Couple nights ago my man ended our relationship. We have been together for over a year. He moved to Vegas for work and he asked me to move there with him. I am still here in arizona and he suppose to come and get me las weekend and drive back to vegas but his boss made him travel for work in kentucky. I got really frustrated and would call and call and text him over and over if he doesn’t answer it.
He told me not to worry because if I worry it will make his life harder becuse he is not here with me.
I would call him and he wouldn’t answer the phone and I start to get mad at him. The other night he told me that I am smothering him and he need space! I know this is all my fault for smothering him and being needy to him. I know he was busy with work and stuff and shoulda left him alone and now he’s gone.
I freaked out and was crushed when he broke up with me. He is the love of my life and I truly love him. What should I do to get him back?
A couple nights ago, my boyfriend of almost five months broke up with me over the phone. Our relationship was going perfectly until a couple weeks ago. He seemed different, he was always distant when we hung out for those last two weeks. We kept saying that we had to fix things, but we weren’t exactly sure what we were trying to fix. Before he broke up with me, he told me that he just didn’t have that same emotional attachment to me. It was becoming more of a purely physical relationship, which neither one of us wanted. He’s my best friend. I obviously still have really strong feelings for him… But before we hung up, he told me that he loved me, sobbing. I’ve never heard him cry like that before..
Talking to him today, he wanted to know if I was staying single or looking for a new relationship. I said single. He said he’d probably wait. A few weeks. I think he’s over me by the way he talks, but the way he looks at me says otherwise. I just really want to win him back.. Please give advice, anything at all.
Thanks everyone<3
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My ex-boyfirend broke up with me on our 5 month anniversary…. then the next day.. he asked one of my best friends out and she struggles for a day on her decision then gave in and said yes…. I was really jealous so I made up some lies… to see if she would believe me or not… and she reported to him in a second… he called me and started saying random stuff like "i liked her for about 3 months since i met her" and ‘I been going out with her barely a day and i’m happier then in the five months i was dating you." you know that stuff really hurts.. Anyways… yesterday.. he begged me to help him get a ride home or at least a place to stay… so I let him crash at my house… nothing happened… he just passed out from exhausted… when he woke up he said he hadn’t been sleeping very well for the least couple nights… and then he said i forgive you for what you said and your a really good friend… i just looked away… then i said if u need me call me… he said will do and before he left… he said he’ll call me later… what does that even mean…
3 days after we started going out… he said i love you to me… i mean i didnt say it back until 3 weeks later.
about four weeks in… he proposed to me..
He is just using my friend as rebound to make me jealous?
At of all the people he could have call…. why’d he call me?
what should i do… he is just playing with me…
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Ok so my girlfriend which is now my EX have dated for 2 years and 5 months. Ive recently started to go back to school because she told me to show her that you can improve with your life. So after signing up for classes, I reminded her that I was going to be busy with work and school. I work 40 hours a week and with school in the way now, im super busy. Anyways, a couple nights ago she broke up with me because we’ve been rocky for about a month and us being too busy with each other. I’ve done so much for her even hop on to her phone plan to help ease stress and pay half the bill for her. She’s been hurt by her EX bf’s and I thought she would understand how it feels and im sure she does because I told her that she must know how Im feeling right now. But anyways, she said it was the last straw and doesnt have the same feelings anymore. I try and try till this day for her to take me back and she still doesnt budge. I’m planning on giving all the stuff she gave me back to her on her birthday. After giving all her stuff back Im going to ignore, not that I want to but Im sure this is what she wants. Me out of her life..Question is, how do you think she would feel?



