I broke up with me ex boyfriend we were both 22, virgins and met online, well we were still friends really but just dating getting used to each other. I told him on msn I don’t think it would work out however he didn’t take it very well and started saying things like ‘geez I must be seriously ugly’ I said ‘no your not and you will find a girl who you will fancy way more than me’ He replied ‘Don’t take this the wrong way but when I first saw you I wasn’t so sure but it was your personality I liked’.
He apologized and said he was ‘sorry for acting like an a**hole’ and said that he still wants to talk with me yet is still indirectly insulting me. :/ Like last week he was complaining to me over msn about his life and how girls ignore him etc and how he must be ugly etc I was trying to comfot him and told him he was far from ugly and he will find the right girl and then he replied with ‘well lets be honest, I couldn’t even start with you’. He wanted me to rate on out of 10 he is insecure about his looks. Then went back to talking about his life again. He does compliment me too he said I was more level headed than most girls lol.
He said before I met him that he speaks his mind but is he really just being honest or are these things he says about me something that I shouldn’t have to hear? Is it just me being petty and him being honest? He was nice to me while it lasted but when I broke up with him he posted a thread on a forum we both go on asking for advice saying that he was worried about being very ugly because he met a girl who wasn’t exactly the best of looking (referring to me) and even though he lowered his standards and gave me a chance he still got rejected.
I don’t know what was going on in his head he has apologized since but was he just being honest or was it emotional revenge in a way? Maybe guys would be better answering this..
btw try not to judge me by age its just a number lol Im the first to admit Im immature for my age but I thought breaking up gently was better than leading him on.
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How can I get back my ex? ?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship (he goes to uni), when we broke up. He thought I didn’t care about his big move, but I cared for him more than anything. He’s back for the holidays, and I saw him yesterday. There was no awkwardness at all between us. He did compliment me and said I looked great. When we hugged he held me quite close, almost like the hugs we used to have but not as passionate. When he left me he said "Its been nice to see you… I’m glad we met up… Its been really nice…" and kept repeating himself. He gave me the same look he gave me before he left for uni when we were together. The one that says "I will miss you". His lips were twitching, his eyes looked hurt and sad. I don’t know, maybe I’m misreading the signs. He also kept his hands firmly in his pockets while we were walking. If our hands did touch, we’d quickly move them away. And when I caught him staring he quickly looked away.
I really want him back, but I don’t know how he feels about that. We’re good friends now, but now I feel like ranting to him about stuff, and I don’t know if I should or not. I just really really want him back. I’ve never been with a guy as amazing as him before.
I don’t want to confront him directly, as if the worst comes to worst I still want to be his friend. He’s an amazing guy and I don’t want to leave him forever. How can I bring back our relationships subtly?
Help please?
And no mean comments, thanks.
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Just started playing the game. Played WoW for 3+ years and just gave it up one day. I figured I’d give this game a try since it’s free. I’ve been looking into the dual class system which is really cool sounding. But most of the sources I’ve seen suggest talking to other players before making a final decision. I was thinking priest/rogue… is that a solid combo? What about warrior/mage? I’d like something that is either heal/support but with at least one class that is easy to level, or dps/support. I also heard battle mage is good, but read that it got nerfed?
Any info or suggestions would be great. Thanks!
Yeah that’s why I didn’t ask for "the best" class. I don’t care what other people play. I’m pro and will be good with any combo 
But I would like one of the classes to be easy to solo with, and I would like the combo to compliment a group (not including tank).
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i have asked her to go to a doc she wont i have tryed spiceing it up i have even went as far as doing all the house work i compliment her all the time and again it has been 4 years since the opperation she is doing fine except no sex drive and no she is not cheating now maybe i can get some real answers
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So how come my ex-gf left me? and do you think I still have a chance?
To make a long story short…
When im smart, attractive, funny, easy going, charming, caring, nice and tell the truth (all the good qualities in a bf)
I went out of my way to please her, made her happy, listened to her.
We talked about anything and everything.
We rarely had our arguements and when we did it was hardly anything to do with us.
She told me that I was the only person that could make her happy, laugh and calm her down when she would get into her angry (kill mood).
She told her family that I made her happy and she told her grandma that she wanted my babys. Years ago she told her grandma that she didnt want babys.
She quit smoking weed and cigs at the same time to be good for me… even though I didnt say anything about wanting her to quit but she did it for me because thats the only thing I didnt like (This was her decision)
A few times in our relationship she told me… to stay where I am at, im too good for her drama and didnt want me apart of this … whenever someone would bring her drama from friends or family. She wanted to move state a while back and still wants too. I told her that I could
handle it and would deal with all the wankers in her life.
The last 2 weeks of our relationship went like this. She tells me that we need to go back to the way we use to be as in friends until I get down there, that we should be together, is hopeful for the future, is working out how were gonna live and told me that once I get setteled
in that we would move somewhere by state or internationally where our family lives. The last compliment she gave me… she was telling me how perfect I am. Couple days later hardcore drama comes into play and than a week later she tells me she dosent want this and breaks it off. She told me that I was too good for this, told me that I ment the world to her and thats why she said she had to do it. I asked her a couple days later about why she left me and she told me that I got annoying the last week to 10 days or so. I admit I had changed and acted differently the last week of our relationship because I found out that I may have cancer, I never told her this because at the time she was dealing with something and I thought it was best to wait until it was the right time to tell her. So I try and win her back for a few days, she puts me on ignore/block and than a week later she starts talking to me asking me how I am. I bought a book on how to get your ex back… magic of making up.. I really do think we should be together and im willing to try the rest of the year until her birthday comes around and probably buy her flowers.
I found out that shes not doing too good financially, she has lost power to her house and is unable to find a job. I think the real reason why she dosent want me is because once im down there she dosent know what to do with me because she thinks she cant take care of me.
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