My ex-girlfriend thought I was cheating when I wasn’t, she took revenge, I want revenge now help? She got advice from a “get even with him” site and called up my friends to fuck them and called my work telling my boss i did cocaine and checked into rehab.

Her best friend wanted to have sex me and i told her to fuck off and leave me alone, she said something else to my ex-, next day all this happened and she cheated, i broke up with her and she laughed that i got caught and couldn’t admit it


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I am having an extremely hard time letting go of a long relationship of ups/downs with a cocaine/alcohol abuser. He broke it off with me twice for no reason. (this being the second time) but i was told he had a girlfriend. he was coming off a 3 day bender when this happened.

He has done this before but we ended up back together after a month. He would often get mad or bug me about not being able to drink a lot or refusing drugs when we were together. I tried to convince him he doesnt need these things and has so much going for him. He cant see what he could be and it hurts so bad.. hes being troubled since he was 10yrs old and been through alot of bad things since then. Is their hope he will change or seek help even though now he doesnt want it?

He says its who he is and everyone knows he’ll die doing this. He makes things up and actually beleives them which has caused fights between us before… I know i may need to seek counselling i am a sucsessfull loving girl, and i have a great family/friend group who all hate that i ever got into this relationship. Its been a week and Im happy then sad & hoping for him to call…

I fear that it was me who wasnt good enough, or that he is happy with some other girl, treating her well & showing her love. I did everything to show him i cared for him so much, nothing was ever enough and didnt seem appreciated at all..he tells me he doesnt deserve me he wants me to hate him, he wont be around long ect, then he can tell me im the one whose f*cked up and annoying ect and he’ll stop talking to me.

This time he told me he has a gf and not to wait around or call him, or book us a trip. (we were planning a summer vacation) it was literally so sudden and things were so good with us.


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URGENT: CIVIL CONTRACT AGREEMENT, CRIMINAL FILING, OR WHAT TO DO?
My boyfriend and I had been living together. He stole 000 worth of jewelry from me and took it to a pawn shop in March. Then, on Tuesday night, I saw that there were checks forged in my name that he had stolen from my checkbook. He has also committed debit card fraud. I confronted him, and he told me he had been using cocaine since June of 2007. I told him I was leaving him on Wednesday. He first pleaded with me, then grabbed a knife, held it at me, then at himself, saying he was "going to kill himself", shook me, then ran. I called his son to get him and 911. I was so flustered and did not want to get him in trouble, I forgot to mention the holding the knife up to me and shaking me. He was committed for a psychiatric evaluation. I received a temporary restraining order for him on 4/30. I went back to our shared residence (house is in his deceased mother’s name), and told him not to come near me when I was there and my car was there. He came in, I told him I was going to call 911, he shook me and told me not to call 911, I called 911, he yelled that he was going court, then he called 911 and said I assaulted him, and then he sped off. I have a court date for the restraining order for May 14. I have filed a police report regarding the stolen jewelery, which was an inheritance from my mother, on 5/01/2010. He has admitted in text messages that he pawned my 00 diamond and gold necklace,00 diamond ring, and 0 amythyst and gold ring. I have the empty boxes for all of the missing jewelery. I had kept my jewelery in a safe deposit box, but left it at home for a couple days because I thought I was going to wear it. He has forged 57 worth of checks, which I have reported to Bank of America. I am going to report the debit card fraud tonight, it is approximately 00. He also broke my front tooth in an accident when I fell off his back, which will cost me 75. He has had a history of drug abuse in his past. He is currently on methadone, which he has been on for at least the past 5-6 years, has smoked marijuana, and states that he has been doing cocaine since June of 2009, about 11 months. He lost his first wife and kids to a meth addiction. I would like restitution, in the form of the 000-12,000 amount he owes me (depending on how much I can claim). His boss and my ex boyfriend were trying to work out a restitution agreement where I would fill out a contract, then my ex boyfriend (the employee), would go to the bank, cash his paycheck, and leave a portion of it for me with his employer. I would then sign for it. This would be a Promisary Note with interest.
I would like to know the steps I should or can take, my rights under the restraining order, and whether or not you think it is in my best interest to go the civil route and make up a contract between me, my ex boyfriend, and his employer. If so, what would my rights be if there was a breach of contract?

ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS:

1) What legal rights would I have if I were to make a promissary note between me, my ex, and his boss, and get it notarized and signed?

2) Is there a statute of limitations for payment on a promissary note (if person were to default for a period of time, or pay for a while, then default on payments)?

3) How long could he miss payments before I could take it to civil court and sue? How does this process work?

4) What legal rights do I have to my belongings in his house, if it is stated in the restraining order that he is not to harm my belongings?
I live in WA state



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My sister curently lives with my dad but hes doing cocaine. I dont want my sister to be around that. so could she come live with me and my husband. I’m only 17 turning 18 in February and my husband is 19 turning 20 in july. What are the laws on this in NC? and what would happen with school? would i need to be her legal guardian to enroll her in school?


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