The problem here is that my boyfriend currently ex now, we dated for 2 months but only saw each other once while we were dating, but we live in different towns but only 15 minutes away.
We would text eachother everyday all day and even though allot of people would think it was stupid it just seemed right, like our relatioship seemed so real we werent afraid to talk about anything and thats what i have always looked for in a guy. i was pretty sure we felt the same way for eachother and maybe i did a bit more.
He broke up with me becuase he said that we didnt get to see each other but im sure there was more too it. during our relationship he broke up with me for wrestling but it didnt last longer than a day. and another issue was his bestfriend. he started liking me and i started to like him but i stopped and never liked him more than my boyfriend.
Also my boyfriend and i had some disagreements we would fight but we always made up and figured out the problem.. when he broke up with me officially i was heart broken still am.. we got into a fight and he said some pretty bad things to me that i know i never deserved (allot of my friends think i deserve better because he isnt the greatest guy ever.)
But maybe i did but the reason i concluded to for why i love him so much and want to be with him even though he doesnt deserve me is because he is so different. at my school and around my town there are allot of guys that like me and say all of this lovey dovey stuff thinking i will love them ( they even did it when we were dating! i hate it, it means nothing to me they all say is the same thing just a different guy.)
But he never did that i mean he cared about me and it was right for me but just the way he acted made me want to be with him more. it has been 2 weeks since our break up and maybe people wont understand how this worked for what my boyfriend and I had but to me it was right and i loved that.
I need help on winning him back because i’m not sure i want to be with any other guy.
Ok, there’s this guy that i dated for a month or so, and it was long distance, but i knew him in real life and saw hiim every month or so.
I broke up with him, and he was so upset. He kept calling me and everything, for the next 2 months. I then saw him 2 months later, and i fell for him hard. He had a gf, but he said he would break up with her for me because he loved me. We would text everyday all day, and then he told me he couldn’t be with me. He led me on. Things quickly got resolved, and he broke up with his gf and started texting me, and he wanted to hook up. But he would still say he loved me. We hooked up and it was actually romantic, with kissing and all. But he said we needed more time before we got back together.
One day, he totally stopped talking to me. He got his phone taken away, and we didn’t talk for a month.
When he got his phone back, he told me to lose his number because we needed time apart, although he called and texted me later that week.
We then got in a huge argument, which was my fault, for about 3 weeks. He wouldn’t accept my apology, then one day he randomly did. He began asking to hook up again, and it wasn’t romantic anymore.
This weekend, i drove to his house and we hooked up. He texted me yesterday asking if i got home ok, but then just stopped replying. He hasnt responded since yesterday afternoon, even when i ask if hes mad. Sometimes, our phone’s don’t deliver text messages from each other, so i don’t know if he’s getting them.
I’m still so in love with him, but he’s not so much with me. He usually goes in on and off phases with me..but i want him to come back to me permanetly. What should i do?=(
MY husband and I have been married almost four years just short of two weeks. For about the last 8 months I have just felt that the flame has just burnt out. He says he loves me and I really do believe him, and I really love him. He just doesn’t make any effort to prove it. All he ever want’s to talk about is Sport’s, music, and his hobbies. Which is fine but EVERYDAY ALL DAY get’s so old. We both work full time and I don’t mind a bit taking care of him. I try my best to do most everything around the house, the only thing he has to do is take out the garbage. Which never get’s done. He just want’s to sit in front of the T.V or on the computer. Then we have the sex life. He seems to really think he’s making me happy, but it’s blah. I mean I usually try to avoid physical contact with him at this point. He says this hurts him, but he doesn’t understand how much he hurts me by constantly shutting me out.
Please someone help me out. How can I get the spark we once had back. I’ve tried reading books, being completely in tuned with his thought and hobbies nothing is working. He thinks everything is getting better but I’m the only one making an effort.
I should clarify that yes I have tried just sitting down and talking to him. We had a great heart to heart about 6 months ago. Then everything stayed the same. I realize marriage is not a game. It’s a lot of hard work. But is it to much to ask that everyone does a little work. I strongly believe in marriage and I really know he is the one im destined to be with. I just need help digging out of this rut we have hit
