Soon to be Fiance Broke Up With Me, wants to reconcile, I met another girl, Is it ok to go on date, READ!!?

My girlfriend(soon to be fiance) , who I loved more than life, of 4 years broke up EXTREMELY COLDLY by email with me a month ago, citing that she needs to find herself and that I need to find myself also. In the last week she has done a complete 180 and now calls me 20 times a days saying that she is sorry for what she did, and was felt like she was having a nervous breakdown at the time and wants to get back together.I took the breakup very hard and couldn’t sleep or eat. Last week I was out with my friends and met a beautiful girl at the lounge we were at.We talked for an hour and made a date for tomorrow night. I honestly love my girlfriend more than anything, but does it hurt to go on one harmless date for drinks?



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What would you do if it was your job to break up a fight in a bar?

I’m serious here’s the scenario:
You are sober, but everyone around you is increasingly drunk, and acting immature.
Your job is to dump ashtrays on the hour, sweeping the floor and tend the bar as well as mixing and bouncing. Some guy up on the stage has been singing since midnight. Now it’s 4:30 AM, and his songs are increasingly stupider and more out of tune.
A big (but talented) musician finally takes matters into his own hands, comes up to the bar, buys two double vodkas, which he drinks all at once to embolden himself, then goes up onto the stage and unplugs the first guy, and then tries to set up his own musical set and just take his turn.
A banter ensues, then a fight, onstage for everyone to see, resulting in the first guy kicking the second (the big) guy in the face, even breaking a big hole open on his forehead.
Do you.. 1) fight dirty?
2) perhaps get hurt by getting involved fairly?
3)stand around and do nothing?



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Need relationship help!!!!?

I am with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we are getting very serious. I love him to death and hes really a great guy except he drinks… alot. I am 19 and I am uncomfortable with the fact he goes to bars and drinks all night with his buddies at least once a week. Since most of the bars I cannot go to becuz I’m under 21 I feel really weird about it. I get extremely upset. I’ve been trying to relax and not yell at him but inside i just wanna scream. We’ve fought alot about it and i don’t want to argue anymore but don’t want to leave him. I need help on ways to cope with this cuz my emotions are strong with this


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i want my ex-girlfriend back, but shes seeing her ex (repost, more responses needed)?

sooo me and my ex have been broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, but i can honestly say she was my first love, and ive had plenty of girlfriends. Shes smart, beautiful, she goes to church, she doesnt drink or smoke, shes a virgin still, just like me:) her ex bf became available not long after and they are on the verge of dating again. The reason they are broke up in the first place is because he left her because she wouldnt have sex with him, so he broke up with her for a girl that would(although during the relationship, she told me that this boy was her first love). Now he wants to come back now that she is single, and shes basically letting him back. the weird thing is, this kid recently got expelled from school for dealing, and he does drugs and drinks and hes just not the right girl for her. her parents dont even like him, and didnt allow them to see each other the first time they dated, and i dont see this fact changing after the expulsion lol.

Me and my ex dont talk to much, i try to keep my space from her. Ive been talking to her recently on AIM tho, and she talks about how shes stressed about the fact that this kid is expelled and since her parents dont like him, she cant really see him at all, and when i asked why shes putting herself through this, even after what he did, and she said that "no matter what he did to me, he was my first love and he deserves a second chance". I guess i can see why shes saying that, considering she hurt me really badly and id take her back. I just dont know how to go about this and i guess i need some advise. Im seeing this other girl, and shes really great, but i dont feel the same way as i did for my ex, and i no i want my ex back, and i feel like id have a good chance if this boy wasnt in the picture, but he is and i dont know what to do. Some additional info here, im 18 and shes 16(17 in december), we were really into each other and a great couple, but in the summer when it became hard to see each other because of work, it went downhill. i really do want her back and if not, i hope she gets whats best for her.After all, she was my first love:(

-what should i say when we talk about this on IM?
-should i call her?
-if i see her, how should i act?
-is there any way i can get her back?
-Should i even bother lol?

any advice is greatly appreciated, please be as detailed as possible :)


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What is the best way to save and renew a relationship? How to make it work?

Come on!

Give me some ideas.

I have been with my man for a long time now and things are getting boring… I need ideas on how to make our relationship new again… Its been about 3 years and we always do the same thing. Neither of us drinks or smokes, we don’t go "clubbing" because of all the retards everywhere… We need something fun to do that doesn’t cost any money…

Anything that could save this relationship will be appreciated.

Thanks.


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