Every time I’m around my ex he always flirts with other girls when he knows im there, two of my best friends have all their lessons with him, they say he never does it when I’m not around. He takes pictures and makes videos and tells me what he does when I’m not around, but he always has his arm around another girl, or compliments them when I’m there and makes flirting videos when I’m not there. He’s best-friends with two of my other exs and they’re all spreading stuff about that is a bunch of stuff I used to do or is a bunch of lies. Half of my friends say I should ignore it and just move on because he obvious don’t want me if he is always trying to hurt me. He has a go at me all the time and makes out everything I do is always wrong if it’s not what he wants. He always trys and avoids people talking about me but he is always slagging me off himself. He blames me for us always fighting and has moods with me where one minute he wants to spend every second with me, sometimes we end up getting off if he wants it… I love him… he says he loves me. But other days he can be so harsh. Like calling me and emo, w.hore, s.l.a.g, s.k.e.t… he calls me beautiful then tells me he wished we never dated. I don’t know what to do. If me and him start getting off he sometimes starts doing sex movements, but I’m not sure if I’m ready for it. Even though we’re not dating I feel like sex is the only way I can get him back. He tells me to bring a condom when I’m ready which is usually the day before he does the sex moves even though were not dating and then plans to see me the next day even if it means blowing off his friends. He sometimes acts like he loves me but other days he tells me to f.u.c.k off and leave him alone. I beg him to forgive me and try and prove how much I love him but he sometimes ends up chucking me out of his house or threatening me with getting a new girlfriend, deleting me, reporting me or spreading stuff about me. I’m so confused, my friends say I’m better off without him and my best mate tried to convince him to tell me but he ended up telling me he loved me. My bestest friend has the same problem with her boyfriend, can anyone help ?
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Yeah, her and I broke up about a week ago. It was something where, shes been holding some feelings whenever she was hurt, deep inside, and then one argument and misunderstanding on the phone last week, she explodes and then says she has had enough! I feel horrible on my part, since i didn’t do a good job to keep my cool instead of having a silly argument on the phone that got outta hand. it was so bad that she said things like ‘our love has past’ and ‘maybe it was never meant to be’. yet, before that incident, she would always shower me with compliments like ‘no matter the downs and lows, i will forever choose to be in your arms’ and ‘i am forever yours my love’. im so confused. one minute, she loves me and all, the next, its like a whole different person. and like i said, its been about a week already since we broke up, and she hasn’t shown signs of getting back yet, do i have a chance?
-we’ve been together for 1 and 1/2 years
-shes 19, im 18
-yeah, we had our ups and downs but mostly it was all good
-this is our 2nd breakup (the first one was last year in september. couple days later we got back together)
-she initiated both breakups
-looking at this breakup, i realize we lacked communication and trust, something i really wish to fix if i had the chance…
but somehow, like deep down, something is telling me that she still cares, but, i dunno…
i wrote her a poem, maybe if i show that to her and do nice things, she’ll love me again? i dont wanna sound desperate and needy, but c’mon, how do you love somebody one moment (like they’re everything to you), then one incident later its like they completely change their feelings of you? 
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My boyfriend tells me i’m sexy but i’m not sure how to respond besides a "thanks baby ;" or a "Thank you babe" i mean sometimes i think that’s not enough to say back or reply, what else should i say when he gives me compliments like that?
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I have been with this guy for four months. Today I told him that I am falling in love with him. He said that love is a powerful thing. He wants to make sure he really truly loves me before he says it. He’s been hurt and he’s still not completely over his ex.
They were together for about four years they have been broken up for 3 or 4 years. I told him if he doesn’t love me by the 6th month we’ve been together there will be no use in us continuing our relationship. I don’t want to waste my time and get hurt. I do realize you can’t put a time frame on love though. And I don’t want to pressure him. I’m going to tell him that I won’t break up with him that I have changed my mind…I don’t want to rush him.
I never complain when he goes out with his friends.[ I want to make sure I give him his freedom.. I'm not clingy at all] I give him compliments. I don’t get mad when a pretty girl walks by and his eyes follow. [hes in a relationship not dead lol he's a man he's gonna look] I am very understanding. I know that I have faults of my own, I am pretty spiteful.
I know that I have his heart. I just want him completely. I am always there for him when he needs me and he’s is for me too. Today when I told him how I felt he was very understanding. He said he can see himself falling in love with me but to him four months is just too soon.
He admitted that he was scared and holding back.
How can I show him he can trust me [ he says he does or he wouldn't be with me] I won’t hurt him, that its OK to fall in love again?
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I’ve been told I do not have the typical indian look or accent, although i do still have a strong indian accent and features to some extent. I could pass off as a Latino/middle eastern/ moroccon etc type of guy too. Iam not fair/light skinned, but iam not dark either. Iam kind of wheatish. iam 27, been living in NY for 5 yrs now and trained at the American Acad of Dramatic Arts. dont want to sound boastful, but i do get a lot of compliments on my looks. I have theatre experience, and my teachers have always told me i would be more castable if i work on reducing my accent. Iam in a dilema now on whether i should go back to Mumbai(bollywood) and give Indian Cinema a shot where my color or accent wont be a problem, or if i should work on my accent and see if i can find work in Hollywood. Iam very strong willed and have big dreams/aims in life and will not give up till i reach the top.I like the global reach and realism of hollywood cinema.bollywood as we know is more song, dance and romance. bollywood has been going places lately too and Bollywood actors are becoming popular worldwide too. Time is running against me and i need to make a move soon. personally i prefer Hollywood cinema and would like to be part of it. What is of concern is that is hollywood open to minorities? is there enough work out there for people like us? i know it would take years of hard work and dedication to be A-list but i do not want to run a race where i know i dont stand a chance or the odds are against me. Minorities are typically typecasted and i do not want to play second lead or supporting actor forever. i know i have what it takes to be A-list one day. My nationality/color i could never change and dont want to as iam proud of who iam. Accent reduction is possible, although a little hard ive heard at my age.
Iam looking for honest answers from people of various backgrounds/ ethinicity on where i stand and what would be your advise as the general public. I am very open to all answers, so your honestly will really help me decide.Thanks 
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