Okay this morning I get a phone call from a police officer in another state. He says that he is investigating a police report made by my husband’s ex wife.
In the report she claims the myself and another person slandered her. Now the who conversation was basically this. The other person posted something about the number of idiots in her life. I posted back did you run into the ex’s wife? She said yes and she is getting fat. I said maybe she will pop out another kid.
Now we never used her name and both of our FB accounts are restricted so the only way she got on to see it was to go through one of the step kids pages to get to a parents.
The report also claims that she has numerous other pieces of evidence that she has gathered from other websites. The only other place I talk "About" her is a step parent forum devoted to helping each other with custody issues. In it I have stated the issues and asked questions. I have never used anyone’s names and the only reason she knew it was me is because she is following me around the web.
The office basically told me that she was very upset and I am not aloud to talk about her on line. First I don’t just talk about her I talk about issues we have that include her. Second, if I’m not using names and I am anonymous except to some stalking me (her) how can that be a crime? What about the 1st amendment?
For example if she finds this she would call the cops. Is it right that I can not speak about my issues in a private way?
Third, is there anything I can do, she is basically running around the web looking for my email address that has been changed now?
Is this post a crime?
Popfav, My hubby is a retired cop too, he said the same thing you did, I did call he is legit, but some of what he said was weird like when I pressed the issue and said what crime did I commit he said just don’t talk about her, he also said he didn’t want to make it multijuristictional I didn’t know that could even happen with a mistermeaner. I mean all he said was stop. but like right now we are talking about"her" can I get in trouble? And yeah I shouldn’t have refered to her as an idiot but only me and the other person and her could have known who I was talking about and she wouldn’t have know if she were not snooping where she shouldn’t have been.
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I mean you can take anything that disproves christianity, and say (without any evidence) that god can do miracles and get around it.
Its kind of like two six year old boys playing cops and robbers.
Boy 1: I shot you!
Boy 2: No you didn’t! I have body armor!
1: yes I did! my bullets can go through armor
2. No they cant! My armor makes me invincible!
1. No it can’t! My bullets can get through!
and so on.
Its kind of like whenever anyone logically points out a flaw with christianity, people can make up a new magic power for god. Even something the bible says nothing about.
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So about 2 weeks ago I posted a question asking if anyone else thought it was wierd that the previous owners of my dog wanted to "visit" him. Well suprise! They want the dog back.
It’s been a little over a month that we’ve had him and he’s doing so well! He loves us and our other dog and we love him. Him and Ziggy (our other dog) are inseperable.
So anyway I never called them back saying they could come see him. A week later I get a text saying basically that the kids missed the dog and they wanted him back. We nicely replied that we couldn’t do that. They’re reply wasn’t so nice, it basicaly said "No we want our dog back, we’re trying to be understanding with you but we want him back". We replied simply that we were sorry.
Then today I was home alone and the husband showed up! I was home alone and didn’t answer the door. I’m a very petite girl and knew that he wasn’t going to be happy so didn’t risk it and pretended no one was home. He slipped a note under the door saying they were talking to a laywer and would take legal action if they had to and that they would keep coming back until they got the dog back! I called my parents and they came over. Shortly after that the wife and her sister showed up and got nasty with my dad saying they were coming to pick up the dog and he wouldn’t let them. By this point we had called the police because it seemed like they were staking out my house.
We think they showed up again but the cop pulled up and then they were gone. The cop got the story, looked at the dog to make sure that he was ok and then called them telling them they co
For some reason it posted this question twice and cut this one off…..
Well I did save the text messages from them, one says they gave the dog to me. The all show their refusal of our denying they get the dog back. We didn’t pay anything for him and didn’t sign any paperwork they just came and dropped him off, but the police officer that came over was convinced they were in the wrong and even called us back to talk about it.
My bf sent them a text saying that if they didn’t listen to the warning the officer gave them we would press charges against them. They called me agian saying that they didn’t know that each other had gone over there and didn’t know why we thought they were harrassing us but they were just trying to get thier dog back and told us to enjoy him. I hope thats the end of it.
And the dog is about a year and a half and they had him since he was 6 months old. I don’t care that they had him all that time he seems very happy and adjusted with us.
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So basically after 6 weeks of not being together and me trying to get my ex back she’s now “given in” and says she wants me back but wants to “take things slow” … According to her this means that she does what she wants and i do what i want and not being together 24/7… this comes across to me that she just wants it casual as she doesn’t want to have me on her Facebook (apparently she doesn’t want to see what I’m up to even though i have nothing to hide) and she doesn’t want her friends or family to know until she’s ready to tell them.
This all comes across as a bit of a cop out to me and was wondering what everyone else thought? Every time I bring up something that I don’t like about the situation all I get is an arsey message saying “fine! let’s just leave it then” or something along those lines! I ended up buying her a present for Christmas back in august that cost me 300, I’m getting nothing because she “cant afford it”… i feel like I’m losing out!
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So about 2 weeks ago I posted a question asking if anyone else thought it was wierd that the previous owners of my dog wanted to "visit" him. Well suprise! They want the dog back.
It’s been a little over a month that we’ve had him and he’s doing so well! He loves us and our other dog and we love him. Him and Ziggy (our other dog) are inseperable.
So anyway I never called them back saying they could come see him. A week later I get a text saying basically that the kids missed the dog and they wanted him back. We nicely replied that we couldn’t do that. They’re reply wasn’t so nice, it basicaly said "No we want our dog back, we’re trying to be understanding with you but we want him back". We replied simply that we were sorry.
Then today I was home alone and the husband showed up! I was home alone and didn’t answer the door. I’m a very petite girl and knew that he wasn’t going to be happy so didn’t risk it and pretended no one was home. He slipped a note under the door saying they were talking to a laywer and would take legal action if they had to and that they would keep coming back until they got the dog back! I called my parents and they came over. Shortly after that the wife and her sister showed up and got nasty with my dad saying they were coming to pick up the dog and he wouldn’t let them. By this point we had called the police because it seemed like they were staking out my house.
We think they showed up again but the cop pulled up and then they were gone. The cop got the story, looked at the dog to make sure that he was ok and then called them telling them they couldn’t contact me in any way or show up at my house or they would be taken in for trespassing.
So they kept calling! My bf finally sent them a text telling them to leave us alone and she called one last time saying she couldn’t understand why we were being rude and why were saying she was harrassing us when they wern’t and told us to enjoy the dog. I pray that is the end of it and they really do leave us alone.
I was so worried I was sick. But I still feel bad for the kids. I know I did the right thing since they didn’t seem to take very good care of him and really didn’t seem to care who took the dog in the first place. They just wanted him gone.
Did they go overboard? Or do you think I just should have given them the dog back?
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