Hey guys :) My boyfriend broke up with me like 6 months ago :-? ? I tried everything to forget about him but I couldnt :-< I really want to get my ex back :( hes my first bf and i really like hjm. What do you I should do to get him back? All my classmate said getting him back will never gunna happen. But I really want to try my best to get him by my side again. I ask him for a talk, he said yes….I want to tell him that I like him and I will, but I don’t know how and I don’t know if I should do that. 2 months b4 I did tell him that I like him online but I said he doesn’t really care…. That’s why now I’m gunna tell him face to face.
What should I do and say? Can you guys help me out plz……Just be honest even though it’ll hurt me =] thank you all :X

Nikky :X



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Well, she is my crush, and I’ve done so many things for her, I always do her favors, buy expensive things for her, do her projects in school, give free meals every time we meet, pay for her fares on the trip home, comfort her when she is sad, listen to her stories, which really is annoying because all she talks about are her crushes, plus she never thanked me for what I did for her. She always appreciates the other guys who have a crush on her, for example, my classmate registered her cellphone to get unlimited text, and she claims that he is blessed and has a magic touch, she also appreciates his personality, he is a good-humored guy, but he is a deep-thinker and a bit cynical about the present conditions of his life. He teases and pranks my crush a lot, which she enjoys. Pretty much, she appreciates every guy in our course, except me, but I always hide my jealousy. In addition, I had this feelings for for almost a year now, and still, I never got her attention, what attracted me is her personality and beauty, and I must say, it is hard to have a crush that is pretty, you will have lots of rivals, and I think that I am inferior to them. So, that ends our background about her, and now, her best friend, who is also attractive, said that she loves me more than a friend, even though we just met for about a month. Her reason for that is because I was overly concerned with her, and she was always neglected by her parents. I gave her the same treatment with my crush, and unlike my crush, she really does appreciate me. At first, I was so shocked that she had a crush on me, I think I am unattractive, but she loved me for what I am. I was informed by my crush, which was supposed to be a secret between them. Also, I told my crush that my concern for her is genuine, and that really annoyed her. Then, she became irritable and unapproachable, the next day, she regretted her attitude and said that her problem is that she is jealous. After a few days, I asked her what is she jealous about, and she said stuff that I can’t understand and involved her brother. That leaves me confused. Also, her best friend is also jealous whenever I talk about her, and they are presently at bad terms. Follow up question: Since she has plans of transferring to another school, I will miss her forever, and I think that I can’t make it without her, just seeing her makes my life alright, what should I do to recover in case I sink into depression? If she leaves, I think my world will once again be in turmoil, in the darkness, never finding the light of purpose. Sorry, for being too dramatic, it is just that my only purpose in my life is to obey her commands, I feel worthless without her.


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I’m in love with a girl for the past 4 yrs. First 2 yrs. I used to talk to her all the time in my class room when ever I was free (my classmate in college days). She knew my feelings, but she never cared about it.

After college we went on our way for our jobs in two different cities (bit far). Initially I called her 3-4 times and chat was just as classmates (I noticed this time that she never stored my number – shows how much she considers me). Last year I had decided to open up to hear what she has to say – we both were at our hometown that time. I bought a gift for her and called her asking if I could meet her, for which she had given some excuses and avoided me. That was the last time I called her, I controlled myself though I wanted to call her often and say everything. Few days back out of huge stress, I called up one of my closest friends and told her that I gonna meet my love to say everything. My friend and she work in a same city and in college also they used to be together. My friend replied when I said all these, "You know what, not to hurt you, but to tell the truth. I’m being around your love there and while and I know she not even thinks of you even as friend. She least bothers you, not even cares 0.1% as you do. Now I’m not stopping you, but from my knowledge if you meet her for this, you will get hurt more than what your having now – you got to move on and you have plenty in life other than her". What my friend said did not surprise me as I know it already, but it hurts me and now helped me to take a clear decision – I got to get out of my love and forget her and enjoy my life.

Your advice will help me a lot on this!


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My wife loved and married me over this very classmate she wrote loveletter to and against her parental wishes. We hit a rough patch in the past and we seperated briefly when she started this affair first on net and happened to meet him when he came here to take back his family. He is a family guy and has 2 kids and we are married for 14 years and have 2 kids who we love much. I don’t understand the logic of her move as she can not have any stable relation with that guy nor did she sever her relation with mine. She had been nice to me all the time and i would not have suspect her but for the letter which is full of love for him and desperately begging him not to forget her. She even introduced me to him when he visited us with his wife and kids. Did she misinterpret his emails as if he is still in love with her as he was in her college when she chose me? There is no email contact for the last 6 months and she said she would show his mail if it arrives. Can I believe her?


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