Well to start my ex girlfriend and I broke up at the end of October. I did not see or talk to her for two months when I e-mailed her about getting a cup of coffee she said that would be nice. She picked the time and the place.
When we met for coffee she said that it was good that we reconnect. She laughed at my jokes, and we talked for an hour, but I cut it off. I think that we could have talked for longer.
The following evening we went with our group of friends to celebrate a friends birthday. When she ordered her drink I said what she was going to order before she ordered it. She said that I scored some points.
During the night she told me about her New Years Eve and about some guy trying to get in her pants. (I think she was trying to make me jealous) She then went on to say that she was repulsed by this guy, and walk away from him.
During the course of the evening we had some flirty conversations.
Now am I just reading too much into things? Or are these signs that my ex want me back?
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So this guy John that I have known for almost 3 yrs dated since July/August of 2009 until Feb 2010.We split up and had no communication for almost 2 months(non-speaking terms).Anyways I saw him around a couple of times at the same bar that he goes to where I was with(once 5 weeks ago or so) and once last week.Last week I asked him if he would like to grab a cup of coffee with me and catch up.I was trying to be civilized etc and just polite.He said "no" which I expected and accepted and I was about to walk away when he started to vent abt. the break up and his life and so forth.I listened to all of this for 20 minutes of so,he was raising his voice,I was telling him to calm down and next thing I know he kissed me and proposed to me.I accepted the proposal(stupid I know!) but hrs. later found out that my ex had a couple of drinks with his friends.Anyways him and I chatted,catched up,all his friends knew that we both were outside and talking.I was introduced that night to his dad who has lung cancer as his fiance.His dad was so happy that his son found someone to make him happy.The ex and I talked until 4am and 9am comes and the ex had some errands to run,I call my ex a couple of hrs later b/c we needed to talk and he calls back.He finally says that the prior night was us moving too fast and that we should remain good friends.I said sure yet even though I was not sure how I would take it.Monday of this week I called and asked him if he meant what he said,he played the dumb role and asked me what part and I told him the whole thing on Thursday.I guess he still remembered since he was not opened to talk about the subject and always said comments like how I should drop the subject and how he does not want any more drama.I asked him my final question which was how someone can say something and 12 hrs later have those words taken back.He still wanted to be friends he said after I asked him all those 2 questions.After that we did not speak for a couple of days.I called him 2 days ago and he was busy and I made it a 20 second convo saying that since he is too busy I will let him go(what he usually does anyways).Today I was polite to call and wish him happy Good Friday.We talked briefly and he had to go since he hates driving and talking at the same time.I told him that I could be his friend but I cannot.I still like him more than a friend so here is my question:do I sit down with him and tell him "John, look I know we have agreed that we ought to remain friends.But I cannot be your friend because I like you more than a friend.I understand if you cannot or do not return my feelings but I cannot be stuck here in limbo."….I just want to tell him how I really feel so I can get it off my chest.I had the guts to ask him to grab coffee and that took a lot of guts.I am not sure how to approach this and tell him how I still feel with out making him uncomfortable.
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Him,our mutual friend Hanan and I were best friends before him and I started to date.Now since I am best friends with Hanan and she is good friends with him as well well it became complicated.Mine and his break up was supposed to be personal but expanded to include a large group of friends,our siblings,close and best friends,etc.Now he gave our mutual friend an ultimatum:that she has to choose who she wants to be friends with either him or I which I find stupid.My friend wants to stay out of the drama and same here except that he does not realize that he,himself is creating the drama or at least most of it now.My friend Hanan and I have stepped away from the whole drama about the break up yet the was the one who could not let go if he made our friend choose.
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So my ex girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago because she will be graduating college in the spring and she may be going to work in Texas (we both currently attend college in Mississippi, and i am graduating a semester after her). We had been going out for close to 9 months, and we were and still are in love, and we had even talked about getting married in the future. Her reasoning for the break up was that it would be easier to break up now rather than waiting until spring. We had previously discussed the possibility of her going to work out of state and decided we would deal with it when the time came closer, and we even discussed me moving to Texas after i graduated, and we made an agreement that we would find a way to work things out. About a week ago she came over to talk and told me she was still in love with me and cried hysterically for close to 2 hours, and ive gotten a few text messages very late at night from her telling me she misses me, but she has also told me she does not want to get back together. I am trying to give her some space and am hoping she will realize she misses me, and i haven’t had any kind of contact with her for about 5 days, but its very hard for me not to try to not call her. I am considering calling her sometime next week to grab a cup of coffee, is this a good idea? I do not plan on bringing up getting back together i just think it would be good for us to go out because she may realize after seeing me she made a mistake. I am wondering if i am taking the right approach here? And if we grab some coffee what should be discussed? Should it just be a friendly thing, or should i bring up getting back together again? And if we don’t talk about getting back together that day when should i bring it up again? This is someone that is very special to me and i would do anything to get her back. I now this is a big question but any kind of help would be greatly appreciated, thank you.
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