Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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My fiance left me a month ago. Over the past 2 weeks or so he has been coming around. He’s been calling me and coming over to my house to hang out for a little while. Every time he sees me he gives me hugs and the last couple times he’s gotten teary eyed. He’s coming over sometime soon so we can talk about us. I really, really want him back. What should I do?
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Allrite, here is some advice that may help. Discalimer: Things can be different with every person…..read this story to see how i did it then ill give tips.
Me and my ex were in love and dated 6 months, we drifted apart and she started liking this guy she dated 2 times in the past. She started dating him. He was still the jerk he always was even tho he said he changed and she thought he did. He still plays people cuz hes a heartless jerk. But he cheated on her after like a week and a half. Well after that happened we started talking more and slowly working things out. Well she barely had a connection with me or was attached to me and still kinda liked this Dante kid cuz shes more physically attracted to him than anything. Well she is dome with his crap she tries to stay away from him and shes back with me, we are closer than ever. We are pretending like we didnt break up for a month cuz we dont wanna start over and stuff….But things are pretty good with us. There has been a little drama and its been a little hard at a couple times cuz of Dante and stuff…..this Dante kid has been trying to get her to like him again and hes been a dick to her tho on and off….shes sick of him and basically he is causing drama by talking crap about me and trying to fite me, and she dont wanna see us fite. So she felt in the middle cuz of him….but I told him to back off and stop, shes no longer worried about it. She said she wants to be with me and ework things out with me and that this summer will be way better cuz we wont have to put up with the high school bs and im graduating and shell be in school still, itll make it easier cuz we wont be stuck in the same school with dumb drama. But she loves me again and its going really good and i love her….we learned things we need to change from the past to make it better.
TIPS:Don’t give up, Don’t be too pushy give them some space….in the mean time fix things about yerself like work out lose weight get a job get a car dress better (i did things like this and i feel way better and i lost 20 lbs. She used to feel like I was too needy but Im not anymore I learned to have a little independece), dont depend on her or NEED her, love her, be there for her, even if she doesn’t like you that much just be there for her especially when other people aren’t then shell realize you really care, work on things that maybe bothered her before, let things be on her terms until shes ready to commit, she needs space and she is the only person who can truly control that space so give it to her. Don’t take things too fast when u get back together, have discussion on what things to change and just how u both feel about yer relationship and how you will handle different situations. One last tip, if you violate her space or things start to go wrong then back off and give her time to think (if you dont think about it and try not to care so much and to not worry and most likely things will turn out.)
It took alot of work to get my ex back, but that jerk is out of the picture, she loves me and wants to be with me and trusts me completely….even when things were really bad, they. If you wanna get someone back then dont give up, follow yer heart and u can listen to advice but go truly with what your heart wants you to.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
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Alright so my girlfriend and I broke up not this past Thursday but last Thursday. Her reason was she was struggling in school, and she had so much going on in her life that she just couldn’t be with me right now. However she did tell me how much she loved me, cared about me, and wanted to be with me again.
It was hard at first but then I started giving her space. We stopped talking other then saying goodnight a couple times to each other. But then I hear randomly at work a guy tells me that she has been sleeping with another guy, this guy happened to be this dudes step brother. So obviously I am rattled and frustrated, and a few guys were bugging me about it trying to get me more mad so I would find this guy and rip him apart.
However I find out that this guy has a girlfriend, and wants nothing to do with my ex girlfriend. He has not been saying they slept together. Its been her apparently trying to breakup him and his girlfriend because my ex can’t have him. Or at least that’s what this dudes girlfriend is thinking.
However my ex told me there was not another guy, said it was nothing like that. And she was already broken up with me she had no reason to lie she has before she was always upfront. And I told her if there is another guy just tell me and I will back up. And she said no I want you, just can’t give you that attention right now.
My ex has been gone for the long weekend with her family. But she ended calling me up, when I was angry about this telling me we will finally talk on Monday. So that’s when I am going to figure it all out. But how do I approach this situation? I don’t know whats worse actually sleeping with another guy, or telling people your sleeping with another guy.
I am a couple years older then this guy, and I have to say much better looking, bigger, stronger, more of man. If I were to get in this guys he might crap himself. I have like 6 inches and 70 pounds on him.
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im a scorpio and my ex brad is a cancer. im in my 20s, hes in his 30s. we were dating seriously about 4 months. i was spending the night at his house 4 nights a week and he took me out to dinner all the time, took me to meet his parents and met my parents, bought me a monthly gym membership and put it in his name. treated me like a queen!! HE EVEN DISCUSSED MARRYING ME!! never been treated so good before! my family loved him! everything was great until he broke up with me a month ago because he said things were moving too fast like me pressuring him to move me in with him and sum little drama. wen we broke up a month ago he texted me this………."i am done! i don’t want any relationships right now. im only wanting to have fun! i did like you alot. but takin a break from dating. and u probably should also. we had alot of drama and need time to get over that stuff! things were too much too fast. need my space" ive been texting him a couple times a week and he usually ignores me since we broke up but this time he texted me back the day before yesterday saying "im takin a break from dating, but if you want to get together for some fun, we can and thats it. if not, dont text me. i hope u find someone else soon!" then i texted him back saying that i dont want only sex or anyone else and i wont being seeing him for jus sex and I LOVE HIM, i want to be with him. then he texted back and said …."i cant give u that. sorry! i liked u alot but not ready for relationship right now. im not dating anyone else. if you date other guys, take it very slow!! never know we may date again oneday."
NOW HE HASNT TEXTED ME BACK SINCE….
IM SO CONFUSED! HES GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS! WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO THINK OR DO? I LOVE HIM AND I WANT TO BE WITH HIM SO BAD…ADVICE PLEASE.
THANKS SO MUCH!! 
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