I want to get my ex back…would it be dumb for me to send him a gift?
Am I dumb, if I send a guy a package gift to get him back.Am I dumb,I want to send him a coach wallet/cologne…Would this make him not respect me…?
no, it would be annoying………
call him up, ask to meet for coffee…….
Michael Griswold On Your First Step To Get Your Ex Back
Christian marriage counseling seminars are becoming very popular amongst a lot of couples, so chances are you have considered attending one together with your spouse. In certain parts of the world you cannot have a church wedding without first attending a marriage seminar. The idea is that by going to one of these courses, the couple get a chance to explore the various issues that they may face during married life. The person leading the seminar will show them how to explore their different responses and how best to communicate with each other.
Do these courses work? That is actually hard to quantify as it is difficult to measure the success rate. If a couple attends a relationship seminar and decides not to get married you don’t keep any statistics on them. If after attending the seminar they go ahead and get married and perhaps divorce in five years time, the statistics are already skewed. Some couples do benefit but some just attend as it is mandatory and they won’t be allowed have their big day in the Church without having a certificate to prove they were there.
The other form of marriage seminar is the one organized for those that are already married. These seminars run all over the country. There are a variety available. For example, you can attend a Christian seminar or one designed for another religion. Some seminars have no religious bias at all. The idea is to give couples an open platform in a neutral setting to discuss issues that may be preventing them from connecting properly. Do these types of courses work? Well yes for some people but it really depends on what type of couple you are and what your problems are. If you are very private and don’t like discussing issues in front of other people you are unlikely to find that this type of event will help you.
You would probably benefit from one to one marriage counseling instead. What can work for everyone is some education into how relationships work and how to fix those that are not working properly. We can all benefit from better communication skills. It is just a pity that it takes a crisis or thoughts of a marriage seminar for us to realize that we need help and soon. Don’t take your relationship for granted. It needs care and attention in order to flourish. But when it does you will be so much happier.
I understand that everything comes to an end or least to a compromise at some point. However, how does one get over an ex-girlfriend when she clearly betrayed you. Lets say, a girlfriend of yours used you, played you as a fool, cheated on you, and then left you for this guy that she cheated on you with you; how do you get over that and come out as the winner of the situation? Do you just not do anything, and let karma take it’s course? Obviously, you go through things that you never experienced or at least anticipated as learning experiences, but how can one get over the feeling of being burnt by someone? Yes, I’ve moved on into a new relationship, got a new job, and upgraded my education, but how can I feel completely whole again?
Now this is a weird scenario:
I dated this guy named Dave for about a year beginning in the Fall of 2008. I was 22 at the height of or relationship and he was 23. We grew close and I fell deeply in love with him. I thought he felt the same cause he would always tell me and his actions proved it. It was during a difficult time in my life and I decided I needed a change of scenery. I decided to try and move from DC to ATL for a while to continue my education and my boyfriend Dave decided he would do the move as well. We made plans and everything was going smooth until the coward disappeared on me 2 weeks before the move!! I couldn’t back out cause a lot of money had already been involved. I ended up in ATL by myself for a year heartbroken and alone!! He didn’t call once or try to explain. I was left to myself. Anyway, I grew and matured over that year and was able to find my way back home. I had gotten close with some of his friends that were there for me during that time and ended up working with some of them when I returned. Then I find out that Dave has a new girlfriend ( who use to be a porn star) and now has another child with her!! This did it for me and I officially moved on. Sincerly..I did not have a rebound stage. I took that time out for me. Then a mutual friend introduced me to this guy named Jason. He had just moved back from being in college for 5 years and we really hit it off and started to date. He went to high school with Dave and considered themselves friends but were not that close. When I was with Dave I never even knew of Jason. So then, through gossip and someone running their mouth about my business, my ex found out that I was dating Jason and got SUPER MAD!!! He called me a homie hopper and every other name under the sun!!! After all that he put me through he had the audacity to question me about my love life that no longer involves him!! And to make matters worse….Jason use to date Dave’s current girlfriend (the ex porn star!!! LOL) before Dave did! Doesn’t that make Dave a hyporcrite??? Why would he care now when he has a new girl, a new family, and he abandoned me in the first place? Is it because I have moved on?? Does he still care or is he just immature? I am now 23 and Dave is 24. What should I do about it if there is anything I can do? I really like Jason a lot and neither of us feel ashamed of our relationship. I need help with this one….
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