Ive heard if you truly love someone you would do anything to get them back but what about when pride is involved and self dignity? If you were in love with someone still what kind of things would block you from pursuing them when you really want to?
ex: they have a new bf/gf, your afraid of rejection, you think theyve moved on?
I just need someone out there to help me I feel so horrible and sad. I want him back, I really need him.
My ex and I broke up a little while ago: for good. He told me he didn’t give a shit about me anymore and called me a bitch, and told me to stay out of his life. He just got a new girlfriend whom everyone hates, and who had sex with her own brother.
Nonetheless, I feel horrible. I need him and we’ve gone out for so long, it’s so hard letting him go and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. I need him and I just can’t take this.
We had an amazing relationship and he told me he loved me enough to marry me, and would do anything for me and wanted me happy. I tried everything to make him change his mind about not liking me that I even lost my dignity and begged for him back.
Of course, he didn’t give in and told me to let go. At school I’ve help my head high, smiled and laughed but I can’t hold it in much longer.
I know I sound so pathetic but it’s true, I loved him and I don’t think I’ll ever stop. I feel so alone and like I’ll never be happy again, as crazy as it sounds. I’ve gone through a similar heart break but it took over a year to get through it, though it’s like it left a scratch on my heart.
This relationship helped me move on, and I don’t know if I can take another heart blow. I’ve felt stronger about him than I’ve felt about anyone.
I just needed to let out my story for everyone to hear, and to hear some encouraging words or something. Thank you…and if you’ve gone through something similar I’d love to hear your story.
Anything helps,
xoxox Olivia
My husband’s ex called him out of the blue 6 months ago- she’s going through a nasty divorce. They have been divorced 20 years!!! We have been married 5.
They have one grown daughter, I have one teenage son who lives with us.
My husband divorced her because she cheated on him many times, and when he finally found out she threw him out of his own house-told police he was abusive (lie) and got a restraining order so she wouldn’t have to leave the home.
We had a happy marriage or so I thought. I loved him, was good wife, kept nice house and romance whenever he wanted because I love it too!
Long story short, found out he is leaving me to go back to her! They have been in touch by emails and texts. The house we live in was mine before marriage. I have been unemployed but looking for 2 years. I have no money of my own. I am devastated. When he leaves I will lose everything and have to file bankruptcy-I have spoken to lawyer. I have no choice. No money to pay anything.
At age 48 I will be living with my son at my parent’s house until I get work. I slaved for years to keep that house as a single mom. Now gone.
What would posess a man to go back to someone who did that to him? The first text I saw she said she would never hurt him again-thanks for the second chance! He never even told me he was unhappy in marriage! I ask and get no answers, no explanations. Nice guy. I told him if he was unhappy he should have come to me first to at least try!
The only thing I can logically think of is that she makes good money and he is tired of scrimping without my pay.
He always hated his father because he walked out when he was a baby and he is doing the same to me. In all honesty, why would he want that tramp that dumped him? She left him for a married man!
He will come to her rescue but leave me with nothing? Anyone ever been through this? I am a good, loving woman. I will not take him back-I have dignity, but part of me wants him to realize someday what a selfish jerk he was to do that to me. My son is crushed.
I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break
he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way
they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful
he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them.
he was very hurt when i asked for a break.
since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex)
i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already)
he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court.
he also added her onto facebook
no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates)
and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status.
i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama.
finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer.
he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night
i had one bad piece of news to tell him though.
one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS ….
finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago.
turns out she hasn’t paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since.
well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house)
and i was kind of freaked out.
so i tol dmy boyfriend about it.
he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!)
so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son.
he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it.
and thats IT !
i called him and texted him sunday and nothing
The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago.
is he fine ?
yes he has updated his twitter all week
he is on facebook and aim as i type this question.
he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention.
and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook.
on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit)
he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ?
should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
So I’m trying to do it for him, this is what I got for him in 5 min. I’m more of a rock writer, but I tried so don’t laugh…
They say that I’m the target,
And they say I was the favorite,
but this time I’m going to walmart cause,
…well I’m to far from toys’ r us
Everything is cheaper, and well my dignity is a keeper
Target is a bit closer, but I rather be working on a bull dozer…
add something to it :-}
Needs help*
I need some help from drake,
cus for F*** sake,
I sound like a fake,
I honestly rather bake a cake (not really)
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