I am having an extremely hard time letting go of a long relationship of ups/downs with a cocaine/alcohol abuser. He broke it off with me twice for no reason. (this being the second time) but i was told he had a girlfriend. he was coming off a 3 day bender when this happened.
He has done this before but we ended up back together after a month. He would often get mad or bug me about not being able to drink a lot or refusing drugs when we were together. I tried to convince him he doesnt need these things and has so much going for him. He cant see what he could be and it hurts so bad.. hes being troubled since he was 10yrs old and been through alot of bad things since then. Is their hope he will change or seek help even though now he doesnt want it?
He says its who he is and everyone knows he’ll die doing this. He makes things up and actually beleives them which has caused fights between us before… I know i may need to seek counselling i am a sucsessfull loving girl, and i have a great family/friend group who all hate that i ever got into this relationship. Its been a week and Im happy then sad & hoping for him to call…
I fear that it was me who wasnt good enough, or that he is happy with some other girl, treating her well & showing her love. I did everything to show him i cared for him so much, nothing was ever enough and didnt seem appreciated at all..he tells me he doesnt deserve me he wants me to hate him, he wont be around long ect, then he can tell me im the one whose f*cked up and annoying ect and he’ll stop talking to me.
This time he told me he has a gf and not to wait around or call him, or book us a trip. (we were planning a summer vacation) it was literally so sudden and things were so good with us.
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Hi friends watch, we need more than one board, because my life is a balance on uneven ahunque all the time makes me strong and watch everything from "sideways", 1 years ago 1 / 2 my ex partner left me a consequence of its flia or so I gather all the time awful consequence of moments lived, she know her lifetime (he was my neighbor from her 5 year old) now we are young, until we reached the grooms favorite moment of my life left 2 years (if my best friend was my wife) and the third Reliz together a plan to drink a vat being as beautiful in my soul, she dreamed of marriage and become old together, the house I was working it would look .. Finally, after his decision and stupid arguments (the flia me off because she is very fragile) Whatever happens, the blow anemic me to make crazy stuff like "manochantas" they told me that she bewitched, finally .. my life hit me in the face to the floor, try to get ahead but the friends in common (thousands), or talking about me and I killed her, not 5 months and saw that she was away but over time the junction will 8meses talk, cry, told me that I would make it worse, I pull the drug, not helped me, my life, but that leaves minimal talk I get up, I went back to working order. . for two months a friend told me that the cross and found to have a boyfriend .. what a month, to cry, I went back to drugs, leave me until my friends lifted me
(no friends in common who lived similar situations), but I hate I can not have provided the cross, I know, is working is because she told me endonde
, it is not anything more than comments, or birds flia me my account, I forgot the day, another memory, from this forum before and I dream too much with it but that is another issue, she was very cruel to me but was the only person in the world q I said I love you with heart and wept Ahun love … and always remember some of it escapes me when I advise my friends .. but this does not get more .. And I come into your facebook PORQUE SE PORQUE NO SE QUE ME HARE MAL! I see now as I squeeze the chest and the heart thing! cry .. do not know if the still vague .. I was at this time with girls all the time but I see it … if I’m not mad or that but I did not mass, I cry and nobody listens to me .. his indifference is a dagger .. (Delete your CEL, ME removed MSN ETC ETC) I would do the same for me but I swear but I do have it .. inside me .. (pardon me broke): (
Nothing, this coming Saturday for a party and I know she’s pregnant, I killed almost mori me down, I shall not despair, I feel useless stupid to know that one in 4 months which I think leads regarding what she is given I always quito for it, baby I remember everything .. and stupid as weeping.
They told me many things "out of sight I do not think so," she was already past and you do not understand what I think you get wrong, "I’m not on the floor .. .. this is amazing, is not it .. I feel so normal .. it’s normal to drop your arms to my world I was sobered to reconstructed? blind is normal for me this way?
I am 23 years professional
He has 21 years and is used for private advertising
It is little I can say I appreciate HELP .. thanks
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we were together a year and we broke up two days ago because he needed his space and to get his shit together and we had been fighting and always upsetting eachother and i just dont think he made the right choice and i just want to cry it all away so i dont have to go back to drugs i been sober for 2 mounths.
please help im devasted and dont know what to do and music is my sanctuary.
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My fiance, whom I loved more than anything, dated for 3 years and who I was going to propose to this fall broke up with me in June. She refuses to give me a clear reason why, she said that she has to straighten herself out. I don’t understand what that means, she doesn’t drink, smoke, or do drugs, and comes from a very wealthy NYC family. She told me that there is no other guy in the picture. During the past three months, she has been very evasive. I don’t understand why she is acting like this , we had an amazing relationship and came back from a week vacation in the Bahamas, two days before she broke it off. Yesterday I called to talk to her and she texted me" This is the last communication I am sending you today, I am out with my friends and you are being rude and heavily impeding on my night, HOW DARE YOU" She never acted like this, I don’t know what happened to her. I miss her so much, its like she is a different person.
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Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVICE
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