Hi.

Im 16 and my ex girlfriend is 13. We had been together for about a year and a half, sometimes on and off, but we always came back to each other.

However now we are not together anymore. It was neither of our faults, but she told me that she didnt feel wanted by me, so she dumped me in a nice way. I keep feeling as if i lead her to do this aswell. :(

We had been through so many arguments and this one was really smal yet it still ended us. I had recently moved to college, and she didnt like it as we were not going to see ach other as much, but we still seen each other quite a lot. We were still together, but then she moved schools.

We were so close, we used to do so many romantic things, like cuddle in the cinema, have really great sleepovers. We were always kissing and we have pretty much been everywhere in our area together.

We argued and now we arent together, it was right after she moved school pretty much, and now she is going out with a boy who she has known for three weeks, when she has known me for about 2 years with so many memories :(

we are still friends, but i still love her as much as i always did when we were a couple. We went throgh so much trouble together regarding our age difference, yet we were so in love so we stayed together.

I really do love her, i have rote her songs, poems, i spent £60 on her for christmas this year, i spent £80 on her last year, but it is still a lot.

I cant stop thinking about her. We argued really bad last night and now we agreed tht we wouldnt talk for a week so that things could calm down, but my real plan was for her to miss me and ralise she luvs me, but now she is with him and i found out they had been snogging a lot tonight.

I think she might still love me, but i think she luvs this other guy too, and i really dont know what to do, i want her back so much because she was the best thing in my life and our friendship seems so much less than what we used to share. Just put it this way, we have so many romantic and special memories together and i really cant let her go. Can anybody help?

Please can u help, i really need to know how i can get her back because to be honest i actually need her and i feel like i cant live without her.

Thankyou to anyone who answers my question

Please help

:(


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125 Most Romantic Things to Do with Your Lover

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs and massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her with hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.

10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other…not sex)
16. One word…Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne or perfume and wear it every time you’re together.

21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/black lights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad…Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.

31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss and smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers, candy, poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.

41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt with each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.

51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name.
53. Draw. (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips, sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.

61. Spaghetti… ( Ever see Lady and the Tramp ?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out, make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she’s fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

71. Break every one of your parent’s relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets ,fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. ( Brownie Points )

81. Act out mutual fantasies together. ( Not necessarily sexual )
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his, her friends. ( more brownie points )
85. Go to church, pray and worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him, her.

91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other, or don’t stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met, fell in love, etc. and give it to them.
94. Let there never be a sec. during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, " Sweet dreams. "

102. Have flowers sent to your girl/guy at their place of work.
103. Plan a surprise trip out of town and don’t tell your loved one where the two of you are going until you get there.
104. Rent a motel/hotel room in town. Just because you’re not out of town doesn’t mean you can’t pretend!
105. Write her/him a poem and put it in their lunch bag.
106. Write them a love letter and put it in the mail.
107. Write on the bathroom mirror in lipstick, I LOVE YOU.
108. Make your sweetheart breakfast in bed.
109. Call your honey at work and tell him/her you’re thinking of him/her.
110. Spoil your love with a nice massage.
111. Write a list of all the reasons why you love your sweetheart, then slip it into their lunch bag.

112. Buy tickets to their favorite concert or play and surprise him/her with them.
113. Buy a gift certificate for her for a day of pampering at a beauty salon.
114. Slow dance with your sweetheart to your favorite song.
115. Go for a walk at the beach and search for seashells together
116. Dedicate a song to her/him over the radio.
117. Watch the sunset together. Or a sunrise.
118. Do not limit romantic occasions to just the weekend.
119. Light some candles to enhance a romantic situation.
120. Compliment her/him.
121. Plan one night a week as a Date Night.

122. Wear his cologne or her perfume for the day.. to remind you of her/him.
123. When you kiss … cup your hands around your lover’s face.. and look deeply into their eyes while saying their name.
124. Surprise your sweetheart by hiding a gift in an obscure spot, like in their desk or in their bed, right below their pillow.
125. Brush her hair. She’ll love you for it!


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Okay so my ex told me he still has feelings for me, we broke up because i just didnt feel ready to start dating quite yet and he said he understands but he also said he wont wait for me.

Now-months later- he says he still likes me and i told him i really care about him but was to uncomfortable to date yet still.

3-4 months after this hes still being his flirty self with me. We really connect well i thought, i can tell him everything without it turning into a rumor or him holding it against me, we are both pretty open with eachother. I told him i felt ready to start dating, and that if he still wanted to be with me i wanted to be with him……nope he said he got tired of waiting around and he found someone else…
I felt like a made a HUGE mistake cuz he is such a NICE guy!!!! I thought he didnt feel for me anymore.

We went out to a movie with a few friends of ours,we ended up sitting next to each other and thats when it all started, i thought he didnt like me so i leaned away and just stared at the movie,then he pulled the arm rest back(so theatres do this where you dont have to have the arm rests down they push up into the chairs) anyway he pushed it up so there was nothing seperating us and he leaned over really close to grab popcorn from my box in my lap, he lean really close to my face, more focused on my shocked eyes than his hand in the box.

my heart was pounding really fast, he asked me to sit alittle closer so he didnt have to reach so far for the popcorn….after a while he took the box from my hands and set it on the floor and leaned in close to me, pullin me into his arms in a cuddle. i was getting so nervous and my heart was beating so loud i thought the whole theatre could hear it……
after about ten minutes of cuddling and him stroking the back of my hands, he brushed my hair behind my ear and got really close and whispered something i couldnt comprhend, but i didnt really care because he started to lightly kiss under my ear and on my cheek, slowly working his way to my lips…

just as i was turning to meet his lips with mine he pulled away and looked me deep in the eyes for what felt like forever, i wanted to just push myself forward to his lips but the look in his eyes made me feel guilty but for what i dont know….

i was texting him later on that night about what went on in the movie and if he likes me??

He said he was just in a really flirty mood and doesnt like me!!!!! W T F!!!!!

I was so angry!!! But now we are gonna hang out with friends again, i want some tips on how to be eally flirty but not sluty, just make him mad!!!!! I wanna show him what its like to have the bone in front of my face pulled away!!! how would i do that!!!!??! and does he like me??


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Here’s my story: My pregnant wife hates me. My wife and I used to make out for literally hours and cuddle (never had sex b4 we got married) for about 6 months before we got married and she seemed to have a lot of reasons why she wanted to marry me, she used to tell me she loved me all the time.

I got her pregnant on our honeymoon Feb. 6th 09, and she was so happy and we found out after about 5 weeks that she was already pregnant. One day she came in to the room and it was like she tried to force herself to kiss me and I could tell she didn’t enjoy it the same as before, she stopped letting me cuddle her, she stopped telling me she loved me, she also went off of her Paxil (anxiety) for the baby.

I was on Paxil as well. Pretty soon I was fighting for our marriage and she was thinking about divorce, I got us into marriage counseling and got her onto Zoloft, it helped but not enough. Her only reason for divroce is that she doesn’t love me and that I irritate her and I smell etc.

I have been fighting this for months and she has allready asked me to leave and I did just that and have supported her in making sure she has enough food and gas etc. It seems to me that the only reason gives me for wanting divorce is just her not having proper feelings, other than that we have alot in common and we don’t argue much at all, I’ve never yelled at her.

She really is set on divorce though…


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hi

i was married 7 years to a man who was very moody and hard to deal with.

when it came to sex, we didnt do it or he would make me feel silly for asking. it kinda made me feel like i was being desperate!! i just wanted to be loved. it made me afraid to approach him and the pain of being rejected cut me like a knife. i will never forget that awful feeling.

before i met him, i was confident with myself. now i am not.

i had to leave my ex as it was making me become ill and i was always crying.

now i live with my new man and he is great.

we have a good sex life and he is a lovely person.

but last night, i flipped out because he said he just wanted to sleep as he was so sleepy from work (he works a 15 hour day- 5am to 7pm)

immediatley old pain came flooding back and i pushed him away from me. he was abit suprised, and i had to go out of the room for 10 minutes to figure out why i had flipped. its because i remembered that awful horrible pain that i used to experience.

i immediatley thought ‘he doesnt want me’

i apologised and he gave me a cuddle and said it was ok.

i mentioned why it had made me flip and he was ok with that.

but i need to let go of my past and be free and be my old self again.

i feel so afraid to come on to my boyfriend incase he says no. and then i also feel stupid for not being able to be feisty and sexy and take control. i am consumed with all these intense feelings.

how do i become more free sexually?

how do i learn that it is ok to be sexually confident?

how do i let go of the bad memories of my ex husband?

why does he still haunt me?

i have to sort this out so i can enjoy my life!

can you help?

louise xx


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