in May with a degree as a Rad Tech / Xray. We have been together for 21 years. She will be 43 in July and I turned 53 on Christmas Day. She is very beautiful and i remain very fit and healthy. When we met she was only 20 and had a 5 year old son that I raised from that point with her. He lives in Las Vegas. He is so upset that he is moving home to Ohio and wants to move in with me. My wife will not agree to conceling and will only say that she wants out. There are many things that I could and would do differently if she would stay but I can think of nothing that rises to the level of wanting to break up our family and marriage. Help!


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