I love my husband and my children dearly, and I know my kids love me, but sometimes I just get the feeling that my husband doesnt even like me let alone love me. We have been together for more than five years, married for almost 2, we have a beautiful set of twins. My husband has cheated on me, and kept it a secret for 3 years. His best friend broke down and told me, the woman he chated with was one of our good friends. So, as pay back I seduced his best friend and slept with him. Now, my husband and I are all done with that, but I think he thinks I hurt him more but I think him keeping his affair a secret for three years was worse. I made my mistake, and told him about it, I didnt try to hide it. But he thinks I did the worse of the two evils. Now I dont even think he loves me at all, we fight about our past infidelity all the time. He doesnt see that what I did was just for revenge.. Am I right here or does anyone even see my point? and how do I make my hubby love me again?
I might add, he cheated b/c I just had a c-section and couldn;t physically have sex, b/c I was bleeding for 8 weeks, he couldn’t live without it…
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What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happened to be a friend. Really confusing behavior! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just joined somewhere that i go to…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. saying post or would you like to meet in person? but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
Bumped into him again last night, he asked if i wanted to go for coffee before xmas and said i was looking hot. He also came straight over and asked if the person paying me attention was my new partner (it wasn’t)
Keeps getting in touch in small ways since.. but is very proud and doesnt like to admit they are wrong
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What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do?
Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other?
But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a friend. Really confusing behaviour! They ended the relationship several months back. They keep warming to me and running!
they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. I do want to work things out.
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What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happened to be a friend. Really confusing behavior! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just joined somewhere that i go to…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. saying post or would you like to meet in person? but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
Bumped into him again last night, he asked if i wanted to go for coffee before xmas and said i was looking hot. He also asked if the person i was with, was my new partner (just a friend)
Thanks in advance 
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What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a friend. Really confusing behaviour! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just started to hang out in places where i go…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
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