My husband isn’t much of a romantic. I really just want to do something fun and nice with him for our anniversary. He works so we will only have about 5 hours of time before he has to go to sleep. I recently lost my job so I can’t afford to take him to do anything I would like to do with him. I want to do something to at least make our anniversary special. One minor thing he works nights so doing his favorite dinner is hard because he gets home at 9:00 am and I am just waking up. Then he has to be in bed by 2 and I don’t want to spend our anniversary cooking instead of spending time together. It is our first anniversary of being married. I don’t want it to be a bummer.
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I cared for my mom from 34 to 47 & she passed. Best thing that ever happened was the opportunity to love her ..I met a man 6 mos. after her passing. Admittedly, I was still in the caretaker mindset, & did way too much for him, cooking dinners 3 x’s a week, cared for him when he was sick & got little acknowledgment back. Since I wasn’t looking or expecting it to begin with I didn’t notice right away. To his credit, he was the first to say "I love you", he displayed traits like..dropping everything to help me come & come w/me even to a dental appt & take me himself, he (was) affectionate, & did ask me, though unofficially.."to get married", & run off to Vegas. I am 48 he is 50. Neither if us had been married, he lost his mother at 7, admits not much female influence in his life. He found me & was looking for a mate but financially totally unprepared yet expected me to feel secure. I never asked him for anything, neither did he. He became distant. I got mad & broke up 3x’s. He won’t talk
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