My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:

My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….

A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.

SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.

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How do I get ex boyfriend back, parents made him dump me?

So, here’s my story..

Me and my boyfriend (well ex now) were kidding around and texting each other perverted stuff, and his stupid freaking mother decided to check his phone the ONE time I actually said something bad.

She told his dad, and his dad was furious. Now his parents think im a whore and they made him break up with me.

We still talk and stuff, and we’re friends, but that’s not good enough.

Iwant him backk, so what do I do?

I’m not a whore, we havent even done anything except kissing.

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I’m an 18 year old guy. Here’s the story…

During most of my young childhood, I had a wonderful, loving relationship with my mom. But then it seemed, over a fairly short amount of time, that we had grown extremely far apart. My parents had a trouble marriage. At one point my mom cheated on my dad and it got to the point that they were fighting and screaming at each other every night. Then when I was about 13 years old, my mom had a near death experience with a ruptured appendix. She said that God saved her. After that, she became extremely religious and changed in many ways from her old self. For example, she used to tell me there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, but now she says that homosexuals are an abomination. By that time, my mom had quit her job and instead got up every morning and read the bible. She went to a some kind of class, like a life-coach therapeutic class. Then she said that she started to remember things from her childhood, like her dad molesting her as a girl. I’ve talked to my uncles and my grandmother about it and they said that all they remember is that my grandfather did check to see if her "cherry was broken." She then got angry with every single person in her family and cut all ties with them, even though they seemed close. Finally my parents said that they were getting a divorce. But, my mom wanted custody of me and my brother. It was a lengthy, dreadful, and expensive divorce. What pushed me over the edge was when me and my mom got into a horrible fight. We were yelling at each other and she kept getting in my face and screaming at me because I said she was acting crazy. Then she said that maybe it’s me that’s crazy and just snapped and lost all control. I picked up a picture frame and slammed it down on a chair. Then I went into her room and destroyed everything I could find. She called the police, and they arrested me because a tiny shard of glass cut my mom’s leg from the picture frame. I was 15 years old. After that, we just stopped talking. She kept saying it was my fault that I went to jail. She wasn’t completely cold however. She would cry because I wouldn’t call her. But I just couldn’t take the hurt that she brought anymore. My dad got custody of me and all charges of domestic violence was dropped. I made a few attempts to see her, but she would talked about is how wonderful God and Jesus are. Now we don’t talk. I called her on Christmas but she didn’t answer. She lives a mile away from me, and it’s so sad. I don’t cry anymore and I have more or less moved on, but it just kills me because it almost feels like my mother is dead.

I’m sorry I ranted, but this is also just helping me get it off my chest. Do you think I am being a horrible son for not talking to her? What should I do?

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My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ***. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atik7ygIhWdu4Tf6sFFo9yHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090825235446AAVEf7j
I have looked everywhere Ebay everything… I also posted this question in marriage and divorce. I got horrible answers there.. you need to go read what these guys posted.

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ok so my boyfriend and i semi brokeup, i want to go on a break but he says he doesnt know,
we talk about everything to eachother, we are literaly best friends but this year was his first year in college and its been really hard for him, i know hes never cheated and he never would , (his mom and dad cheated on eachother and he hates the entire concept)
so thats not an issue, but hes having a really hard time at school with all his new friends (who are assholes) and trying to balance school, work, his friends, and me.
i told him i understand and i think we need a break to settle everything and we both still love eachother so i think it will work out.
is there anything i can do to really show him that i care about him, dont want to loose him, but understand how important and hard all of this is to him?

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Does anyone have any good advice on how to get your ex back?

I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried that and what are some ideas?

I want him back..he moved so far away to take a job with his dad but we stayed together but he called and broke up with me over a month ago..I am 8 months pregnant..I am concentrating on my lil baby boy but I can’t but want him back also.

He thinks I am dating someone and is calling more often but today we decided not to talk on the phone for awhile while we clear our heads. What steps do I take for him to realize what he is giving up?

We are young 22 & 23..been together for 7 years. His dad walked out on him when he was a baby and my father did the same to me. I can’t help but feel like the same old patterns are repeating themselves. He has no family here but me and his son.

He says he won’t move back here and that if we EVER get back together I would have to move there, which I would. Ideas?

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Well…I had a bad week last weekend regarding my SBTX hubby bcuz I guess I saw him and I got very emotional. Its been over a year and the pain has eased up, but yet I struggle sometimes. Well I was talking to my dad and I was telling him about my SBTX sexual behavior. About how ever since he’s been back from Iraq he hasn’t been the same. For instance, I told him how I find him on Adult Friend Finder with a pic of his "tool" and how he was emailing girls asking for 1 on 1 sex. And how he talked to some and had them calling my house for weeks. Only someone in their right minds wouldn’t stoop so low. He told me that he is suffering from a sex addiction. At first I thought he was nuts, but you know how sometimes your life flashes before your eyes, like all the signs quickly come into play. All the signs were there but I didn’t see it. I thought my husband hated me but he doesn’t. For instance, he would say that I deserve someone better than him, he left me by saying he wanted a divorce over the phone, the fact that his family doesn’t know him, I thought I did but I don’t. He said that he fell out of love with me, but I figure the reason why is because he is deeply lost and broken and maybe he is using sex as a way to feel better. Maybe the sex addiction is confusing him for his love for me. It stills hurts back its disgusting. I never thought he would have a sex addiction, but something is seriously wrong with him and after the humiliated, the pain, and the hurt, I deeply concerned for him. All I can do is pray for this pain, and forgive, even though he has hurt me. He needs help and he doesn’t look like himself. I know he has slept around, but there’s no telling with how many women. I know he did me wrong, he feels like I deserved. Its like he wants nothing to do with me, but my father says he moved away from everyone because he is ashamed of what he is doing and he loves me that is why he left so he wouldn’t hurt me anymore. What do I do? Im still deeply in love with him, but I have to live my life, Its like he’s pushing me away and he wants this divorce so he can pretty much sleep around. People keep saying once he wakes up and tries to get back with me, its going to be too late. What do I do? Should I even care? The way that he looked at me the other weekend, he looked at me like I was so beautiful, but he got mad bcuz I introduced him as my ex and when I said this my father in law, he said well if you’re going to be like that, then he is your ex father in law. Comments like that. I still care, what do I do?

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My baby was hospitalized for a period of time. At the hospital they supply you with toys etc for your baby. My baby fell in love with a toy that they have stopped making Not for any other reason than they don’t make it anymore. I have looked everywhere. I was going to get one off Craigslist but it was out of state and I was warned by many that was dangerous. Well, I happened to find one brand new, still in the box, never opened 20 minutes from my ex’s house. He lives in a different state. I called him up and asked if he would do this favor and then have him ship it to me and I would reimburse him… He is being an ass. He said tell them you will pay extra for them to ship it. Well no one wants to ship it to me and with good reason. There is no guarantee I am going to get the product and she her money, even though I would send it. He could make this so easy and he is being a d!ck. I found one, the same EXACT one on Amazon for 0. I cannot afford that. He told me I need to buy her that one. I told her if I got child support I might be able to afford it – he does not pay child support – which is not the issue, I just want his help. Am I being unreasonable. He is supposed to call me back tonight when he gets home. What should I say? How should I approach this to get him to do this for me? MY daughter loved this toy and he just laughed that I would go through so much to get it. I know some may not agree but it’s only plus what I will owe her dad in shipping and gas! Please advice. I just want his help! Thanks!

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It all started when me and my cousin were working in a town far from where my ex lived. I was texting her on my cell phone and everything was cool, then my cousin showed up. He is skinnier than me, has colored eyes, and has no acne. What girl can’t resist that?

He then asked me for her number, i told him no. Then he said he would give me his Ex’s number, so i said yes.
The moment i pressed talk, it wasnt a girl. It was his Dad (my uncle).

I then decided to take a nap, scince i was tired. I thought no real harm was done. Boy i was wrong. I texed my Ex, only to find out she wasnt intrested in talking, or so she said. My cousin was getting messages almost 1 every second. I looked at his phone, and found out it was all her.

I then found out he sent her a picture of his abs and his colored eyes
(im a fukin idiot). She then lost intrest in me and stopped talking to me and she eventually asked him out. He said yes…

When i finnally thought things were gonna be alright and i would be with her again, he steals her from me. He could of had any girl because of how he looks, but he had to steal my Ex.

What should i do? Im not as attractive as him. No girl would like me except for her. please help me
uhh Cali
Im 14
i cant be on dating sites for another 4 years

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So I know I have mentioned on here before that my dad’s best friend’s wife recently starting poking me, touching my thigh under the table (but i always thought it was because of pure coincidence or playful gesture having to do with jokes or funny incidents) but today when I am over it escalated more to her lightly tapping me on the butt two times when she passed me by…i gave her, "the stare" and she started feeling uneasy right away and mumbled something along the lines of, "why aren’t you eating anything?".Could a woman just be joking when she taps a 22 year old boy on the butt or does that mean she wants something. I told my dad and he said, "who knows…." is he in denial or whats going on? I am serious with these questions…could this STILL be innocent?
ps…please mention your age so i know who’s responding to me and how serious and relevant the responses are

the weirdest thing is that she’s never super nice to me when everyone is cautious (they are ALWAYS around when she pulls these things on me though)…when we happen to be alone…she tries to ignore me..When I was sitting in the bar section of his kitchen and she came up to me and said, "always sitting in the wrong place" and trying to push me off by putting pressure on my leg with her leg (it was hot). However, in front of my parents she tries to make the "games" seem harmless like pulling my hat down or something

the worst part about this is that it’s kind of turning me on and I wait until she makes the next move…but on the other hand i don’t like it and it’s wrong..and I don’t know what to do. When nobody was around I was calling their family dog’s name (mini dog) to come to me while the dog was on her lap and she wouldn’t come. So I came over and said, "come here" again to the dog and she (the wife) grabbed me by my zipper and started pulling me gently towards her…i then said, "stop you’re unzipping me jokingly) and tried picking the dog up from her lap slowly (it was close to her crotch) and I sat on the arm of the sofa chair and started asking questions about work…etc.

i wouldn’t sleep with her though AND THAT’S A FACT….i just enjoy the game…but on the other hand i don’t. It’s driving me crazy

btw…her husband is GORGEOUS! thin, big lips, beautiful skin…very sexy…Im good looking too..Im just staying that she loves him a lot.
In memory of Girly Man and Manly Girl

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i really need to know how heir can grow fast.
my dad made the barber give me a crew cut!!!!!!!! i don’t know what the fuck is up with him!!! my heir was JUST starting to get long!!! it was druping just a little bit over my eyes. really, this ain’t cool. i’m in a band and nobody has such a shave!!! now i can’t swing my heir even a little bit!!!
HELP!!!!

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For our wedding my FH & I must give both of our families 9 months to 1 year notice to book travel and save money ETC… Also we live in the MD/DC area where if you do not book at least a year in advance you will not have a day
My FH sister is getting married in West Africa in August of 2009 since my FH & I have to take time from work in August we decided to make our wedding date in October. My FH dad has since informed me that his son should have known due to health reasons and the temperature in this region, (he is coming from West Africa) he can not travel to America in October he wants us to push the wedding until April.
Also if he were coming in April he could stay for 5 months and visit family etc… The trip is costly so he wants to make it worth while. I really want to get married and live with my husband. Having a civil marriage and a wedding ceremony later on is not an option. I feel the wedding is not about me but the joining of two families so I want our parents there. The hall said we have until Thursday to change the contract and is holding both dates. So would you do October 2009 without his folks or April 2010 with his folks? MY FH and I are posting this to see what outsiders think.

a civil cermony with a renewal of vows is not an option

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my babys dad is 23, im 25, we have a one year old.
we are always on and off
i love him, but he cant get it together,
he always comes back though,
and im tired of it cause its like he knows ill take him back. he knows he can run the streets yet still come back, i tell him i dont want to be with anyone else
i want him
but i want him to get it together,
as of teh moment no we arent together,
but i do want him here with us,
i want him to be a part of her life, i dont want her to see him coming and going.
i dont know what to do!
so, how frequently do you allow your man to come back just because you want to be a family? how long did you put up with it? did he ever fix his act?

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i met this guy the day after i found out i was preg. with my 4th child and we hit it off then he loses his job as a truck driver and over time i decided i would get back with my babies dad because the truck driver lived in another state and i didnt think we would be back together because of a long distant relationship but i made a mistake by getting back with my babies dad and he is no out of the picture and the truck driver and i remained friends and still have dealings like we are in a relationship and i do love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him and he loves me and my kids i want to know how can i get this man back in my life the wqay i want him its like when he’s here i’m complete and when he is not here a part of me is missing please someone help me find an answer on how i can get my one and only true love back all the way

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I have been a singal dad for 3 years now and I am all about my kids but its time for daddy to get a little and I am on my own no family will help out and I all ready pay way to much for daycare so all the money I get goes to live and I have no money for dates. I cant wait untill they are old enough to watch them selves i will be in my mid thirtys.

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oke so my mum and dad are arguing alot mainly dad being a newb oke down to buisness me and mum have both noticed when we go into a room where hes on 1 of his 2 computers he minimizes the page or closes it then loggs off.we dont know his password to any of his 2 computers and he always deletes his history every time before he loggs off.is there any way we can find what hes going on .mum thinks hes having an affair! i hope not

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I have my kids on my days off but want to change my schedule.

I work nights and if I change the days of the week and it means where I have to go in to work one afternoon that I have them and I don’t get off work until the next day in the a.m., will I have to give up that day to my ex? This day backs right up to his parenting time, so he could fill in and take the kids, without it being a jumping back and forth kind of thing, but this is on my parenting time.

Can i have my cousin watch my kids that day from when they get out of school, and he (my cousin) can also be there and put them to bed since I won’t get home until the next day off work?

Is that my parenting time to do with what I please (have my cousin watch them) even if I won’t ever be with the kids on that day Or should/would dad get that time?

Can I just not tell my ex about the change?

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My husband lost his second job in 6 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant. We have 3 other kids. All he will do is sleep. My dad offered him a small job and he went to bed. A friend offered him a small job and he went to bed. Right now he is sleeping of the couch while our kids are fighting. He won’t help me at all. I am so sick of this. I get so mad that last night I locked him out of our room. He tried to call me at 4:00 in the morning to let him in. Would you try to work it out or call it quits?

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2 weeks before my wedding my husband told me he didn’t want to marry me (had to go through with it cause of the $$ and people involved). I have went through emotional abuse, drinking, physical violence, controlling issues, and sexual issues with this man. There was absolutely nothing right in our relationship. I finally decided I wanted a divorce and I walked out. Had finally gotten enough self esteem that I didn’t need him and that I could make it on my own. I have a good job and can financially support myself. For temporary – I went to my parents house to live and my dad has cirrohsis…and after all he has been through I came home to him and my mom fighting because he was drinking again. I moved out young because of this problem and I ran from it again because I didn’t want to be there so I went back to my husband. I don’t love my husband at all. But he promised that he would start taking meds and change the way he treated me. Things have changed a little but I still have so much hatred built up for him for the things he has done to me. I met a guy on a work trip back a few months ago and we talk every now and then. We both really like each other but he lives pretty far from me. I get butterflies when I think about talkin to him. I fell out of love with my husband so long ago because he never treated me like he cared one bit and now I feel so stupid for sittin around and letting it happen. I want my life back! I am 25 yrs old and a really good person. I just want to be happy. My husband is trying to manipulate me into staying and saying I can fall back into love with him. I have been goin to therapy to try to get all this figured out but personal experience or opinions would be appreciated.

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My man and I had promised each other before moving to our new location that what happened in our old location stays in our old location. I have made conscious efforts not to mention exes or previous boyfriends. He was married once before, and I understand that they still have business-type loose ends (like a car that she has that he is paying for even after the divorce because she refuses to). However, he still keeps bringing her up and I am sick of hearing about her. For instance, I have been trying to find a job (I was laid off prior to our moving) and he decided to mention how his ex would quit her job in the morning and find another one by nightfall (let’s bear in mind that these were retail and restaurant jobs where the employers never thought to check and see if she was a job hopper. I am not past working those types of jobs, but I have been interviewing for jobs with better benefits and pay so that I can pay my own way and not sponge off him like she did). Of course, that ticked me off.
Then, he and his dad got into an argument because when he married his ex, his family never came to the wedding. Mind you, this argument occurred six months after the divorce was final, and occurred right in front of me, which I found rude. There have been other instances where he would mention what a good cook she was and a few other things. I am certain he is not wanting to go back to her (of course, I know it is not impossible, I am not stupid). The woman stole his money, furniture, and car, plus left him for another man while he was out to sea, and has other issues as well. I am glad he has some fond memories of her, despite all this, but I am really sick of hearing about it. I had a rather tempestuous relationship with my ex, and truthfully find it hard to remember the good times, but have decided to let it go, not only in accordance with the agreement with my man but also because I want to move on and make new memories in my new life. It is hard to do that when his ex is constantly being brought up. He doesn’t understand why I am so angry but has made an effort to stop talking about her. I don’t mind that he has happy memories of her, but am I wrong to not want to hear about them anymore?

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i have a 3 almost 4 year old nephew who i feel is sexual towards me. i know this sounds crazy, but he will purposly pretend to fall or grab something just to touch my breast. he will touch the lower part of my back (forever, if it were up to him) (if i let him, but i dont b/c it freaks me out). when i say he touches my back, i mean, he will come over when im sitting or standing and start put his hand on my back and if i tell him to stop he gets mad and i have to force him to stop. he tried to pull down my pants when i was getting up once and looked at my butt. it really freaks me out and makes me uncomfortable. i try to make him stop and tell him not to do it (and he knows it’s bad), but he wont stop. he used to do a humping motion when he touched my back, but he seems to have stopped. how do i handle this? his mom doesnt think it’s sexual and i do, especially with the breasts. when he starts touching he always wants a kiss or hug. i feel weird giving him either. what do you think??
i think he saw his dad having sex (my sister is divorced to his father) because his dad is a pervert when it comes to women. trust me, im not imagining this! even my husband has noticed and he only does this to me! every single day he does this. it’s been going on since he was around 2.
oh yeah, also, when he touches my back he tries to touch my stomach and eventually he will go towards the breasts and he tries to pull my shirt up. i have to struggle with him to get him to stop.

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I’ve been through alot with my husband this is the first time i’ve been married.But his exwife likes to control him still like they are married still and we’ve been to court i forgot how many times.We now have a 2 year old together.I really do thank that he still has feelings for her not becuase of the kids but for each other.They got married when they where young and started haveing kid 2 boys. I love the boys with all my heart.But one day i was talking with his youngest and he said that his mother which is my husbands ex-wife.Said that her and her husband of 7 years was going to spilt up.Then after 3 mins told me that his mother never would get back with there daddy which is my husband.When i was telling my husband this he told me that he wouldn’t take her back becuase she’s on drugs and he would make her stop and she wouldn’t stop,and would’nt take are son around her.I told him that it seemed to me he would take her back and he told me i was reading into it to much….What does that mean to you i i’m so confused.And then she called lasnight on his cell but waited untill her husband left for work and the kids where in bed i know it had to do with the kids but she was all talking nice and he didn’t want me to say something to make her mad that’s what he told me.
For the poeple tha judge they really don’t know what i’ve been through at all ok..I’ve put up with his crap for 3 years he has lied and we have a kid together.He has cheated in the past and they do have a history together i can deal with that but that ex wife always tryed to get us split up…

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Here we go… the basics about me: I’m 22, My parents were divorced when I was 10 (my moms fault, my dad wasn’t enough for her, she wanted more excitement in her life) and my mom married a white trash, violent abusive drug addict. I lived with them for 4 years where I watched him physically abuse my mom, verbally and emotionally abuse her and listened to him rape her. (IE, listen to her screaming no and crying and him telling her that she had no choice.) I was afraid to leave her and my new little brothers (they sometimes disappeared for a couple days at a time and I was worried about my family.) I’ve been diagnosed bipolar (unmedicated now because the meds just made it worse), anxiety issues, have had suicidal issues and extremely low self esteem.

Let me say up front that I KNOW that none of that excuses what I have done and the pain that I’m about to cause others. I just wanted to give some background… I’m not looking to excuse myself, I just want the full picture here. So, please if you feel the need get it out of the way to tell me what you think of me, I’m completely positive you couldn’t think worse of me than I think of myself.

I liked a guy at work and when I found out he was married I was disappointed, as I thought he was attractive and funny. He is older, he is 41. I started hanging out with him and a few of his friends (we work night shift and we would go out of a few beers in the morning) and eventually it led to him and I getting together. That was 8 months ago and since then we have spent some of nearly every day together and I love him. And he loves me. I never meant to end up in a situation like this, and I admit I didn’t truly understand the extent of what I was doing.

He says he never thought he would feel like this again, and that even if he wanted to he doesn’t think it would be possible for him to stop seeing me. He has 2 grown kids, 20 and 18. I have no idea how he spends so much time with me and to be honest I never wanted to know.

He is starting to talk now about how somebody is going to get hurt no matter what, that either I will get hurt or (he trails off here, he has never once mentioned his wife) and that no matter what he is going to end up hurt. I started to realize, however, the true extent of what would happen. If he leaves her… He already has kids and doesn’t want more, someday I will. Even if he truly left her I’m not ready to commit forever and I’d feel like I had to because he gave up everything for me.

This is going to sound stupid but he is very controlling and possessive, which I don’t mind when we are together but I don’t want to spend my entire life being told what I can and can’t do, and I want to travel and do what I feel like doing. … I’m not ready to settle down. This should make it seem like the easiest situation possible to work out but I love him. I feel sick at the thought of never seeing him again, when he holds me I feel like I’ve never felt before.

I know people will say he is a daddy figure – but I’m not actually lacking that because I have a very good relationship with my father (who I moved in with when my house with my mom got to much). I have never been able to spend more than a day or two with someone without getting irritated with him and I have spent a weekend with him and I wanted more. I don’t want to be selfish but I can’t stop because I want him, I want to spend my life with him…

Without him… I have moved on so much in my life since he has been helping me, I’ve been terrified to enter the world because I was so afraid that people everywhere would hurt me. He helped me get my place, helps me stand up for myself. He has helped me to get the promotion at work that I was scared to do. I think of life without him and I start to have suicidal thoughts.

I hate myself for what I’m doing, for the people I’m hurting and for not being able to end it. I hate to think of my life without him. I realize the mess I’ve made of everything, and I can’t stop thinking the only thing to do is end it with him so he can salvage his family and kill myself to stop everything from hurting.

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My girlfriend recently broke up with me and to put it simply, it was crushing. However, it wasn’t a violent break up, she just said that she needed some time to get things together so she could be a better girlfriend to me and she told me that she loved me and wanted so much to be together, but needed to get her grades back on track. I was kind of angry at first but accepted it, but later on, she found out that before I had lied about a couple things. My dad hits me sometimes (please don’t go into this) and it is considered abuse. However, my family also isn’t very wealthy. My girlfriend’s family is. I played basketball for my school team and my girlfriend bought me a pair of shoes for around 120$, my parents never even considered buying those for. Alas, however, being a 13 year old boy, I lost these shoes and was desperate to find them. I lost sleep over looking for them not because I wanted shoes, but because I was afraid my girlfriend would crucify me. This was when everything was better. I was so desperate to find the shoes that I lied to myself and told myself I had found them, when actually they were someone else’s. They didn’t even look alike, but my mind was so twisted over the fact that I lost such a great gift that I allowed myself to lie to myself and everyone else.

Anyways, I had the shoes for about a month (trust me, I got in so much trouble you won’t believe it. I feel so guilty it’s incredible, so please don’t make fun of me/call me bad), and it came back to haunt me. Ultimately, the day after my girlfriend broke up with me just for that little break, the principal found out they were not mine and suspended me.

So, a couple days later, I used the computer and mailed my ex about what had happened (we were basically still together, just not officially. She just needed a little less pressure and still loved me but needed a tiny break). She BLEW UP! She accused me of being a liar and that she hated me. She said she hoped I was expelled and she never wanted to see me again.

At 13, I love a girl. Incredible, huh? I cried and cried, begged and pleaded with her and myself, but to no avail. Eventually, her parents wouldn’t let her talk to me and I’m coming back to school Tuesday. She accused me of three things, one of them being valid, but the other two being things that actually happened.

1. I took the shoes and lied to everyone, saying they were mine (true, I did steal and lie).
2. My dad never, ever abused me (false, my dad has been hitting me for as long as I can remember).
3. A lot of other things as a result of these things.

I am not a liar. I messed up big time, really, I openly admit it. But all these other things, I never lied about. However, my girlfriend is convinced that I did and said she doesn’t love me. She told me before that she’d stay by my side through anything. My girlfriend (her name is Morgan) never treated me so well. She lied to me sometimes, not too much, and would flirt with other guys occasionally. The lies I could handle but the flirting, I hated. I put these aside, however, and saw the beautiful things that made me love her. Therefore, I stayed with her. Everyone kept saying how good of a boyfriend I was and how bad of a girlfriend she was. But for some reason, I couldn’t help loving her! I loved her and still love her so much and will do anything to prove to her at the very least that I am not a liar.

I love her a lot and this is serious… I really want her back. She changed my whole life… I was extremely sad before I met her, and she turned me around and guided me to the right place. I was so focused eventually on the bad things she did that I forgot all the great things she did. Now, she says she doesn’t love me and thinks I am a liar. I’m very truthful actually, I just messed up big time.

Help?
I am not a liar! Please read it. I lied once and it was a big lie, but it was out of desperation and fear. There is no excuse, but please understand that I am not a liar and I lie once in a blue moon.

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Me and my boyfriend broke up on monday because of a huge misunderstanding!

I told my friend the day before that i text message one of my friends and I told her that I had a bad dream, and when she asked me what the dream was about I told her that it was about my boyfriend cheating on me. so she went and told my boyfriend that i said that he WAS cheating on me…so he got mad that I suspected him.

and then last friday me and my boyfriend were supposed to go to a movie, well he had to work so we didn’t go see the movie that I wanted…I was ok with it, but my dad wasn’t, he got mad and i started to cry…my boyfriend thought I was mad at him. so that made him mad too.

how do i make him see it was a mistake? how can I get him back
well we’ve been dating for a little over a year.

He doesn’t even want to accept my calls, should I give him a little space?

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