we were married for 10 years. we had an awesome marriage, then i went to prison for 17 months, for receiving stolen property, a check paid to me by a renter for rent mind you. while in my wife met an old friend on myspace (curse it forever) and decided to move this dude in 2 months before i got out. my problem is that even though she betrayed me the way she did, i am still very much in love with her, and she acts and says she loves me as well, but she still has this guy living there. wtf do i do? and yes i know im an idiot for wanting her back, but i cant help it, heart wants what it wants. she says she regrets it but this guy draws alot of money and has been remodeling the house and she says she doesnt know how to break it off, i want to just go there and beat his face in, but is illegal so wont. i am in a hrad spot from this nerves are shot, any advice?

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Hi I am 20 and I am a gay male and I have known I was gay since I was a little boy growing up with so many feelings inside of me,anyway
I didn’t choose to be who I am,no one recruited me,I didn’t wake up one day and decide to turn my life around-as my mom says,no one put a magic curse on me that made me gay,this is who I am and who so many other people are,I have to work hard to keep negative homophobic thoughts out of my head,there may or may not be something in me that is making me for no reason develop very very intense,romantic,s*****,uncontrollable feelings for other men, my dad doesn’t want me to bring it up to him,so I don’t but he has no idea all the times I tried to end my life because of negative thoughts and stress and depression and thoughts of suicide,that was a while ago,today I am feeling better,anyway does anyone have any idea what is causing me to automatically to develop what I feel for other men??????
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I’m 17. I known my ex since 2008. He’s 20. He started off as nice & sweet. He ended up becoming jealous, controlling, and possessive of me because he’s insecure.
He accused of me sleeping with other guys when I was a virgin at the time. He got angry if I had a guy friend. He’s gotten in my face to tell me to "shut the f’uck up". He would always boss me around & curse at me.
He would point out my flaws. He spoke down to me and made me feel bad about having a small chest. He’s made me feel so bad about myself that I hate the way I look & can’t stand to look at pics of myself.
I dumped him & told him to get lost. He eventually left me alone. He came back a month ago and was being really sweet. I thought he changed. I fell for it.
I ended up losing my virginity to him. I did it to please him and b/c he pressured me into it. I didn’t want to. He’s being a jerk to me again. I asked him a normal question and he started cussing at me & threatening me & got angry. It scared the crap out of me. I’m scared he’s going to hit me or something.
I want to tell him to get lost but I know he’s going to become really angry and be mean.
If I ignore his texts or block him on facebook, he’ll try to contact me one way or the other and won’t leave me alone.
Our relationship is toxic.
What’s the best way to get away from him?
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The first Libra came to me from a far away land. It traveled many miles to bring the great balance to me. This Libra is called "The curse of balance." A very powerful Libra! A hurricane passing it would be balanced to a whirl wind. As the cursed Libra entered my life, at the time of great peace and harmony. It left me wrecked and in pain, balancing what was once my joyful and peaceful life. It casted it’s great shadow over me, and tried to control every aspect of it. Many years of struggling, many years I suffered, many years I prayed. I held onto what little I have to keep myself alive every day. "I can survive, don’t give up." I said.
As I fought to survive against the first Libra. The second Libra, a powerful witch who flew in from the West, bringing the great second curse upon me. "The Sleeping Spell." It was casted upon anyone near her. The spell made people slowwww dowwnnnn……n..nn. into lazy slug. Those cursed under her spell, were confused and twisted into one of her creations. The witch bribed me to get closer to her, and closer, till I got close enough to be trapped in her spell. I said "No, you foul Libra witch. I’ll never turn!" Lure me the witch tried, relentlessly. I stayed strong, gripping fist strong. I kept my distance and stood afar, did anything to remain a human. I watched the witch lure, and turn the poor people into mindless beast. Oh how wish I had the power to save them, but the first Libra has been draining my will and determination for very long, depression has over come me. "Is there any hope?" I asked.
My head hung low, but not ready to give up. I was sent unkowningly to the third Libra. Not the strongest of Libra’s, but a very wise Libra. Sent to be a slave, by the "Great Libra of Wisdom." His mental attacks began with no haste. It attacked me from every angle, and every which way. I was slowly being brainwashed, I was losing myself. The power I once had many years ago, demolished, blown out of my hands like dry powdery earth. I no longer stood a chance. Demanding and cunning, the Libra’s manipulated, twisted me, and took any confidence I had left. Till one day…..
I looked at myself, and screamed in agony. My ugly face, was now disgustingly gorgeous. I spoke in the most charming of ways, and women could not keep away from me. My determination and will gone, I had no idea what I wanted anymore. I didn’t know where I wanted to go, or what I wanted to do. The people began to hate me. I felt as if weights were now on my shoulders, I could not go anywhere. I prayed, and prayed, and prayed. I fell to my knees, and cried with my face in the ground, I have been turning into a monster…. I have been turning into a LIBRA!!
Three Libra’s, three great curses. Year’s I’ve fought to survive. Many Libra’s have come with curses, and almost none have left. These three Libra’s wander the world, have they found you yet??? The "Libra of Romance" came out of thin air, found her way as the others did. Flirting, teasing, and trying to capture me into her empty heart to forever be her love toy. Now, I stand stronger than I ever have! Because if you haven’t heard yet…… I’m finally free from the first three curses of Libra!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



