We were dating in a long distance relationship for 2+ years and engaged for 15 months…There wasn’t any infidelity in the relationship.Communication was great.It was the long distance and time of waiting that we could be with one another that brought the relationship to an end…
I’m in a long distance relationship, and lately, we’ve been having a great deal of difficulties. As of lately, we’ve both hurt each other, and broken each others trust on multiple occasions. We both don’t want to say goodbye, and we really want to save it. Unfortunately, we both seem to have a very difficult time letting things go that bother us about each other. We’ve both broken promises, we’ve both lied to each other, and we both get into arguments over stupid little things, and we snap at each other sometimes too. How can we save it? Please help!
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How can I get back my ex? ?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship (he goes to uni), when we broke up. He thought I didn’t care about his big move, but I cared for him more than anything. He’s back for the holidays, and I saw him yesterday. There was no awkwardness at all between us. He did compliment me and said I looked great. When we hugged he held me quite close, almost like the hugs we used to have but not as passionate. When he left me he said "Its been nice to see you… I’m glad we met up… Its been really nice…" and kept repeating himself. He gave me the same look he gave me before he left for uni when we were together. The one that says "I will miss you". His lips were twitching, his eyes looked hurt and sad. I don’t know, maybe I’m misreading the signs. He also kept his hands firmly in his pockets while we were walking. If our hands did touch, we’d quickly move them away. And when I caught him staring he quickly looked away.
I really want him back, but I don’t know how he feels about that. We’re good friends now, but now I feel like ranting to him about stuff, and I don’t know if I should or not. I just really really want him back. I’ve never been with a guy as amazing as him before.
I don’t want to confront him directly, as if the worst comes to worst I still want to be his friend. He’s an amazing guy and I don’t want to leave him forever. How can I bring back our relationships subtly?
Help please?
And no mean comments, thanks.
For the past year I have been fighting for my ex to get her back. We have had a great three year long distance relationship. When she was out with her friends she sometimes got hurt and caused me to worry, and I called her when she was out with her friends just to make sure that she was okay. Becuase of that I was labeled controlling/posessive by her mother and her friends. It was during that time when we split up, as it was her mothers idea to see other people and get together later on. It was one of her best friends who convinced her to dump me and go out with him. I have given her one month and two weeks of ”space’ by her request. Her mood changes to her own friendly peronsality to down right nasty. After six months, the guy dumps her. I have treated her with respect, honesty and love, and yet she treats me like I have done something worse. She has told me things like ‘be strong, And it’ll work out between us in the end.” Now she says it wont work out.What can I do to get her back
My ex-girlfriend of 3 1/2 years won’t let me talk to her…what should I do?
We got together the summer before senior year of high school. The last year or so has been 5 hour drive long distance relationship. We didn’t ever fight about being apart and we never let that get between us until 4 weeks ago.
You see, normally she would come visit me because she has a car and I pretty much don’t. I would go down and visit her sometimes. I even went so far as to move down there for a few months. Unfortunately, I couldn’t stay cause of finances. Like 2 months ago I went down there and she, being in college and having a job, didn’t really have time for me.
I wasn’t too upset with that cause I understood she was just trying to get her stuff done and I just came down on a bad weekend. So 4 weeks ago her room mates brother was going down and wanted to know if I wanted to go with him (he lives like a half hour away from me). I wanted to, but she had been talking about how much work she had to do this weekend and was stressing out over it.
So I didn’t go down. Well it was going to be a surprise originally, so she didn’t know about it. The weekend came out and I told her what I had done, but said that I was coming down the next weekend if she didn’t have anything to do. She blew up like a bunker buster.
I was really caught off guard and didn’t know what to say. I kept apologizing, but she didn’t seem to care. She said that I should have come see her and broke up with me. Anyway, so jump to present time. I tried giving her space or whatever and we started doing really, really well like three weeks into this mess. We were still saying I love you and talking like we always had.
But then out of no where she decides we’re talking too much and thinks we should stop. I got mad because it made me feel even worse than I already did. Now she won’t talk to me at all really and when she does she just tells me that I really messed up and I should have thought about what I said before I said it (I really wasn’t mean about it). I don;t know what to do.
I can’t go down there anytime soon and she won’t let me talk to her. I sent a long, sweet email, but got no reply. What should I do to get her to at least talk to me again?
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