This explains our whole situation:
I need advice and BIG help please.

My boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. For two weeks I knew something was wrong. The first week, every time I looked in his eyes I saw that he had love for me. But his actions were changing. He didn’t feel as close to me. The second week I wasn’t able to see him because we didn’t have school that whole week. And I was scared because I knew I wouldn’t talk nor see him.

But when he broke up with me, he said loved and that I was perfect. But he doesn’t know whats going on with himself. I even said I could help him and were in a relationship and we get through this. We’ve never had a fight before and I think this situation could be handled. I’m trying to refrain from talking to him, but I can’t help it. I sent him a text, explaining the situation and how I don’t think he should give us up. He didn’t reply and I didn’t persist on bugging him.

He told me that he’s messed up in the head right now and doesn’t know what to do. We’ve only been together four months. And all his relationships lasted at least a month or less but he wasn’t on fault. They broke up with him and I’ve had one other relationship that lasted four years. He’s been my friend for awhile. We weren’t close like best friends, but we were friends. And now being with him was the happiest day of my life. There wasn’t a second I was sad with him and he was the same. He told me that I’m the girl he’s been waiting for and how he’s mad that he didn’t see me sooner. That he’s happy with me and he wants us to last because he loves me. And I wanted the same! I was going to do whatever I could to keep that. Four months sounds short, but it’s longer than you think. I fell for that boy fast. . and I’m sure it’s meant for us to be together. I never had this connection with anyone else before. But ever since he joined the play(He’s usually a techi), but he finally got casted. This is our senior year and I was proud of him. But unfortunately he didn’t have time for me and he was drifting. I have a feeling he’s distracted with school and the play, college, etc. Since our drama teacher takes lives away, until the play is over. Hah.

My friend told me he told her, that he was losing feeling and that he didn’t know what to do. We use to hang out a lot but when the play started I hardly ever saw him. So that changed and I think that’s why it feels different for him.

But how can I get him back?
We had this connection and the break up was out of no where. I’m 18 and I know what I’m talking about for once in my life, I want no one but him and I’m willing to make it work.
Do you think this could be temporary? I want to show him that I want to be with him and that I love him. I don’t want to pretend, I want him to see. But I want to refrain from texting him a lot. . .but show that I can be his friend too. . . Guys! If you broke up with your girl because you’re stressed and you don’t think you have time for her? But she wanted you back and was willing to make it work? What would go through your mind? Do you think if he has these strong feelings for me, that he’ll want me too? I don’t doubt it and I’m not in denial either.

Sorry for making it long! But I need serious help, it sucks.

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How can i get my ex-boyfriend back?

Can I make everything just to be fine again?

The problem here is that my boyfriend currently ex now, we dated for 2 months but only saw each other once while we were dating, but we live in different towns but only 15 minutes away.

We would text eachother everyday all day and even though allot of people would think it was stupid it just seemed right, like our relatioship seemed so real we werent afraid to talk about anything and thats what i have always looked for in a guy. i was pretty sure we felt the same way for eachother and maybe i did a bit more.

He broke up with me becuase he said that we didnt get to see each other but im sure there was more too it. during our relationship he broke up with me for wrestling but it didnt last longer than a day. and another issue was his bestfriend. he started liking me and i started to like him but i stopped and never liked him more than my boyfriend.

Also my boyfriend and i had some disagreements we would fight but we always made up and figured out the problem.. when he broke up with me officially i was heart broken still am.. we got into a fight and he said some pretty bad things to me that i know i never deserved (allot of my friends think i deserve better because he isnt the greatest guy ever.)

But maybe i did but the reason i concluded to for why i love him so much and want to be with him even though he doesnt deserve me is because he is so different. at my school and around my town there are allot of guys that like me and say all of this lovey dovey stuff thinking i will love them ( they even did it when we were dating! i hate it, it means nothing to me they all say is the same thing just a different guy.)

But he never did that i mean he cared about me and it was right for me but just the way he acted made me want to be with him more. it has been 2 weeks since our break up and maybe people wont understand how this worked for what my boyfriend and I had but to me it was right and i loved that.

I need help on winning him back because i’m not sure i want to be with any other guy.

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How do you tell your ex-boyfriend you want him back in your life and you can’t live without him?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I realize now that it was the wrong thing to do. We both are still in love with one another and he is a year older than me.

I really want to tell him myself not get his bestfriend to do it.

How do I tell him without sounding like a corny idiot ?

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my boyfriend of a year and a half was going behind my back with other girls, taking them out to lunch, massages in class, that kinda thing. we’ve been texting cus i cant seem to get over him. whats a good way to resist the urge to text him back?

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Girls, how did you get your ex boyfriend back?

We had been going out for just under 2 years, he broke it off, we hadn’t cheated or anything like that.

We broke up because of argument.

What did you do do get him back?

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I broke up with him around this time last year. We had been going out for 2 in a half years and I spontaneously decided to end it all because at that point in my life I didn’t want to be attached. I was 18 years old and starting college, a new job, and viewed my ex as un ambitious. All he would ever do is want to stay home and be with me, never really going out to hang with friends, and feeling down on himself for having the job he had. He was a wonderful artist and I tried to be a supportive and encouraging girlfriend by telling him to pursue a career in the field. Yet lack of funds was the reason he said he couldn’t live out his dream. I tried accepting this but found that I might be growing out of him. I also wanted to experience other relationships since he had been my first, and though I loved him I found myself growing more detached. Spending less and less time with him even though he kept reaching out. I broke his heart and he eventually gave me back everything that was ours to cope with the break up, cutting me out completely. At that time this didn’t faze me. He came to my door step with the box and I could care less. I felt relieved, or so I thought. We didn’t talk much for 8 months, maybe passing one another since my little brother and he were such great pals and didn’t let our break up end their friendship. Eventually after working and going to school nonstop, boys being the last thing on my mind the summer hits. I find myself infatuated like I once was with my ex on a new guy. He’s a graphic designer and aspiring filmmaker, extremely driven and confident. All I can do is think about him. He seems to me to be the next best thing. Eventually we hang out (not an official date I had no idea what his intentions were, he was very hard to read) with a few of his friends and I find him to be the most obnoxious individual. He practically ignored me the whole time while being an entertainer to his audience; he thrived off of the attention I could tell. One of two questions I can remember being:

"What do you want to do with your life?"

This was such a turn off; a mutual feeling I later find out. He thought I was too quiet and smelled of tuna! I hate tuna. We go on to not talk for two months, and yet even then I didn’t think of my ex. Eventually The new guy starts to talk to me again and even though I was so disgusted by his previous behavior I still find myself immensely sexually attracted to him. That’s all I wanted from him. Funny thing is he was looking for a girlfriend and found a way of convincing me to be with him otherwise. I figured ok I like this guy why not give it a shot? From then on it has been a rollercoaster. Nothing like when I was with my ex. One day this blokes happy with me the next he’s unsure about our relationship. So eventually I end up feeling lonely within my own relationship because I don’t feel good about it. Where did all my confidence go? Sure I may have felt inhibited because he’d ask me "why are you so shy?" "I wish you’d contribute more to the conversation." I have never felt so much pressure in a relationship. Like if I don’t please, I can be dropped at any given time. So for the time being I had been unhappy, yet the messing around was great. What a trade off, not worth it at all when I look at it, but within the moment it’s a whole other game. All I could think about was how to sort the issues in my head over this relationship in a mature manner. Work out all the small things and focused on what we have that’s great. All I could think of was our similar tastes in music, movies, and fooling around. Sure we had conversations but for the most part they were short and the fooling around was to the point not long after. Than he’d tell me I got to get back to story boarding birdbrain. I’d be there reading a book instead of getting to know anything about him. My excuse was that he’s really trying to get this short film done before Sundance, don’t worry about it. And eventually things did turn around with a few hiccups, but on a trip back from Ohio I found out that my ex was going out with a new girl and the last thing that has been on my mind for the past month isn’t my new boyfriend. My brother disclosed to me some information that my ex was going out with a girl that we formerly couldn’t stand. When we were together we would actually make fun of her amongst ourselves. She was just such a typical high school girl. Going out to parties all the time, drinking, taking in controlled substances, bisexual one minute, straight the next. She was a total nut. Now he is with her. I really needed someone to talk too when hearing all this. So I wrote an email to a mutual friend of ours who still hung out with him. And I explained everything to her. It than finally hit me that he had moved on. Though I was in my own relationship (not much of one actually) I still had this terrible pain in my stomach thinking that he’s with her of all people. I didn’t care if she told anybody (we we

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my now ex boyfriend dumped me yesterday (he txt my friend 2 tell me!!) and i want 2 know how i can get back at him, i just really want to piss him off (yer i know its mean but come on gettin 1 of my friends 2 tell me from a txt!!) so what should i do (nothin involving me driving coz i kinda don’t hav a licence yet, but can involve others driving)

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What do you do if you keep going back to your ex boyfriend?

I dated this boi for about 5months then we broke up for like 3 days and then we started dating again then 3 weeks after that we broke up again and noe 2 weeks later were going back out…?

No matter who eles i like i cant get him outta my head waz it ment?

Do i need to give up? PLZ HELP ME!!!

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I might already know this answer and I shouldn’t be asking but I want to make sure I’m right….I’ve been scarred by many of my relationships and because of it, I’ve sworn off males, I don’t want to date them, I don’t want to see them, nothing pertaining to them. So my ex IM’s me the other day and I feel like we’re back at square one as to when we first started talking again after we split up. We flirted, he started developing feelings, and I just wanted to wrap him around my finger. I’m at that point again where I’m flirting hard core to where he’ll get wrapped around my finger annoy me and we’ll get mad and stop talking to each other…..Why can’t I just leave well enough alone? I like just being friends with him and not developing feelings, not trying to have anyone wrapped around my finger. Why do I do it ??
No we’ve told each other we’re better off as friends….And I told him we’d be flirting and everything in 2 weeks like we were before and he didn’t agree or disagree. I don’t know, I don’t know what to do, I want the attention, I rather him stay away but I feel bad because I know he has no one else to talk or lean onto.
Also he doesn’t really do anything for me but I think I like playing the game…Knowing if I really wanted to, I could control the situation and I’d be happy. How sad am I ?? *LoL*

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Just a few months ago it came to my attention that my girlfriend got back in contact with an ex boyfriend of hers that lives out of state, when confronted she claims that he found her on social networking (i.e. Facebook, and/or Myspace, and that there is noting funny going on.Aparently they are back to being friends automatically after we got into an arguement one weekend a few months ago, My girlfriends b-day passed in June, Her Ex has been staying in touch once every so often they would text and talk, One time according to my girlfriend they were on the phone for 3 hours.. They went a while without talking, but its funny whenever my girlfriend gets mad at me he comes back into the talk and texting picture with her.. She had asked me yesterday if we received a package at our PO box that we share, I said I have not seen anything.. She quickly advised me that he ex had sent over a belated b-day gift and it was returned to him RTS (Return to Sender) She asked me if I had rejected delivery.. I DID NOT!!! Now the gift is on the way and I dont quite know how to handle the situation, I did not reject delivery or even see a package come to us, nor will i reject it. She claims she loves me.. and we have and are still having our share of typical relationship issues. I also love her and dont want to lose her. But i feel that this is the top to the lid, As well one week ago he wired 80.00 into her bank account to help her buy college books, I did not have the money to give her so she called him for it. and this really bothered me.. She was able to find some money using another means and I advised her to return it, She supposely did!! She told me last night when I asked her ( why are you still talking to your ex and wanting to accept money and gifts from him) she simply answers" (Its none of your concern what I do or who I am talking to, I can talk to anybody and do whatever I want and you cannot control that.. )

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a few months ago i broke up with my boyfriend because we were not seeing eachother that much cause i had my plans he had his.but now i relize i still have feelings for him.but the thing is we are moving a way next week and when ever i call to eaither tell him we are moving or to get him back he hangs up instantly.

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

My ex boyfriend and i dated for 10 months and we’ve been broken up for around 5 months now. I miss him so much and him and I are still good friends.

I dated another guy after him but dumped him after 3 weeks cuz he just wasnt like my ex boyfriend. and now he says he might like another girl but he tells me that he doesnt really care if he gets her or not. In fact, he doesnt want any serious relationships anymore and he just wants to have fun.

So how do i get him to like me and want me back? Is there any way i can make him regret leaving me? Apparently we broke up cuz “he needed his space and missed spending time with the guys”. So what can I do?

He’s still attracted to me and he always tells me that he wishes he could kiss me and sometimes i let him and i know i shouldnt =(

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Ok So its been a while since the break up between me and my ex whom I was dating for a year and a few months. He dumped me at the end of Summer over some stupid reason. I am Soo Heartbroken and I still love him He was my first in alot of things,but If it wasnt for my best friend I dont know how I would have gotten over it..She know everything about us. She was there for me right..

WRONG..

At first she was only talking to him,and I tryed to not let that bug me..As much.
But for the next few weeks theyve been talking and stuff and like then next thing I know She lies to me and is
DATING MY EX BOYFRIEND?!! She went behind my back saying she was doing school stuff when really she was flirting with HIM?!

And dont get me wrong I have tryed to date but I just get rejected every single time and I still love him so much!

And now my friend isnt talking to me anymore. When I found out the rumores where true. SHe stopped talking to me..

And I never thought she would do such a thing..

I feel so betrayed, heartbroken, mad, and even sick. I hate seeing them at school together I have every class with them, And it hurts So Much I cant stop crying like every day!

There planning double dates infront of me and flirt infront of me, it hurts to feel so invisible and alone..I dont know what to do?

I still have feelings for him, But my so called friend lied to me and is now dating him and it PISSES ME OFF!!!

What do I do?

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How do I get my ex boyfriend back?

I finished with my bf but now thinking ive made a mistake.

How do i go about trying to get back with him.

Sent him a msg last nite but got no reply (he’s on vacation)

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About a year ago we broke up because i wanted to see what it was like to be single. I loved him so much 6 years together. I started dating somebody else for 1 year but talked to my ex the whole time. He tried getting back with me i wanted to but didnt. He move accross the state because i wouldnt take him back. Im single now and realize i love him more than ever. How do i get him to believe me that i really want to be with him?

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How Do I Get My Ex-Boyfriend Back?

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a little over 7 months ago, and now were just friends with benefits. I still love him and want to be with him again.

We live 2 hours apart so it’s kinda hard to get together much.

What do I do to get him back?

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We dated about three months then he broke up with me, then he hit rock bottom and has since "sobered up". It’s been about three months since we broke up. It hasn’t been that long since he quit drinking altogether. Then, he called me recently and wants to be with me. I still have strong feelings for him. I don’t want to get hurt again but I really care a lot for him. We are both in our mid-30’s. He said he quit drinking and is going to go to AA. Should I proceed with caution or wait till he’s been sober for a while?

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He tells me he thinks of me all the time and wishes it was me he was with. But he told me she pretty much has him on a leash!! What do i do. I know in my heart he still loves me and i still love him. Its soo heart breaking!
They live together and he says he wishes he could break up with her but he says its not that easy!

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I recently had a boyfriend and I still have feelings for him but one of my best freinds started dating him about a week after we broke up because she went to the movies with a bunch of our other frends and she made out with him but 2 days before she went she told me that she wouldn’t flirt with him anymore because she knew that I still liked him and she thought we would be a good couple I don’t know what to do and I really need some good advice!

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I want my ex boyfriend back!

Me and my ex were together for 10 months, from July 2008 till the beginning of June of 2009. Anyways, he broke up with me in May and he has a new girlfriend and I got a new boyfriend but I don’t love him nearly as much as my ex and we might break up soon.

My boyfriend is still with his girlfriend and in the beginning he was faithful to her (at least with me) and he never did anything. Until about one month ago we were chilling (cause we’re still friends) and he started making out with me.

It didn’t go as far as sex but he took the top off and everything. And then last week, we were just chilling, smoking together and when I left he gave me a hug like he always use to and then kissed me. And again today, when I left he kissed me like it was a short make out kinda thing.

And we are supposed to see each other on Monday cause of something he has to give me and he was like “So are you gonna be busy on Tuesday afterwards? and I was like “No, we can chill if anything” and he smiled and he’s like “Ok.”

What do you guys think I should do? I love him so much and I want him like no one else.

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Me and my ex boyfriend have been on and off since September we broke up in January then we didn’t see each other for three weeks and didn’t speak to each other but we do attend the same college..i really accepted the break up in January and have been trying to move on …i did miss him of course then i got a text message of him saying he misses me then he asked me to see him the next day i did and we went out for a meal and he told me that he dont wanna loose me and hes sorry about us breaking up so many times before…so i thought he would change so we gave it another shot …our problem was when we argued we never sorted it out he would be very horrible to me and make me cry and tell me it was my problem that i was upset and i get myself worked up over stupid things…but he said he will change..
two days after we fall out…everything that he promised he wouldnt do when we would he did again!!WE BROKE UP.but we fell out over something very stupid so next day cos i didnt want us to end so soon i went to his house to apologise for arguing and that i dont wanna loose him just yet…but he said that we will never work and he doesnt think he has any feelings left towards this relationship…and the reason why he wanted to get back the other day cos he had the last drop of hope left…but the thing is he said that every single time we broke up ..that we will never ever work..his feelings changed ..which is been goin on since september so he would break up with me then come running back…if he dont have any feelings left why he comes running back to me??

Well anyway cos we go the same college together i dont know how to act round him..i feel like he messed me about so much that i have bitter feelings for him ..i feel like i hate him…so i kinda wanna get back at him and show him that i can do better and that he lost out on mee..how do i do that??I still kinda miss him cos hes been part of my life but i know how much he hurt me just isnt right…

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yeah…he left me for a girl that he got back together with the same exact day as he left me….the problem is that my ex lives on the other side of the world and can’t see all the guys who ask me out or anything!!!
all he can see are photos, webcam, and know what i tell him.
he loves music/is a musician
he always talks about kissing his new gf or tells me how much he loves her right before he says "good bye" and the worst part is that i don’t have a bf because i don’t like anyone at my school nor the guys who have asked me out…but i don’t want him to think that i’m a loser(cuz he can’t see how my life is in CA.)…
i wanna show him up for always trying to make me feel jealous and depressed.
what can i do from this far away?
i’m moving back in around 2 years.xD
what should i do???
please help!!!
best answer gets TEN hott juicy points AND a sexy thumbs up!!!
please help!!!
thnx
xao=]

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My friend wants to get back at her ex and we need help now!!!! He tries to make her jelouse by flirting with his ex girlfriend and tells her about it and he still knows she still likes him,and he is stupid and cute

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I want my ex boyfriend back!

Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy.

We were extremely close to eachother and our familys and we both really loved eachother. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week.

We still kiss eachother and “hookup” and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public.

I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feeling for him, he listened to me and said he needed to think.

So the other day i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said “Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out.” is this a good thing?

How can i get him back?

:/

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