Fiance broke up . . . no reason?

I met the love of my life over a year ago. We dated for about 6 months and were engaged for 3. He called me one day and broke up with me. He has not given me any real reason. He said that he was uncomfortable with the way we handeled certain decisions. We were trying to do a lot of things at one time, buy a house, plan a wedding, fix a house.

From what he told me, it’s been things that my mother had done and nothing that he came out and told me I did wrong. I am still very willing to be with him, but I have not heard from him. I wanted to give him time and space to think about things, but I’m afraid that he is going to forget all about me. A week before he broke up with me, he told me that he has had the best 9 months of his life and would not trade them for anything.

Is there still a chance for us, and how do I get this heartache to finally go away?

My head tells me that it is over and I need to move on, but my heart tells me that he is the one.
I have tried to talk to him a few times. He has never been one to talk about things or show much emotion. Everytime that I have talked to him, he has called me by the pet name he always did. To me, that meant he still cared and had feelings.

It’s been a few months since the break up, but my heart don’t let me move on. I’ve tried everything to forget him and listen to my head, but he made my life make sense.

I just don’t know what to do.


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Turning cold after a break up?

My partner and I just broke up. We’ve lived together for a year and a half. Breaking up has been tough esp on me emotionally. She shows no emotion at all. We still live in the same place and stay in the same room but we will part ways next week as I have to go back to my home country.

The stage I am in right now is that I am still struggling to keep it together. Well, she, I’m not sure because I can’t tell what she’s feeling or if she’s feeling anything at all. She’s gotten hard deep inside from what I can tell.

After we part ways, what are the most common emotions felt? It’s difficult now that we still see each other everyday. I also notice that there’s anger inside of her because sometimes she just snaps at me for the littlest things.

Is anger a way of coping? I don’t know how I’ll be feeling after we part ways. They say there are various stages of breaking up. She does not want to talk about the relationship anymore. She’s just turned cold.



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I need like post-break up advice. When you break up with someone, your not supposed to text them after right?

It’s not even for me, I’m just so out of my element that I don’t even know how to respond to this.

So, my friend just broke up with her boyfriend (of 4 months) last night for a number of good, legitimate reasons (he took advantage of her, made plans on his own time, didn’t take her into consideration, didn’t love her like she loved him, didn’t take things seriously, wasn’t able to communicate like a grown up, et…) It wasn’t just a rash decision, she seriously thought about everything (the above) and came to the conclusion that it’s just not going to work out.

So she called him last night (yeah I know thats kinda crappy, but they live 3 hours apart and she had tried at least 4 times for them to meet up, but he was never able to make it happen). So when she called to break up, she thought it was going to be the same, him acting like a child and such but he was actually really understanding about it, telling her shes such a good person and deserves better and such. Then after they hung up, later he texted her saying something along the same lines.

So, needless to say she called me after crying about how much she loves him. And yes, I get it of course she loves him and I know like he loved her (though he did a crap job showing it) I just don’t know what to tell her because really, breaking up with him was the right move.

She’s my best friend and I love her, I’d really like to be there for her but I live like 3 hours away too. So all I can do is repeat ‘It’s ok’ over he phone as she cries. I just don’t know what to say, I’m not really good at these things as I don’t like crying in front of people, showing that kind of emotion. But I’m fine if my friends want to come to me, I’m just a better listener than advice giver, but I do care.

What do I do?

Oh, almost missed the whole point I came on here. Yes, so she called and woke me up this morning crying still cause he texted her again telling her what an amazing soul she has and how no one will be good enough for her and she deserves so much better and that his heart is breaking, so on.

I mean, they JUST broke up. Why would you text them back???

Advice, please!


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Flashbacks?? is this what a flash back is? I was raped by my now ex boyfriend?

I had what i think is a flash back this morning. I saw it clearly and the emotion was overwhelming. But it wasn’t of the rape it was from a time we went away together without our kids and we were happy. Is that normal? And the thing is i don’t hate him is that normal also? i am suffering severely from what happened and i dont want him back but i feel sorry that he is facing so much jail time> i feel sad for him because he is so messed up? Should i feel like that? How can i get through this its so hard


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How do I get an Ex Boyfriend Back?

Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" :) . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?


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