My ex husband has to have surgery next week that I found out about yesterday! Why did he list me as closet to kin? I called his doctor and told him that I want ot be removed and he said its the patients request and they can’t remove me only he can.
Why would he even do that? If something happens to him I’ll just tell them not to resuscitate. Does he not get that I am through with him? Why do I keep getting harassed?
Ms. , I don’t feel bad for him not one bit. The physical and emotional abuse he put me through….you wouldn’t belive. I think all that he has done to me is comming back on him.
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My boyfriend has suffered some severe emotional abuse from me, at first things were great but then after about a year of us being together I started having extreme mental health and emotional issues like rage and depression and I’m so messed up on the inside, and because of me my guy has be drug down low. (I’m not making an excuse, I’m just explaining how I am). There have been some messed up things that have happened in the past. Things aren’t even half as bad right now as they were like a year ago, and I know he’s an adult and he chose to stay but I but now he is so messed up because of me and I just never owned up to getting myself to change until these past couple of months. I don’t deserve him, I hurt him so much. I just want to know if it’s possible to save a relationship after so much damage, because we both love eachother very much, he’s so messed up about it beacuse he wants to be with me but not how it is while I’m in this messed up state hurting him all the time
We aren’t together right now, we have been not really together for a while now but it’s been a back and forth kind of thing and because both of us now are emotionally unstable it seems there’s always some kind of a fight, whether because of my insecurity. We know we shouldn’t be together now and we aren’t but is it possible to even save after having experienced such things.
the time during this has happened he stayed with me because it wasn’t like me because it was like I was I was someone else , I think I possibly have a disorder like borderline disorder but i’m not sure, I need to go to a doctor. I’m hopeful maybe because it was like I was some other person and not being malicious on purpose or something maybe we have hope to move on if we both go seperate ways and reconnect after healing? :’(
I’m sorry some of my writing is gibberish, I’m crying right now.
Dina K, did you not read what I wrote? I said we are not and have not been together in a typical relationship, and have not been for a while, and I wanted to know if it was possible to eventually save it AFTER the fact of us both healing. And other things you have said show me you haven’t truly read what I wrote. You really ought to read things before you respond.
*oops I meant, we have been together yes, but not together in a typical way in a while
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And to make matters worse, I just recently found out that I am pregnant! Not happy about it at ALL!!!
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Ok I have a son that is two months old. The guy that I was with we never got married. Yes, his name is on the birth certificate. He has always been very emotionally abusive to me and he has treated me horribly. It all started when I became pregnant. We moved back to Kentucky trying to have a better life for our son and so the guy I was with the baby’s father could be closer to his family. When I was pregnant I only had three pairs of maternity pants and that’s all I was aloud because he said that I didn’t need anything else. I even got clorox on a pair of the pants and he made me use a black magic marker to cover up to the clorox spot, but he would always go and get what he needed. He would even go and always get his haircut, but I had to cut my own hair. When I was 9 months pregnant he made me carry a couch and love seat because he didn’t want to ask the neighbors for help. He is horrible horrible. Plus his mother has always been horrible to me to and he aloud it. He never defended me or nothing. I was getting very tired of it. The other night I wanted to stop taking this birth control because it made me dizzy and he told me that he was going to cram the pill down my throat if I didn’t take it because he didn’t want anymore kids. That’s where I finally drew the line. I told him that he needed to start treating me better and stop the emotional abuse and start defending me against his mom. He chose not to. The house that we were living in was in my name. So, I told him that he needed to leave and go to his mom’s and bring his stuff with him. Well, he left and I went to my mom’s because I was very upset. When I went home the next morning the entire house was empty. He even took all of my stuff and the neighbors witnessed him taking everything. He totally abandoned me and my son. Left us with no money or nothing. He contacted me the next day and I told him what he did was horrible and that our son needed formula. He didn’t even offer to go and get formula, but that’s the way that it always has been. I’m the one that got all over our son’s clothes I’m the one that has got all of his formula. I’m the one that paid rent. I’m the one who has always gave our son a bath. He never even took me to any of my doctors appointments when I was pregnant. And never went to any of our son’s appointments except for one because he stayed home from work and he still didn’t want to go, but I told him that he was going to get his shots and his dad should be there so he went. Oh and I had a c-section with my son and he would make me sleep on the couch while he was in the room because he needed his sleep and didn’t want to be woken up because he said he needed his sleep for work. He only stayed up with our son three times because I just couldn’t physically go anymore. My body shut down because I was so exhausted. Well, I sent him mom a couple text messages just to let her know about her son and how horrible that he was and that he has never paid for diapers or nothing. That I was the one doing it all. Plus, I sent the father a couple text messages to. Well, she threatened to charge me with phone harassment and so did he, but i’m not sure if they actually did. So, I decided enough is enough and that I don’t need this abuse anymore and either does my son. He would even just put our son in his swing because he never wanted to hold him. Well his mom wants another baby so he decided he wants his son and take him away from me. I couldn’t afford the house that we were in without him because of him abandoning us. My parents were getting ready to move so my dad could be by his mom because she’s getting ready to die so I had no choice to go with them. I even had to sell his crib his changing table and his dresser to get money for diapers and formula. My son is very healthy he weighs 16 pounds and he’s 24 inches long. He’s big and healthy and very clean. I have always made sure of that. I even have witnesses of how bad that he has been to me. I even have proof that I paid for everything. So, to make a long story short I had no choice, but to leave the state with my family and move in with them. I’m planning on going to nursing school and become an RN. I really want to try. Plus I really need to seek counsling over this because this has been really hard for me and I know the womans shelter has counslers. He is a horrible horrible person and so is his mom. Well since I left I’m not sure if they did charge with me with phone harrassment and if they did what would that do to me? I want full custody of my son. Do you think I will get full custody of my son?? I have been hearing about these new laws for fathers. Can they charge me with kidnapping even though we are not married,but his name is on the birth certificate?? I am in desperate need of advice and help. I don’t want child support from him because he has never wanted to contribute and I don’t want someone to make him contribute. So, thanks for all the help…
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My friend is being, in a way, abused by her boyfriend and used. She is unaware of it and me and my friends who care for her have tried to tell her, but she doesn’t understand. So, as Wiccans, we have decided to resort to magic.
Now, don’t warn us of risks or that we’re "going to hell" or any of that nonsense. We know all the risks. We also know this can be considered Black Magic and we may end up getting bad karma back at us, which is where we need help.
We think we might be able to use White Magic to make her see his true colors, and give them both courage so that they both have the bravery to break up with one another… But would this still be Black Magic?
Tell me any suggestions. We really need help! We don’t want her to get hurt…
1) It’s emotional abuse
2) I thought it was again the Wiccan Rede… I was unsure. Thanks for helping.
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