I want to get my ex back…would it be dumb for me to send him a gift?
Am I dumb, if I send a guy a package gift to get him back.Am I dumb,I want to send him a coach wallet/cologne…Would this make him not respect me…?
no, it would be annoying………
call him up, ask to meet for coffee…….
Michael Griswold On Your First Step To Get Your Ex Back
I knew a girl 2 years ago, met her through school, got her msn. We talked on webcam more or less everynight until 1 lol. The year , we was both shy, we could talk for hours over msn, but say nothing in person 
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Then came the second year, we started truth and dare questions on msn, I got good results, yet still did not follow them. She said if she was alone with me for 7 minutes, she would cuddle with me, she asked me back, I said the same , and also kiss you if you let me. She said she wouldnt mind sleeping with me at all, and kissing me as I was her closest friend ever.
Now, when I had the confidence to tell her I liked her, it was too late, we asked each other on dates previously, but couldnt attend either due to personal complications
She seemed dead interested in me, always on msn, asking me to the cinema, park etc. But when I told her, she said she wouldnt want to risk a relationship with me as you are my best friend. Skip to the end of high school, school prom. I still liked her, and flirted with her, brushing past her etc, just letting her know I liked her still, then on the way home on the coach, she texted me saying meet me after everyone has gone, although I couldnt as my parents were already there. I was 99% sure she wanted to kiss me, but I messed it all up. Anyway, I had to be with her , I couldnt let her go.
So I took the same course as her ( i also like this course as it helps me in the future also ) , first 3 weeks great, but after then she drifted away from me, not speaking much anymore, not around my house, I felt annoyed by this, asked her not to forget about me etc, we got into a MEGA argument and fell out BADLY. We didnt talk for 7 weeks, and we saw each other EVERYDAY! That was torture, plus other lads were flirting with her and I couldnt take it anymore. But today, it was the last day before Christmas, I wanted to talk to her again, I asked her something, expecting a Wow you decide to talk to me now?
But no, in her soft voice which she only used when speaking to me, she answered me, also i asked her if she had gotten a card/present from anyone at college, she said no. So I gave her one, she said you didn’t have to, I said its only a card 
. Plus I gave her a present earlier.
I THINK i did the right thing, I started conversation again, her body language for the past 3 weeks showed she still liked me, and when I talked, she didnt bite my head off, but was sweet :O
What should I do now? I want to get back with her – BOYFRIEND or Friend again.
Start flirting again? Talking to her more ?
Please help – I thought I did well getting her something when no one else did
It’s halftime and Coach is yelling at us in the locker room so I left and am at my computer. Any tips from anyone? What can we do to make a comeback and beat the Magic in game 6?
My husband had an affair with my best friend…What should I do?
I just found out through a saved e-mail on my husbands phone that he had a 4 month affair with my best friend whom I’ve known since grade school. I would never in a million years suspected that this happened.
My husband is nice guy,charming, good looking, he absolutely adores our 3 year old daughter, volunteers as a YMCA coach, has an amazing job. He’s like the poster man for perfect husband. Maybe this is why I’m so shocked.
The weird thing about this is that my friend was the one who introduced my husband and I. They were good friends in college, studied abroad together, interned together, I think his mom to this day still likes her better than me. She said they were just friends so I made a move on him. We hit it off…fast-forward 6 years and we’re married with a 3 year old daughter.
The worst part of the story is their e-mails. It wasn’t just a fling, hes in love with her. Apparently she ended things and he all but begged her not to.
He says he’s "utterly in love with her", thinks he always has been, she says what they’re doing is wrong. He says, he loves the sound of her voice, the way she looks at him after they make love and the way they can talk for hours about anything. She says the feeling’s mutual, but reminds him that he’s married, he says it isn’t fair to stay married when he’s in love with someone else. She says he made vows, he says he already broke them, he feels horrible for what he’s doing to me, but he can’t help the way he feels, he says he’s never been unfaithful before, he wishes things were different, wishes he could change the way he feels. He says he wishes he could go back in time and do everything over again. (Pretty much saying he wishes he never married me). She says she feels awful too, but they can’t be together. She says regardless of what has happened she loves me, she says our lives and families are too intertwined, it could never work . She says she can’t be responsible for my broken marriage.. doesn’t want to lose me as a friend….it pretty much goes on like this for a while.
Sorry for the Essay, but I don’t really have anyone else to talk to about this. We all pretty much have the same circle of friends.
I don’t know what to do. Should I confront them? A part of me is tempted to send all of their e-mails out to everyone we know in one big massive e-mail, but I think I’ll regret that in the morning. Another part of me thinks that if they’re so damn in love with each other they should just be together. (Yes, i know that’s pathetic). If he leaves he’ll definitely want custody of our daughter. His dad’s a judge, he’s a lawyer he’ll have the upper hand there.
Maybe I should just pretend I never saw the e-mail. The affair has been over for about a month and 1/2 , my friend has been distant (now I know why), things with my husband are normal although he’s been a little distant as well, I though it was just his job ( he doesn’t know that I know about the affair). It makes me numb knowing that he’s in love with someone else. If it wasn’t for our daughter he probably would be begging her to run off into the sunset with him right now. I’m so confused. I want to hate them, but I still love my husband….is that weird. Do I tell him that I know, stay, leave? I don’t know what to do anymore.
Sorry again for the length.
Please don’t answer if you already did…I guess I just still don’t know what to do.
I already copied the e-mails. I guess I don’t really think he would take my daughter away from me, but It is better to be safe than sorry. We do have a prenuptial agreement, I’,m not worried about him divorcing me and leaving me in a cardboard box. I have a job as well.
If I sound calm it’s because I just recently saw the e-mails, I guess it hasn’t fully sunk in. The thing is the e-mails were saved to his phone, he doesn’t have a password on the phone. I’m starting to think that maybe he wanted me to find the e-mails. Shouldn’t they have been deleted. You don’t leave something incriminating like that on you cell phone. God, I don’t know. Thank you for you advice. I truly do appreciate it.
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