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We just had a baby last month and next week will be our one year wedding anniversary. I found these emails in his account:
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Please don’t respond to this because I am married and I don’t want any drama going down because I wrote you but thanks for tha add. If my wife sees that I wrote you there would be major fighting…trust me! You are very beautiful urself, and please stay up with my music and leave comments, and check out the blogs. I’ll be back in Battleboro in July and would love to meet you one day.

and also the two of them have been exchanging emails:

If you don’t write my wife again it’s all good. If u do, I won’t talk to you again. So…what do u want to do?

you will never hear from me again if u write her again. I want to talk to u, but you have to listen to me. do we have a deal? i’m not joking…never again if u write her one more time.

This is another message:

No.

— On Wed, 5/6/09> wrote:

From:
Subject: Re: ………
To: "
Date: Wednesday, May 6, 2009, 10:43 AM

Would you ever leave your wife for me?

— On Wed, 5/6/09, wrote:

From:
Subject: ………
To:
Date: Wednesday, May 6, 2009, 7:12 AM

I blocked you from myspace. I will only write u on here. i can’t stress enough that if u send her another message, i won’t talk to you again. what r u tryin to do.

this is another email:

i just want to let you know…i gonna make you fall in love with me…in every kind of way!

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From:
To:
Sent: Wednesday, May 6, 2009 2:07:52 PM
Subject: !

I’ll chill but i’m not leavin the wife. And if u write her….i’m def not gonna holla at ya anymore. U down with that?

There is a lot more and she even gives him her phone number and she asked first and he told her yes, on myspace she ended up calling a friend of his a cutie and the last email he wrote her was this after she wrote the email about her making him fall inlove with her:

no ur not…especially not calling my friends cutie.

He didn’t stop talking to her because of me he stopped because she wrote his friend and called him cutie.

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How do u get ur ex back if he is downrange?

He broke up w/ me 4 month ago. Still not over him!!

Now I’m wondering if I should give it a try to get him back. But how? He is in the military and at the moment stationed downrange.

I know I could send him an email but somehow I am scared of that. Maybe somebody has a better idea and can provide some helpful thoughts.

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Okay I am being played by my ex- high school boyfriend, who 5 years later, contacts me through email; gets my number then text me asking to chill claims he will call me later but never does!!! Why should I do all the work ? He admitted to missing me and I accepted the invitation. He is 21 years old . What is the best way to handle this situation so it doesn’t go according to his plan!!!! I want everything to backfire.

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My husband takes Ambient (sleeping pill) when he has trouble sleeping. So, last night he falls asleep around 8. I didn’t get to bed in till about 1130 around 2am my husband wants to have sex. The one thing about Ambient the people taking it, do not remember what they say or do. We start having sex and he FALLS asleep. WTF. I wake him up and he tells me be quite im trying to enjoy this. Enjoy What you just fell asleep his reaction is no i didn’t. He starts up again and Falls asleep again.. Finally Im just like get off of me Im going to bed. He then gets into this rant about how I disrespectful towards him. I was like YOU FELL ASLEEP ITS 2AM. I need to go to work in the morning. …Mind you HE IS NOT WORKING THIS WEEK. So, I go to the other bedroom to get some sleep he wakes me up at 530 to tell me that he is pissed at me. I explained to him that it was not fair to me that he woke me up and fell asleep during sex and he tells me he didn’t fall asleep.. I have been sleeping with this man for about 3 years I know when my husband is asleep. Plus this happen the night before we had sex and he didn’t even remember having sex because of this damm Ambient.

So, by the time i get to work I have an email in my email box and a nasty voice mail telling me read the email and how dare i leave the house with out telling him I love him.. WTF.. I haven’t open up the email, because im afraid I’m going to blow up…. What an ass. I have never never denied him sex at 12am-6am in the morning. Im sooooo pisst I cant even type this rant right!

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I broke up with my girlfriend last week because she lied and broke a promise. I told her that I don’t want her talking to ex boyfriend. We have been together for four months until one day he tried to get back in her life. She promise me that she will never talk to him, until I found out in she drove to another sate to see him when she told me that she was going to church. I even caught her in a few other lies. Now, since I left her she has been calling and emailing me trying to get me back. She said that she drove to see him to tell him that we were together and that she loves me. This guy even sent me an email saying that he was sorry and wants us to be together. (Couldn’t that be done over the phone?) I just don’t trust him or her. I don’t know if I should take her back, how can I forgive her or trust her again. I love this girl but worry that she is trying to multiply her way back into my life. So I think its best that I leave her.

My problem is that I now feel like taking her back, but my consciences is saying no. How can I separate myself from her without going back to her?

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ok long story short we were together for over a year then we moved in together…it kindof ruined us…i want to start over but he really wont talk much to me…what do i do? i told him how i felt in a long email. i told him i want to start over and i love him very much…but what should i do now? wait it out and act like his friend? or should i act like im sad so he knows how i feel? tell me how to get him back!!
oh and i moved back home…i used to go visit him when i had time then we moved in together and things went sour but im back home now…i just want to start over

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so last saturday me and my boyfriend went to the movies but ended up getting in a fight after and I got really mad and told him I was through with him which was our break up. Any he sent me a email saying he was through with me as a girlfriend. Cause we had always promised to stay good friends. Which I can manage but don’t want to happen. I know he still loves me cause he told me in the email but he said he will get over me and I don’t want him to cause I still love him and I want to get him back. I just have a bad habbit of always running away when things go bad. Which is what he dosnt wanna tolerate anymore. Any I I want him to get back with me and prove to him I’m not gonna run away anymore. So how do I do this?

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My wife of 4 years, 1 child together, both about 30, has been having an affair…At least twice per month, my wife has says she is going to happy hour with co-workers. However, today, I found on her Face book account that she isn’t going with co-workers, but just ONE male co-worker. Sometimes she will come home at 4AM, other times she calls and says she’s staying with her female co-worker since they’ve all been drinking too much.

If I divorce my wife, my wife will most likely get most of the custody of our child- adultery is not grounds for divorce.

To be honest, I’d rather forgive and act like I don’t even know about it in order to save my marriage. Basically, in her email box, they sneak around. He’s married with 2 children and has made it clear that he isn’t leaving his wife. My wife sent one email back, very flirtatiously written, saying she doesn’t want him, just his sex, and he KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING (typed something like that in caps.
I looked up the divorce laws in my state in the midwest and adultery is not grounds for CHILD CUSTODY- it is for divorce, however.

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by try, i mean an email or a phone call asking her to take me back
she broke up with me

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Me and my ex have been broken up since the 23rd of January.He hasnt spoke to me,called or contacted me.Its as if he has forgotten me completely.I had made a mistake begging for him back,and making myself feel less than i am.That only made me feel worse.You cant force someone to love you.Two days after the breakup i asked him if he still loved me,he said no he didnt,which really hurt,because how can u possibly forget someone soo quickly.I mean we spent 9 full months together doing everything.He was my best friend.He was my first true love,which i heard takes alot of time to get over.I had made some mistakes of my own.I have disrespected him several times,made him feel as if he had to choose between me and his family,distracted him from God.this all happened when i was selfish and too confident in the middle of the relationship.My sister had told me If he really loved you he would have pushed and never gave up on the relationship no matter what.She is now married to a man that she says puts up with everything she says and does,because he loves her.His reasons to why he broke up with me were You never changed,we werent going anywhere,and i feel that God wants me to be single,and focus on him.I respect that,but i mean seriously i do not deserve this hurt,and do not believe it.His ex-girlfriend before me he had visited her in Ohio before we were dating last last christmas.It was a long distance relationship,he had payed 200 dollars plus the christmas gifts.when he arrived she had broke up with him,and had flirted and talked to one of his best friends.He had missed her from what he told me,but that is absolutely ridicolous.5 months into that relationship by phone and email and he still spoke to her,and 9 months with me and no contact whatsoever.im confused.I mean yeah i gave him emotional hurt i didnt see,but i still holded on to him and kept going strong.i had lost my dog and i begged him when he could to pay half of my new one and i would pay half.All i could do was apologize and make him see that i did not want his money or materials soo i returned them back to him.all i wanted was his support and love.from s guys perspective,do u know if he will come back,and is hiding his feelings right now?or should i just move on and let it go?why do you think he discontinued talking to me?Is he thinking bad things about me that he didnt see and telling everyone?It hurts to feel like you are the bad person.

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After 1.5 years, my boyfriend ends it with me. He didn’t give me much attention and he didnt call me often. I was devastated and sent an email telling him how he had made me feel these past few months and I told him that we made a rash decision to end things without thinking things through. After 2 months of not talking, he calls me to talk things over. He wants to meet me on my birthday. I’m not sure if thats a good thing but I told him I dont want my day ruined. I have nothing to say because I have told him what I had to say to him. I want to let him talk and see whats on his mind. My confusion is, If he wants to work on relationship again, how can I make sure he really wants it? He already planned a date for next week. How can I make him prove to me that he wont act like the way he did before without rejecting him? i want to be with him, but I dont want my heart broken again. How can I make him work for this relationship?

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From: miranda
To: eli

nevermind. good night.

From: eli
To: miranda

I am really confused.

From: miranda
To: eli

obviously you are over me. so im done.

From: eli
To: miranda

Why?

From: miranda
To: eli

fine. i will stop emailing you all together.

From: eli
To: miranda

I really wish things could have worked out between us. I was ready to start a family. I know this sounds kind of harsh, but sometimes life doesn’t turn out exactly how you want it to. There are good times and bad times and you have to just find strength to get through the bad times and hope for good times.
From: miranda
To: eli

as of right now i dont have anything to look forward to. i thought that after you get married you have kids and live happily ever after. not so.

From: eli
To: miranda

It is, but you are so young. You have a lot to look forward to.

From: miranda
To: eli

my mom was 22 when she had me and 26 when she had tessa.
the other day i was lisening to a song about life being too short. it really is too short.

From: eli
To: miranda

How old was your mom when she had you and Tessa?

From: miranda
To: eli

ya right. i probably wont even be married in the next 6 years.

From: eli
To: miranda

You will have kids before you are 30 I am sure of it. A few years isn’t gonna make that much difference.

From: miranda
To: eli

i wanted to have kids by the time i was 27. ha if im lucky i will have kids by 35. everything i had ever hoped for has been flushed down the toilet.
the wierd thing about this is whole thing is that the divorce was all her idea. i tried to stop it and she wasn’t having any of it.
and everytime I would talk to her i would start crying and saying i wanted her back and she kept saying that it was too late.

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
48 minutes ago – 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details
46 minutes ago

her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.
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My ex and i split up couple of months ago. And i wanted her back but she is now in a 2-3 months relationship with some guy. some girl was flirting with me on facebook and my ex shot me an email. So i know she read my wall and i know she’s jealous.

Do you think she still loves me or is there enough feelings in her to get her back.
My ex and i were going out for a year.
what should i do if i want her back?
details.

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My exhusband told me in his last email….(didnt ask anything about the kids) that he is going to take legal actions against me just because I have not changed back to my maiden name. First of all, I have decided to keep the last name due to our kids carrying the same name….I feel that if I remarry again, that will be the only way I will change my name…of course. The problem I have here is that I have written emails to him about calling the kids and he chickens out and says that I push the kids to try and want to talk to him on the phone too much and he feels that I should not force them to do this….so if they do not want to talk to him…why should he call? My ex does live in Germany now with his wife and four kids…he hardly has anytime to spend time with his own family, let alone call to talk to our kids here in the states…I can imagain how it is…he is in the military. This I understand but you would think that he can at least spend five min of his time to try and find time to talk to the kids. I may be pushing it too much in this aspect but I do not know much of what is really going on over there. So I have stopped the emails. Heck, I can not even call either because his wife answers the phone. He is not home…or so it seems.

I also have reason to believe that he may be contacting his friends and other family members but not wanting to try and talk to his own kids…so I posted an blog on myspace about that and because of this last blog he got upset and wrote me this email about "taking legal actions" on me so that I can no longer use his families name….I just laughed really because I never have heard anything like it before….so I want to know for certain if this can happen though.

(You see to me…it has always been about the kids in the emails and to him…I don’t even think he really cares to know how his kids are doing…..it is now, that I will see what the kids think of him sometime later down the road..)
I think also, that since he married another woman with my first and middle name…he thinks that I should change it because of that too….his wife even told me once that he actually wanted her to keep her former married name due to me keeping my married name….he lothes me that much, I guess.

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My ex told me he’s getting married after 7 years of our on and off again relationship. I came to the conclusion that he never loved me. 2 years ago he gave me 0 to help me out with my rent. Now, that he is getting married I guess he wants it back. He has been calling me and texting me, not asking for the money but wanting to know how I’m doing. He never once asked for it or left it on the voicemail. (No, I’m not answering the phone or calling him back bc we have already said goodbye and I’m tried of drawing this thing out.) I didn’t know he wanted the money until I went on a trip to the west coast and he sent his friend that lives there that knows my friend I was with to tell me that he wants me to give it to him. He sent a message through someone while I was on vacation. He always knows how to ruin my time. (had always in the past) I am unemployed and can’t afford to pay him back. He is not a broke man and does not need the money. I honestly think he is trying to just get me to call him and if I just send the money it will still not be the end. What should I do? I don’t want it to go towards his wedding expenses. He should let me just have it. He has broken my heart 1000 times in 7 years. What do you think is the best thing to do??? I was gonna write him an email telling him how I feel and ask him if I can keep it. Please ask for more info if you need it in order to offer your advice.

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Neither one of us want to go back. My ex is being really nice to my husband and invites him in when we drop our child off at his house, I know him well enough to know this is to show me what a nice guy he is (he has told me he is in love with me again). His ex wife tries to break us up with court dates claiming things that are lies and other stuff. We both have kids from previous marriages…..so no contact is out of the question. It works on both of us from time to time to know that these people are trying to get with the other. It is really a strange situation and one that I never dreamed that I would be involved in….however can a marriage take all of this interferance….we try to only have contact via email and voice mail with them but there are those times when more communication is required. We try to stick to the topic of the kids…however they always try to worm their ways in. We are being hit from both sides and it causes tention. What to do?
I agree with Takfam about being civil and getting along…however last night when we took our daughter over to his house she took my husband upstairs to show him puppies and he told me in the kitchen if having my husband in the house ment having me in it – then it was worth it…my husband heard him.

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What would you do if your wife called an Ex-boyfriend?
My wife and I are happily married but lately I can tell she has been bored and in a rut with life. She got an email from an ex-boyfriend from 20 years ago through facebook When she was in her early twenties they dated for 5 years. . She told me about the emails but later I found out by reading the emails that she spoke to him on the phone twice also. When I asked her if she called him she denied it but when I told I saw the emails about the phone calls she admitted it and was very sorry. My wife is my best friend and I trust her with my life. This hurts alot but she has promised it will not ever happen again and she will not have any more contact with him. Would you let this go and not bring up the subject again and forgive her- I still feel the need to harp on it and talk more about it but I am not as this is only going to make her get defensive. What would you do????

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
5 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details

5 hours ago
her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.

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I have written an email to him.
1) Can you please let me know this email is perfect or do it need modifications ?
2) Should i send this through phone text message, in this case i will be guaranteed to me, it is delivered.
3) Actually he was also supposed to pay me back my power bill that was in my name only. i called him, he did not picked. finally after some days he picked, when i messaged him you are not picking because of non-payment of power bill. then on phone we had an verbal fight, using the abusive language each other.
4) Also in US he is working on some work visa, could this prove some beneficiary to me in small claim suit case.
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Look dude, it is time to paying me back.
I am attaching this in-person testimony as a evidence(joint lease sign agreement). There was a joint security deposit of 250$. A check no – 3006 was send on April-24, 2009 to
…………………………………………………….
It was me who spend 6-7 hours of cleaning, that is why this amount of security deposit came up. I trusted you; you will give address for both of us for refunding of security deposit. But I was wrong.
Money has already destroyed our friendship. it will be best in your interest to return it timely.
Best of Luck.!
NOTE: this email has a notice period of 10 days. Beyond this time, as per my right and evidence, I will be filing in small claim court.

Best Regards,
Johnny,
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The problem here is, i do not have his address. All i know is 1) email address
2) phone number

These are the options available with me.

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So me and my ex were amazing for 8 months, until he left for uni. Once he got there I got stressed (with him being away), as did he. He felt I didn’t care about him and that we weren’t as emotionally connected as we were once before. He also wished we had deeper, less superficial conversations. All I can say is, he was so different from other guys in the best way possible, and I love him so much, and want him back. Thing is, I was literally begging for him to come back but he wouldn’t give me a second chance, said "I’m so sorry I’ve let you down so badly" and then I told him that I couldn’t forgive him. I was reading up some stuff about getting your ex back online, but I can’t really afford to buy "The Magic of Making Up". So I’ve decided I’m going to send him an email, what do you think? Where can I improve?

"You know what, I think you’re right. Both of us need a some air, so it’s better off if we’re not together right now. I hope that we can at least be friends now, or even when you come back. We haven’t talked properly in a while, and I have loads to tell you, but when you’re free. I hope to be hearing from you soon."

If he accepts this offer, what would my next moves be?

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So me and my ex were amazing for 8 months, until he left for uni. Once he got there I got stressed (with him being away), as did he. He felt I didn’t care about him and that we weren’t as emotionally connected as we were once before. He also wished we had deeper, less superficial conversations. All I can say is, he was so different from other guys in the best way possible, and I love him so much, and want him back. I was reading up some stuff about getting your ex back online, but I can’t really afford to buy "The Magic of Making Up". So I’ve decided I’m going to send him an email, what do you think? Where can I improve?

"You know what, I think you’re right. Both of us need a some air, so it’s better off if we’re not together right now. I hope that we can at least be friends now, or even when you come back. We haven’t talked properly in a while, and I have loads to tell you, but when you’re free. I hope to be hearing from you soon."

If he accepts this offer, what would my next moves be?

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Majic Jack Dangerous Puts Spyware On Computer – The Hidden Truth Behind Majic JackPosted problems with magic jack …. is majic jack hiding something?

read the tos ("terms of service) for magic jack very closely. you might be surprised at what you see there. or not see there. i’ve pointed out issues with magic jack in earler articles on broadband nation (see archives). but this revelation should make you very concerned.

in short … to quote a favorite cartoon character …. "be afwaid, very afwaid".

this is just pointing out the not-so-obvious that is hidden deep within the tos, and other ‘gotcha’s’ that you won’t realize until after you give up your $ and privacy!

first:

here is the contact info for magicjack:

po box 6785
west palm beach, fl 33405

magic jack phone number: 281-404-1551
billing magicjack number: 561-594-2140

caution: it looks like they track the number that calls and places you into a repeating loop if you call back a second time. so if you need to call a second time make sure its from a different number.

second:

in the tos you agree that everything in your computer is fair game for them to know about, all web sites, email, and numbers called are there info.

you agree to have all of your information resold to third parties.

there is no un install for this program. even if you stop using it, it gathers your information.

you are put under high pressure to sign up and pay for 5 years.

there is no published phone number, email address, or mailing address.

all customer support is done via type in the box chat.

there is no written warranty on the box. it breaks, you buy another to maintain your service.

computer must be left on to make or receive calls.

pop up window comes to front of screen anytime there is a call in or out call.

majicjack spyware slows down your computer even when you are not using magicjack

advertising is in the pop up box.

and yes, you do save around 0 a year not using a real voip company.

at what little price people put on the information and security.

so ask yourself, is it really worth it?

wait …. there’s more.

majic jack is owned and run by ymax. they are not a stand alone voip provider.

also …..

"the software for the magicjack does not run directly from the device. it fully installs on the windows system, which also makes the magicjack less attractive for situations where one might want to use it on someone else’s computer (say when visiting family). making this even worse, there was no easy way to uninstall the software from the system, with the program not even showing up in the windows remove program window. update: magicjack confirmed that there is currently no easy way to uninstall the software. the process required to uninstall the software requires multiple windows registry edits and the removal of several folders on the windows system. based on this, i wouldn’t recommend using the magicjack on the systems of friends, family or business associates." — (see magicjack fails to cast a voip spell)

nobody should accept having to leave unwanted software on a personal computer, or any tell-tale trace of the mj program on a public computer, a business workstation, or a borrowed device.

the key concepts here are action and intent. if mj is not actively monitoring computer activity and collecting data about its customers, that’s great. they would be taking no action that anyone could be concerned about.

but consider their intent. their tos spell out their intent — the intent to feed context sensitive advertising, which requires manipulation of information from your brain through their software into their processors. there seems to be little restriction of what info their software can see. (kind of like your home builder installing bugging devices and cameras into your bedroom, just not yet watching the feed.) then there is the ability of mj to modify their software (upgrape, anyone?) at any time, without the common user’s ability to stop it, and that revision could include the spyware coding. while you, the uncommon user, have the ability to see what they are doing, the common user has no idea when the change is made. now let’s consider mj’s intent of not building in an uninstall capability. i am suggesting that this exposes mj’s intent to have their software on your pc whether you’re an active phone customer or not. what would be the intent of having that software on the pc of a former customer? (consider, also, their "convenience" feature of taking the device with you so you can use it on a friend’s pc — thus installing the software on that machine, too!) what information could that software obtain that would be of value to mj? and what could the common user do to stop it?

mj could shut down their phone service tomorrow, and they have a window into 1 million pcs — to feed advertising, log key strokes, and obtain surfing patterns.

by laughing at the tos provisio

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Majic Jack Dangerous Puts Spyware On Computer – The Hidden Truth Behind Majic JackPosted Jan-28-09 19:17:31 PSTreal problems with magic jack …. is majic jack hiding something?

read the tos ("terms of service) for magic jack very closely. you might be surprised at what you see there. or not see there. i’ve pointed out issues with magic jack in earler articles on broadband nation (see archives). but this revelation should make you very concerned.

in short … to quote a favorite cartoon character …. "be afwaid, very afwaid".

this is just pointing out the not-so-obvious that is hidden deep within the tos, and other ‘gotcha’s’ that you won’t realize until after you give up your $ and privacy!

first:

here is the contact info for magicjack:

po box 6785
west palm beach, fl 33405

magic jack phone number: 281-404-1551
billing magicjack number: 561-594-2140

caution: it looks like they track the number that calls and places you into a repeating loop if you call back a second time. so if you need to call a second time make sure its from a different number.

second:

in the tos you agree that everything in your computer is fair game for them to know about, all web sites, email, and numbers called are there info.

you agree to have all of your information resold to third parties.

there is no un install for this program. even if you stop using it, it gathers your information.

you are put under high pressure to sign up and pay for 5 years.

there is no published phone number, email address, or mailing address.

all customer support is done via type in the box chat.

there is no written warranty on the box. it breaks, you buy another to maintain your service.

computer must be left on to make or receive calls.

pop up window comes to front of screen anytime there is a call in or out call.

majicjack spyware slows down your computer even when you are not using magicjack

advertising is in the pop up box.

and yes, you do save around 0 a year not using a real voip company.

at what little price people put on the information and security.

so ask yourself, is it really worth it?

wait …. there’s more.

majic jack is owned and run by ymax. they are not a stand alone voip provider.

also …..

"the software for the magicjack does not run directly from the device. it fully installs on the windows system, which also makes the magicjack less attractive for situations where one might want to use it on someone else’s computer (say when visiting family). making this even worse, there was no easy way to uninstall the software from the system, with the program not even showing up in the windows remove program window. update: magicjack confirmed that there is currently no easy way to uninstall the software. the process required to uninstall the software requires multiple windows registry edits and the removal of several folders on the windows system. based on this, i wouldn’t recommend using the magicjack on the systems of friends, family or business associates." — (see magicjack fails to cast a voip spell)

nobody should accept having to leave unwanted software on a personal computer, or any tell-tale trace of the mj program on a public computer, a business workstation, or a borrowed device.

the key concepts here are action and intent. if mj is not actively monitoring computer activity and collecting data about its customers, that’s great. they would be taking no action that anyone could be concerned about.

but consider their intent. their tos spell out their intent — the intent to feed context sensitive advertising, which requires manipulation of information from your brain through their software into their processors. there seems to be little restriction of what info their software can see. (kind of like your home builder installing bugging devices and cameras into your bedroom, just not yet watching the feed.) then there is the ability of mj to modify their software (upgrape, anyone?) at any time, without the common user’s ability to stop it, and that revision could include the spyware coding. while you, the uncommon user, have the ability to see what they are doing, the common user has no idea when the change is made. now let’s consider mj’s intent of not building in an uninstall capability. i am suggesting that this exposes mj’s intent to have their software on your pc whether you’re an active phone customer or not. what would be the intent of having that software on the pc of a former customer? (consider, also, their "convenience" feature of taking the device with you so you can use it on a friend’s pc — thus installing the software on that machine, too!) what information could that software obtain that would be of value to mj? and what could the common user do to stop it?

mj could shut down their phone service tomorrow, and they have a window into 1 million pcs — to feed advertising, log key strokes, and obtain surfing patterns.

by l

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