How can you tell if your ex still likes you or still has feelings for you?

You liked each other, there was mention of love between the 2 of you but you went your separate ways (which your ex initiated) because of tradition and cultural differences. None of you have been in a relationship eversince. You work in the same place but ignore each other. It used to hurt and bother you but now you just don’t care anymore. Lately ur ex has been initiating conversations and teases or annoys you just when others are around or butts in your conversation with male co-workers but other times he looks at you eye to eye with no smile at all.


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I am heading back to the US from Mexico in few days and would like to know how much alcohol i can bring back with me?? Does anyone have any concrete answers? One of my co-workers said he has seen customs confiscate someone’s alcohol before. I do not want to purchase things just to have customs seize them. Please Help.


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How Do You Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back?

How Do You Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

I have a jealously issue and my boyfriend of 9 months says he’s never experienced anyone with that issue before so he breaks if off with me.

The jealously never occurred until 5 months into the relationship when he started working as a doorman at a Club/bar/bowling alley/restaurant.He would come home at 3am after they close at 2am and give me papers that girls giving him the numbers.

But then his co-workers asked why he’s soo faithful to me, and he stopped coming home straight after work and stopped telling me about work and stopped giving me those papers with girls’ numbers. he actually started hanging out at work alot more.

I was more jealous at the fact that he spent more time with his work (when he’s not working) then with me.


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I sent this to a Christian co-worker and she didn't understand it. What should I do?

I accept ALL people of ALL faiths and religions in this world unconditionally. Although I differ with some aspects of some of these religions, I understand where all of them come from and I completely accept all of them.

As for me, I consider myself a student of all things spiritual.

Now, I have a co-worker who’s a born-again Christian. She is a lovely, wonderful woman. But she continually misunderstands me and my beliefs. Often she tries to explain the Bible to me. I just listen intently, without offering my true feelings about the book. I choose to keep whatever my feelings are to myself, as to respect her faith and beliefs.

I do not think she is ready to know and to grasp what I learned throughout my spiritual studies. Actually, I think she is SCARED to death of knowing what I know. She completely denies the little I’ve told her as being false. That is completely okay with me. I am not here to save her or anyone else. And I’m definitely not here to impose my beliefs on anyone else either.

Anyway, yesterday I sent some of my co-workers a BEAUTIFUL poem by Lebanese poet Khalil Gibran, from his book entitled THE PROPHET.

Now, the poem talks about a true marriage and how two people can achieve happiness in marriage.

In any case, it was a POEM! It had nothing to do with religion or anything like that. And, might I add, it was a gorgeous, wonderful piece of literature too.

She wrote me back only: "A prophet? What kind of prophet?"

Now… tell me if I’m wrong in assuming that she didn’t even READ the poem! It looks to me like she got stuck on the word "prophet" and completely missed the whole point of the poem (how to have a happy and healthy marriage).

Thanks for reading this, folks. It’s just that… I’m having a little hard time deciding whether or not to share anything else with this woman. I do like her but… her mind seems to be closed shut at this time…

What do you all think?

Thanks.

Love and blessings to all.
Priรciℓℓα ☼… yeah! That’s a great idea!
Deep Thought, I’m seriously considering that. If she doesn’t even read what I send her and completely pre-judges everything… what’s the point of trying to share anything with her…
crystal, I’ve been thinking the same thing. However, she cannot help herself and trying to "Christianize" every one of us. She gives me things to read too. I read them. It doesn’t bother me. I think Jesus Christ was one of the brightest lights to ever be born on this planet. And I love his teachings!
Sara, what you wrote is just GORGEOUS! And so true. Thank you so much for that!!!!
Ginchi, I disagree with you about Gibran. And… I don’t think of myself as better or worse than her. I just think all I know is so completely foreign to her that it would probably take her sometime to assimilate everything. How do I know this? Because it took me years to get to where I am. And I LOOKED and SEARCHED. *smiles*

Thanks for your answer, though. A little crabby, but I’ll take it anyway. :)
You also make a good point, "Follow Jesus." Maybe I should have explained the whole thing to her…

But I thought it best to just let the whole thing alone for a while, while I thought about the best way to deal with it. I don’t want to hurt her feelings in any way, shape of form.
Thanks for a lovely and inspiring reply, Sherry. :)


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Guy’s Help, Is my husband really sorry? Should I try to trust once again? ?

So this past year has been very rocky for my husband and I. I was at my husbands military christmas party and one of his lady co-workers seemed to be acting very strange. I felt funny about it. When we drove home I asked my husband about it. I also asked him how he felt about her. He casually said, "he was close to her, No really close to her". I about dropped my jaw at him saying that so openly. I talked to him about it and asked him what he meant and he said, "we’re just friends close friends from being in the same platoon together for so many years." I still didn’t feel very good about it, So I got snoopy. (No Im not proud of it) But glad I did. I found in his e-mail that he left open on accident that he was e-mailing her and asking to have lunch with her at drill weekends. He was e-mailing her regularly. The e-mail did just seem friendly – not sexual or anything, but he would say maybe we can have lunch this weekend. Then I found he was also signed up for a Adult web site. Which REALLY HURT. I have always loved my husband and been faithful to him so this was a blow to me. Because I had already forgave him for cheating on me when we lived over seas in Italy. He went to school (in the military) and on his off time he would go to a bar and drink with another Navy guy and was sitting with two ladies which over the five weeks turned into dancing and kissing. I was so hurt the first time because I was pregnant at the time and far from all my family. Took a long time to get over but he promised it would NEVER EVER happen again. So to get back to the recent…..I am having a hard time dealing with all of this again. He swearer’s he did nothing with the lady from the military other than a dinner and talking at lunch and swearer’s most of the time other people from the platoon was there.
But then I found out he was flirting with ladies on Myspace, man things just kept getting worse. I was going crazy. I even found a saved phone number from an old girlfriend. He said they messaged each other on classmates and then later looked her number up and saved it in his work phone, but that he never used it. How do I trust him. He has given all his codes to me and swearer’s I am his only one. But I know Cheaters will lie till they go to their GRAVE. So I am always on my toes. We have been to counseling a few times, it did help, But I am still having a hard time…..He promised me the first time he cheated he would never be with a lady alone again, but then he went to dinner with her and lied to me about it, He says, He lied to me because he knew i’d be mad and there was nothing to the dinner, but friendship.

He gets very mad at me when I bring up his past, or when i tell him I don’t trust him. He just doesn’t get what he has destroyed. We are very very close as a couple, (I know that sounds weird) But we are always holding hands, kissing and everyone tells us how cute we are as a couple and wish they could find a relationship like that. Yes our sex life is GREAT also. At least everyday and usually more than that. Yes we have four kids. Yes we have to be creative. We have been married 19 1/2 years now. But I just don’t know what to think. Does he really love me, Why do men flirt with women "IF THEY LOVE THERE WIFE’S SO MUCH" I JUST DON’T KNOW IF I CAN EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. But I feel like things will never be the same again. We have a week or two that goes great and then all my frustrations come back from a flash back. How does one EVER REALLY know if someone is Truly sorry????????? I wish I could really know if he love’s me. I cry often, but he doesn’t know it. I cry because I miss (the KNOWING my husband LOVED ME) It’s a feeling I wish I could get back.

I haven’t told anyone about all this (except the counselor) and I have to always acted like my marriage is great to our family etc. I don’t want everyone to know what he has done. One its embarrassing for me and I don’t want anyone to think badly of him. I know that’s sounds stupid. But You gotta understand I LOVE HIM and I don’t want him hurt in anyway. We have enough pain between us dealing with it than to involve others. Also another reason is our son went though Cancer for a year and We’ve had enough pain, so involving others just would add to it. This is way I am sharing it here. I need to get it out. I know he doesn’t want to loose "US" when I mentioned leaving him he feel apart crying begging me not to leave. He is constantly tell me that he love’s me and never has Cheated since Italy with the Kiss. He tells me he didn’t realize the things he was doing recently was going to hurt me or that I would call it cheating. But I am so confused & not sure if I can trust him. Guys what are some signs that a guy is really sorry. HELP!!!!!!!


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