I am 19 and my bf is 20, we are both virgins (I know I am, not sure if he is lying). We started having handjobs and he wanted to have sex earlier but I said I won’t coz I am saved for marriage. Now I said I will stop having handjobs, he said its not gonna work out like that. There are things I wanna change in him, and he says I WILL CHANGE and he keeps agreeing with whatever I say, almost, can I believe him or is he saying that to hang me and make me love him more??? He shouldn’t change anyway but he claimes he will. So, 1- I am not sure if he will change coz otherwise it won’t work out!!! 2- he says I am waaay more than sex to him and he wants to marry me, but he is so concerened about handjobs and was concered about sex although now he understands and says he won’t do it until we tie the bond.
Just so you know: I am drop dead gorgeous (what people say), smart, faithful, tender-hearted and my friends say I can find better but ADVICES are APPRECIATED GREATLY!! WHAT SHOULD I DOOO??
He says he IS so turned always he sees me and hits my butt in public!!! Only thing is, he says he will CHANGE and I don’t know whether to believe him or not.
Also, for: "stop being selfish", so its all about handjobs? I give him all my love, all my care, support, I will give him my virginity in future, I am always there for him when he needs me. He also seems cheap, isn’t that selfish for me? And aren’t we supposed to love "each other’s heart/ personality" first, and then think of handjobs and sex during marriage to strengthen our bond?
