any sneaky ways to get a guy you dumped back? i broke up with someone of 5 months, and we mutually agreed it wasn’t a healthy relationship even though it was kind of casual. We left it very civil, he said i was smart, funny, unique and wanted to be friends..although that might be cliche.
but i want him to contact me since we broke it off, just to see if he suddenly realizes how he wants me back and to understand how badly he treated me..so then i can destroy that evil beast of a man! bwa ha ha.
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Being in a bad relationship is a tough thing to do. Nothing is worse than being married and lonely at the same time. If you think the best way to save your relationship is to ‘spice up your sex life’ you may want to think again. Here is some advice on sex to repair your relationship.
First of all don’t buy into the old cliche that if you have great sex your partner will be satisfied and not leave. Unless your partner is an adolescent, or just acts like one, sex alone won’t be enough to keep your relationship strong. A good adult relationship is made up of many components and until you can get it clicking on at least several levels, not just sexual, you will struggle and most likely won’t be happy in the relationship.
A word of caution though, no one is perfect and no relationship is perfect. You will have times when you and your partner are not on the same page, and that’s ok. It’s more about balance, in your relationship as a whole you should be on the same page more often than not. If it’s balanced the other way, where you are at odds more often than you are in sync you should seriously consider ending the relationship because the two of you just aren’t a good fit, and that’s unlikely to change.
So before you decide that hotter sex is the key to making your relationship what you really want it to be, consider some of these points:
1. How was your relationship in the beginning? Did you have a lot of hobbies that you shared together? What did you do, besides sex, when you spent time together? If you don’t do those things together anymore, why not? If you analyze these changes in your relationship you will be a lot closer to figuring out what you need to work on to make your relationship strong again.
2. Have you asked your partner what they think is going on with your relationship? After all you’re both part of the situation, and the problem. Why not share with each other what you are feeling, instead of complaining to your girlfriends, or buddies, why not ask your partner? No one will know what they are thinking better than they do.
Make sure that when you ask your partner what they’re thinking you give them the opportunity to tell you how they feel in a ‘safe’ environment. What I mean by that is don’t get mad and yell at them if they say something you don’t want to hear. If you do then you are sending them a signal that they can’t open up to you or it will get ugly, so they won’t turn to you. That is the beginning of the end for many relationships.
Once they’ve told you how they feel, it’s your turn. And the same rules apply. You have the right to express your feelings without being persecuted by your partner.
If you and your partner have reached a rough patch in your relationship it can be tempting to think that if you can reignite a fire in bed you’ll be able to save your relationship, unfortunately that’s simply not the case. Use the advice on sex to repair your relationship tips I’ve given you above to start to rebuild your relationship in a healthy way.
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I’ve grown to know when I should stop being an obnoxious critic.
This applies towards all books I read.
The prime example you all might know quite well is Twilight.
In the past few months I grew quite snarky with it, and the face I own all 4 books and LE’s as well makes me me pitiful.
Here is my review:
For most teenage girls, it does make them a tad ignorant, but I can relate to the huge emotional and hormonal obsession it engulfs them in. They should learn to be less bubbly with their obsession and moderate, though, but the fact it shoudn’t be an obsession at all doesn’t help.
Meyer’s great with emotion, but she has a huge issue with structure.
Her emotions are a bit played out for me now.
My generation doesn’t see the cliche in some things, and even my brother agrees he sees nothing in this book that hasn’t been done before, though it does have some well written parts.
The only book I look upon to admire is Twilight, and very few portions of it at that.
I will remain anti to an extent, but I’m a Twilight lover at heart.
I keep myself convservative.
And I’m aware she is slightly bad at writing, and there’s much more great literature out there.
I don’t regret drawing mustaches on the movie posters all those months ago, though, teehee. =^.^= I mean, it was very fun. Though very immature.
Antis, you have more dignity than actually taking shots at Twi-hards.
You can state your dignified opinions, but you shouldn’t state obnoxious remarks.
And..Twi-tar- I mean hards.
Eh. There’s nothing I can say to you that you haven’t already heard, just don’t be stubborn. You’ll evolve at some point, I hope.
What’s your take on the situation?
LMAO. god forbid they get common sense now.



