Get Her Back No Contact

get her back no contactShould I contact her or just wait? Would it be a good idea?

I know I should move on. But its tough. I love the girl in some way. Long story short, she is bulimic, depressed and the works. She broke up with me (disappeared). Dated someone right afterwards, broke up with him. She contacted me last week wanted to go have lunch, I agreed after a week, she said she was working and she would let me know.

Never let me knew. Friday night I get like ten calls from her, she hangs up each time, then sends me text saying “I’m drunk and need you” all I said was “you ok?”. Never heard from her. Next day I texted saying “you alright” “Can’t help you if you call and hang up on me” She said “haha sorry about that”. Haven’t heard from her since. My question; If this girl truly wanted to be with me again, would she make more of an effort?

Would she not want to see me at all costs? What should I do? Keep the No Contact till she contacts me again. What would be the best way to show her I want her back if she has changed and only if she is healthy?

In this situation, it sounds like you’re her last months newspaper, aka … her rebound! It seems that whenever she needs you, she’ll call you up, but she needs you during times when she’s broken up with someone, or she’s doing something stupid to captivate you’re attention. But when she has a boyfriend, or is drunk or something, everything is all good, and she doesn’t need you.

My advice is to let her be, and just ignore her, no offense, because she’s playing mind games with you … and girls like that shouldn’t be tolerated, so it’s time for you to take the inititave and move on, and not to deal with her whatsoever.

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We talk once in a while, but not as often as we used to. Our conversations are great and we act very nice toward each other. I guess you can say we are friends. We avoid talking about the relationship. I want to start new and show him how I have changed for the better. I do slip sometimes but that will take time to change. It has now been two months, and I want to get back together with him but do not want to rush things. What should I do from here? How should I act?

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She really doesn’t even know how much I loved her because I never really expressed it, saying “I love you” just isn’t enough sometimes… She left me and said she needed space, I know the real reason, but she never explained it. I tried to talk it out but she didnt want to hear it, wouldn’t return my call and was actually kind of nasty. She said she would return my stuff on my porch in 3 days and its been nearly 12 days. Since she still has my things, is that a good sign? Just so you know, me and that girl got along amazingly, we rarely fought, and had a great sex life…

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