An ex who had previously broken my heart completely (basically ditched me for he ex) has been recently trying to contact me. I saw on Facebook that she recently changed her status to single.
I am in a really good place in my life, in a relationship with somebody i really like, good career and friend-wise, that I initially entertained her contacting me and we basically just talked about our lives. Recently she texted me that she "really needed to talk to me" (we had a purely online/text convos before this, she lives far enough away that I wouldn’t accidentally run into her). I told her she could call me if she really needed to talk and she said "good I really need to hear your voice". I am 90% sure that she will want to get back together or something along those lines, maybe just ‘meet up’. I absolutely do not want this, I still harbor bad feelings towards her, and I haven’t even been telling my gf that I have been talking to her, which makes me feel pretty bad (but I knew my gf would overreact and I thought we would just stop talking after a few weeks of catching up).
Anyway, a part of me wants to be really mean to her. Like sort of rub my happiness in her face and really let her feel how her letting me go was a big mistake and all that and finish it by telling her not to talk to me anymore because I am really happy with my gf and it’s kind of pathetic that she is reaching out to me.
The non-vengeful part of me just wants to tell her that I am really happy right now and it’s disrespectful to my gf to keep talking to her.
Or maybe some middle ground where I rub it in her face a little, but then politely tell her I am with my gf now and don’t want to be unfair to her.
This girl really f*cked me over, and I know revenge isn’t going to solve anything but I can guarantee it will make my pride feel better
